this is pretty fantastic

anonymous asked:

Urgent! So I am agender, but I don't like my boobs/curves. I have two questions... Is that weird/normal? Also how can I bind/hide subtly? (I'm not out to my parents yet)

That is totally normal. Some agender people are fine with their curves, some aren’t. There’s no “right” or “wrong” way to be agender.

As for binding, the best option is to always invest in a proper, safe binder, so as to lessen the risk of injury. However, that is not always possible. Sports bras are always a favourite go-to option, as you can usually acquire them without question from parents, and they do flatten the chest a bit. I’ve seen some people say you can bind with two sports bras at a time, but I’d use caution here.

There’s also dance bras, which I hear are pretty fantastic for this sort of thing! They flatten more to allow for easier dancing/ballet. 

Also, you can take a pair of ties, cut off the legs a little below the crotch, cut a hole in it, and use it as a binder. Then the leg holes become arm holes, the hole you cut in the crotch becomes the head hole, and since it’s tights, it should bind.

Monday 8:27am
I woke up with you on my mind.
You called me babe last night —
my heart is still pounding.

Tuesday 10:53pm
Today I realized we won’t work.
What we are is hurting her.
And I think she matters more to me than you do.

Wednesday 11:52pm
I broke things off with you today.
She barely said a word.
I’ve never regretted anything more than this.

Thursday 4:03pm
I shouldn’t have sent that message.
You shouldn’t have been so okay with receiving it.

Friday 9:57pm
I almost messaged you today.
I didn’t.

Saturday 8:49pm
I’m walking around town in search of alcohol.
They say that liquor numbs the pain of having a broken heart.
I want to put that to the test.

Sunday 2:32am
I heard you texted a girl you’ve never spoken to before.
I wonder if it’s because you’re trying to replace me.
I can’t help but wish you weren’t.
I thought I was irreplaceable.

—  a week with you on my mind, c.j.n.
We throw around the word never likes its nothing but a small rose petal. The word never is a doubled edged sword. On one side it says ‘I will never leave you’ and on the other it says ‘I will never love you.’
—  The Word Never