something that speaks to the loneliness and self-deprecation intrinsic to bi women’s lives is that we understand our position in relation to straight men, we despise straight men for brutalizing us, and we know that our dynamic with straight men/attraction to men in general is extremely complex, whereas straight women don’t have this same view of and understanding of their relation and attraction to men
So i was at the mall with my grandmother ( Japanese grandmother) and we went in the shoe store! So I was waiting for her to pick out shoes until she went to register and the person ( I think he was a female before) that was working there was like dressed up and looked more and acted like a male. But on his name tag was a more female name. And my grandmother asked “. Hello! I’m sorry but would you rather be noticed and called sir or m'am?” She said in a really nice way to and the worked said “ sir please ” so then my grandmother nodded and they were chatting for a while! So my grandma got her shoes and said “ goodbye sir!” And damn he had the happiest smile.
So then we were walking out the mall and she said “ I think that man had a beautiful and kind heart and soul.”
Gosh I love her :,) and I loved the look on that workers face.
Two, grueling, long, difficult weeks later, you decided to let Diana visit Spence. Fiona had pulled some strings and allowed the visit. You sat in there and waited for Spencer, still not exactly over his little outburst from last time. But you did miss him, even if right now he was setting you on edge.
Everyone on the team tried to get you to visit him, tried to call and tell you how he was. But you didn’t want to hear it. You told them if they tried any more you would block them. JJ had come over and asked what happened, you told her and she completely sympathized. Garcia had come over one night to cook.
I tried to tell Quincy that we were standing in front of natural treasure and that we should appreciate it. He continued to pose with this vaguely indifferent expression, effectively rendering all of my photos useless.
You’ve had a lot taken away from you, Jace. But that’s all over now. You come from a line of great and powerful Shadowhunters. From a family that has been revered for generations and feared by those who oppose all that is good and just. Now, my boy, you are about to find out what it means to be a Herondale.