this is me abusing the tag system

Please help.

Hi I know its not really likely anyone can help me but is there anyone in the northern california area (around san francisco) that would be willing to take in a 16 year old genderfluid kid with undiagnosed bpd, stpd, a system, and diagnosed adhd and anxiety? im in a really bad situation in my home and am borderline not allowed to show emotion. i only have any privacy due to me repeatedly breaking rules to the point where my parents got fed up with telling me not to (for example, i am not supposed to lock my door or take my phone/electronics into my room, but i do anyway), and my stepmom would get angry at me whenever i cried when i was younger, as it was “childish”. i know that i dont really deserve this, and my situation isnt nearly as bad as others, but i really could use the help…

@ Antis

Antis: *Post in the shipping tag sometimes more often than shippers just to get their hate across loud and clear*

Antis: *Shocked when shipping blogs are recommended to them by tumblr recognizing that they post in that tag*

Antis: *Names their blog something like ship name is dead*

Antis: *Absolutely appalled tumblr would assume they like the pairing just cause the system picked up on their url*

Antis: *Hates on innocent people shipping OOC non problematic things, then wonders why people hate them back*

Antis: *Accuses people of normalizing abuse, while they normalize being bullies to everyone in the tag rather than talking with the specific people that are the problem*

Antis: *Wastes their life running a blog about something they hate when they could focus on something they actually like instead*


On that note, lemme rant about Brallie, and how much of an unhealthy relationship it really, truly is.

This almost put me off the show goddammit.

Like, in the first season (and throughout a great deal of the second season) Brandon’s an asshole. He knows most of Callie’s background. He knows about Ian. And more importantly, he also know the rules of the Foster system and that relationships between Foster siblings are more or less…forbidden. For good reason too.

And he just doesn’t give a shit. He’s only thinking about himself rather than Callie, who he claims to “love.” If he really cared about Callie, he would have stayed in his lane during that very first conversation in the very first season. But no. He still went after Callie, to the point where Stef and Lena had to file a restraining order over it.

Guess what? He still goes after her anyway.

Callie’s not entirely innocent, either, but I find her to be less at fault for this mostly because of her backstory. She’s experienced abuse in the Foster system for years, and I imagine the second she gets to experience love - any kind of love - she’s going to go after it. Not to mention, she told Brandon no at least…twice?? before giving in, so…yeah.

Brandon gets better over season two and what I’ve seen of three, though. He matures and I actually grew to genuinely like his character. I thought Brallie was ready to die.

But nope.

I mean, many people say they don’t ship Brallie because it’s incest. I hate the ship with a burning passion, but I don’t see it as quite incest. But I do see it as selfish, destructive, abusive relationship with the potential to divide the entire rest of Stef and Lena’s family. It’s already done that once, in fact, when Callie had to stay at GU (and I love the episodes with GU - Rita’s fucking awesome - but really). If Brandon and Callie’s relationship didn’t involve such nonsense - and it was better written - I may support it. But it doesn’t.

“But you signed up for Brallie when you started watching the Fosters!11 That’s what it’s about!”

I’m pretty sure I signed up for a show about an interracial lesbian couple with a mixed family, but yah knoooooooo.

“But it’s love - just like Jonner and Stef and Lena!”

Now, in all seriousness, as much as I like to joke about it, I actually don’t hate heterosexuality. I do hate how the shippers of an abusive heterosexual relationship compare that ship to non-abusive gay ships, though.

“But they BANGED!”

While I’m sure that Callie and Brandon love each other, any romantic/sexual relationship they have is…selfish and abusive. Callie needs a family. Brandon needs to stop thinking with his dick. It’s a relationship that also makes Callie miserable and effects everyone around them.

And fuck ABC Family/Freeform/The writer’s for romanticizing this bullshit.

the system: displays abusive behaviors to me throughout the whole 8 months, getting worse towards the end

me, in return: lashes out (in reaction to being abused!) in very very very midlly abusive ways which i accept i did and am working to change

the system: everything was noah’s fault he hurt us constantly and we did nothing wrong and hes overreacting

like okay lol yall literally displayed some of the same behaviors that my main abuser did but that’s none of my business 🐸☕
And now these three remain - Kat2107 - The Musketeers (2014) [Archive of Our Own]
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
By Organization for Transformative Works

Chapters: 17/?
Fandom: The Musketeers (2014)
Rating: Explicit
Warnings: Graphic Depictions Of Violence
Relationships: Cahusac/OC (yes that´s Kyele’s Cahusac), Armand Jean du Plessis de Richelieu/de Tréville (Jean-Armand du Peyrer), Bernajoux/Boisrenard
Characters: Cahusac, Bernajoux, Boisrenard, Adele Besset, OC’s, Armand Jean du Plessis de Richelieu, de Tréville (Jean-Armand du Peyrer), Jussac, Several Inquisitors, Red Guards
Additional Tags: Alternate Universe - Dystopia, Racism, Sexism, Parental Death, Alpha/Beta/Omega Dynamics, Transphobia, Systemic Oppression, References to Hate crims, Religion, Religion based oppression, Endangerment of Children, references to sexual abuse of children, References to Miscarriage, References to Torture, references to sexual abuse, unrepentant abuse of historical facts, This is a love story, please let me know if you are missing anything, Internalized racism

“Not long after that, Cahusac locks eyes with a reckless Betan woman who firebombs an Inquisitorial depot in Lyon.” - Kyele, Ye Heirs of Glory

Set in a Dystopian AU where Alphas and Omegas are aggressively hunted and persecuted by Church and Inquisition.

Cahusac is an Alpha, Lieutenant of the Resistance and the Red Guards, both of which are, funny enough, not mutually exclusive.
Jeanne Durand is a midwife, born of mixed parentage, she leads a sheltered life, helping the people she considers hers in silence.
Until they come for her family.

He likes the nice things in life.
She is angry.

It´s a match made in heaven.

we can take accountability for our words while also affirming our right to respect and dignity from our peers in the SJ community. dont come to my inbox calling me a piece of shit or using any other demeaning, abusive language. i dont care who you are. and dont accept such language from other folx either. we have got to start creating a culture of dignity and empathy around issues of social justice on here because im tired of seeing our communities mimic the same dehumanizing, abusive patterns of the systems we’re supposed to be resisting. respect other people, respect yourself, and don’t settle for anything less.

A lady just yelled at me in the hotel Fedex because she thought I worked there and was incensed that a hotel would charge actual money for copies. “I have never in my life seen a hotel charge money to make just a few copies.”

a) I don’t fucking work here as evidenced by my distinct lack of a fucking uniform or name tag and you should probably at least courteously ask if someone is being paid not-enough money to take your verbal abuse before you unleash it.

b) Have you never been to ANY hotel in the capitalist system because literally all of them charge money for goods and services it’s how things fucking work especially at FED FUCKING EX.

c) Unless you’re talking to an old white executive dude wearing his Decisionmaking Suit there is literally no need to be a dick to anyone ever about product pricing especially the people that have to put up with your sorry ass because they have ZERO CONTROL over this decision that has rendered your life sooooooooo difficult.

d) It took every ounce of self control in my body not to call you out for being a Cuntwrap Supreme and if I’d had a few more hours of sleep and didn’t feel so DEFEATED by the HOPELESSNESS of MAN’S SISYPHEAN STRUGGLE TO EVOLVE I would have done so.