My husband and I worked together at a well known bookstore. I was in the back offices doing special orders and he worked on the floor. We had been married for about five years and had a two year old at the time of a big work party celebrating an author's new book. We showed up together with our daughter and everyone was surprised! They knew we were each married, but not to each other. This is why I can remain so calm when it comes to Cait and Sam.
This is great, thank you for sharing :) I know that situation with Sam&Cait is different, but you can be together and keep it private in the show business too. For example
Jeffrey Dean Morgan and Hilarie Burton have been together since 2009, but they tend to keep their romance pretty private. Aside from the occasional red carpet outing, these two don’t step out together too often. But when they do, they always have a good time (like, a really good time). In addition to the Walking Dead actor constantly goofing around and making Hilarie laugh, the One Tree Hill actress frequently plants sweet kisses on her man (and that nuzzling in his neck? FORGET ABOUT IT). The pair, who welcomed son Augustus in March 2010, are so protective of their personal life that they’ve never confirmed if they’re married or not (they probably are). While it can sometimes get annoying when couples are overly gushy in public, these two are just so damn cute because they genuinely seem like best friends.