- My Wife: I had a really surreal conversation with two thirty-year-old male customers today.
- Me, cautious and expecting misogyny: Oh? What about?
- My Wife: How Mr. Snuffleupagus is a metaphor for god. SO FIRST OFF we started talking about Muppets...
I'm not trying to start discourse but as a Cis queer/ace person, your quote "how am i able to tell, just by talking to somebody once, if they are transphobic or not? is it not just easier to be afraid of them all, and be hesitant, rather than to die at the hands of a cis person?" really sounds like someone saying "how can I tell, just by talking to somebody once, if they are an ISIS extremist or not? better to be afraid of all Muslims than die at the hands of one"