Ok so it always annoys me when people think Jon hates Sansa or is written that way. Jon thinks of Sansa rarely but when he does he moons about how radiant she is. Uses her advise to talk to a girl. Thinks about how she would find the Wall pretty. And remembers her singing with fondness. He’s the only character that comes to mind that likes her singing.
I’m not saying that they were close or anything but his tone has always been respectful and he has thought of her with fondness. He didn’t think ‘stupid Sansa with her stupid songs’. He thought Sansa my sis has some pretty rad musical skills. One of his favourite memories of her is her singing and brushing Lady’s fur.
Please stop doing this thing where Jon repeats or thinks the same rhetoric as Sansa’s abusers. I’ve seen this thing where people apply other characters thoughts of Sansa onto Jon and it needs to stop. There is literally no canon basis that Jon ever hated or found Sansa annoying or stupid. There is nothing to support the claim that Jon hated Sansa’s songs. The same could be said for Sansa. Neither of them hated each other.Not only does it cause us to fall into the same trap in thinking that Sansa’s is a stupid little girl. Its just not something Jon would do.
Were they distant? Yes.
Was Sansa haughty at times? Yes?Would they be awkward af around each other when they next meet? Hell yeah.
However, just because these statements are true does not mean that they ever hated the other. They didn’t.