this is heavy rly

or uhm. before link can even get himself wound up like tht , bc fr the most part its ok usually n kinda fun but. sometimes it frustrates link bc he doesnt want to be that restless and full of excess energy or hes just not receiving enough Stimulation so he starts doing self injurious stims whch r. Bad bc hes stronger than he thnks esp like this , sidon will !! hug hm rly tight !! lotsa good pressure n Heavy !!! so tht it brings hm down n keeps hm calm :0

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never thought i’d make an Angst ™ comic starring tome, yet here i am. 

damn u ONE…..ur good

okay, so before that clip dropped and we all (understandable) lost our shits, i was thinking about deckerstar and what i see some (not all) of the fandom saying lately. this is gonna be long.

one of the things that i have seen a few times is that lucifer is selfish and chloe deserves better than him cause he left her. the thing is, one of my favorite aspects of this show is that things aren’t ever truly black or white. like, was it fucked up and unfair to chloe that he left (especially when he did) and didn’t say anything? yes. should she be pissed? yes. but that doesn’t mean that we can’t look at what lucifer has gone though (literally hell and back) and understand why he is doing what he’s doing. you know the biggest obstacle that lucifer and chloe are facing right now is that there is so much of the story that she just doesn’t know. if you look at it from her point of view, he just up and left, “married” someone else, because he’s an asshole. but we, as an audience, know that it isn’t that simple. i’m not even gonna address candy, because i think that is a smoke screen for their real issues.

earlier i found this post, an interview from wondercon where the showrunners basically say exactly what i feel. what joe said that really hit me in the feels bone was “in his mind, he’s in a protective mode of her because how he feels is that if god sent her, she has no choice in her feelings so they’re not real. and that’s not fair to her. so he’s like “how do i break this, how do i undo? how do i undo it for her sake?” she doesn’t deserve to have been put on a burden called lucifer. she was put on his path, she deserves to make her own choice but how do you do that when she is sort of chosen to love you but… it’s that ultimate conundrum. for somebody who is about free will, that’s his thing, that’s all he is.” and it just fucked. me. up. cause even though he hurt her, it’s not out of any place of malice (which doesn’t make it okay) it’s because he wants her to have a choice. he wants her to be free. he has the utmost respect for her and thinks she truly deserves the best. which he thinks is in no way him. and it’s not even just this, cause on the beach before she kissed him he made it clear that he feels unworthy or her, and now that was just confirmed to him, and he probably feels rather shameful that he ever though she could actually love him of her own free will. which she does! but he has so much self-loathing and so much anger towards his father that he just can’t see it. he doesn’t get it. why would she love him? and even though we know he is heartbroken and in pain, his real and only concern is her. it’s always her. so i see people saying luci is being selfish, it’s like the opposite is true.

but on the flip side, it’s not fair to her either cause she doesn’t have the full story and therefore how can she make her own choice? he doesn’t really see that he’s not giving her one.  shouldn’t he let her decide if she wants to be with him once she knows? and i think when she does find out the truth, if she is mad at him for anything it’d be that. cause chloe does love him, and her feelings are real (as the writers confirmed) but now she feels betrayed by this person that she trusted. but she doesn’t know the extent of what he has done for her. and that all comes down to his fear of her rejecting him if he shows her his true face. the thing is, i don’t think she will react the way he thinks she will. i don’t think she’ll drop him out of her life, run scared or any of those things. she wouldn’t be human if she weren’t shaken by it, and what it entails - but i do think that in her gut she knows who he really is already. i think she senses it, and i think she more or less understands who he is even if she can’t accept it as truth yet.

but someday she will, and i do think it’s hurtling towards that soon. then it’s like, if chloe was put in his path - i don’t actually think it’s that simple either - she’s gonna see the whole picture and that’s gonna change how she perceives his actions toward her. also, once she knows who he is, and once she knows what he has done for her, it’ll be so massively clear to her how much he loves her and maybe luci is afraid of that a bit too. like, “hey no big deal but i killed my brother to save you and it made me suicidal and i’m traumatized by it. not to mention i have also died and went to hell and back for you. twice.” he couldn’t possibly down play that. and that, really, i think is what would forever change their relationship.

basically i’m saying yeah, luci fucked up. but he fucked up for the right reasons. with the right intentions. and chloe is pissed, but she’s pissed cause she doesn’t know any of his intentions. he’s keeping this massive, massive part of his life from her and you cannot have a full relationship based on that, which is why people wanting them together now kinda confuses me? they have a long way to go, but i know it’s gonna be such a good journey, you guys. just think of chloe learning the extent of lucifer’s love for her, think of the relief lucifer will feel when he learns/accepts her feelings are real. they’re gonna truly come home to each other someday and all of this gonna have made that taste so much sweeter.

vvvvvvyeah  asked:

Ooh you know what would be interesting, instead of greg talking to blue pearl steven panics and poofs her, and they grab the gem and run off. The plot of the episode is trying to dodge the angry diamond without revealing the crystal gems are still alive, and maybe liberating blue pearl in the process

whoa thats a rly lovely idea tbh!! its. definitely a lot more interesting than the arc we got. 

i honestly would have much rather they have explored blue pearl & made her sympathetic instead of … literally trying to make us sympathize with someone as terrible as blue diamond

honestly the arc could potentially still go similarly (with a visit to some other human artifact museum with ‘war trophies’ in the form of historic items, and not a zoo) if they befriended blue pearl as a result & she told them abt the facility, & the fact that the famethyst were basically exiled there?

after all, blue pearl would know abt the museum her diamond had taken over the management of. in fact, maybe visiting the place could be more centered around amethyst’s motivations (& steven agreeing to help her)

with her learning that so many of her sisters are basically being held captive. maybe they go to the museum as a rescue mission for the amethysts, not greg

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i’ve been hella artblocked for a while but i feel like i’m kinda getting out of it again? so i’m gonna do some of my backlog of old palette requests to try and push through it fjdkshkds also i have a new tablet which is weird!! so trying to get used to this too, oh geez

anonymous asked:

not the same anon that asked for your fav writers but... what about some fav fics you can rec? 😏

hoo boy anon ok u asked for it !!! this is going to be long but here are a few jikook fics i adore that i can think of right now!! pls give them lots of love afterwards!! also the ones im not mutuals with i put a slash in between bcus im too ahlgsfjlb shy to actually tag them oK ANYWAYS ଘ(੭ु*ˊ꒳​ˋ)੭ु*.°❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤🌸❤


Dream Maker by graesun (@/bottomkook), Polkari Seuta (VeritasEtVita), (@/polkari-seuta) [rated M, complete 12/12, 73k] poor!au, fluff and smut, angst, past child abuse, established relationship || (i died a lil bit of joy when two of my fav writers collaborated… but after finishing this my entire being has been resuscitated. this is such a wonderful & incredible fic!!! i still go back to re-read it bcus it’s so good,, like it’s rly fluffy and it made me smile a lot but the angst sent my soul into the astral plane of decease.. and i rarely;; read smut but this is a total big exception!! i was blushign the whole time okadjl;akj they’re such great writers i lov asdjkl anyways it’s rly good alright!! i lov it sm) 

dream a little dream of me by wordcouture [rated G, oneshot, 2.7k] magic realism, lots of fluff, dreams vs reality || (idk how a person can be this creative.. like.. all of couture’s fics are perfect and so beautiful!! i’m p sure everyone has read ‘wonder’ and like?? i just love the author’s craft and couture has a way of weaving her words!! it’s short but sweet ok i lov it idk what else i can say to express the magnitude of emotions i have for her complex fics ;;) 

this is the way the world ends and begins by aborescent (@/kookie-time) [rated T, oneshot, 1.7k] mutant!au, supernatural elements, violence, angst || (i love her fics so much.. she’s an astounding author!! the concepts she has for her fics are always amazing!! this fic has some dark themes but it’s totally captivating and gripping and it rly sucks u in. i believe she has some backstories? of the boys? on her tumblr and she’s p well known hehe so yeah!! i lov this a lot ok she’s great!!) 

Training Wheels by jeonify @shyjimins [rating G, oneshot, 4.8k] childhood friends to lovers, fluff and angst, mutual pining, slow burn || (this was the very first jikook fic i’ve ever read and i fell in.. absolute love.. and after this, i fell in love with all of jo’s other fics too!!! her writing is so beautiful and so eloquent and dreamy too. and this!!! fic!! broke my heart in the beginning from all the angst and pining, which i lov a lot, but the fluff n happy ending slowly mended it back together. my soul lifted into another dimension that’s full of sparkles and stars bcus it was that good ;; she’s amazing, trust me! i genuinely lov her other writings too and she’s the sweetest person and adk;laksj i get so shy talking to her omg anyways!! i lov her and her fics lots)

Of Scatterbrained Mix-ups and Lame Pen-Names  by happy-tokki @berry-happy-tokki[rated G, twoshot, 14k] pen pals!au, lots of fluff, awkward jungkook, cute jimin || (this was so freakin cute ok!!! pen pals!au are my weaknesses and this was so amazingly well-done. her writing style is so pretty and whimsical and gentle - the pacing was so smooth too. it was such an enjoyable read,, i smiled and giggled lots becus it was so adorable!! i lov awkward jungkook too so it was a major addition. plus, her other fics are incredible ok im in lov with all of them!! tokki’s the cutest and the sweetest too and u won’t regret checking this out and the author ok!!! i lov lov lov this)   

those who dream by day by melonmilk [rated T, oneshot, 3.1k] ballet!au, fluff and angst, internalized homophobia, dancing || (this was rly beautiful;; the mood was tense and poignant but it was really breathtakingly well-done too! this is a great ballet au and though it’s short, it’s totally worth taking a look at!! the author’s writing style is so pleasing!!) 

you’re intoxicating (I can’t stop) by astrochild (@/astrochild) [rated T, oneshot, 1.9k] fluff and angst, high school!au, rich kid!jungkook, swearing, mentions of violence || (this was rly angsty and it p much shoved an ice pick thru my heart but the happy ending healed it;; it’s so lovely!!! even tho it’s short it still really sticks with u after u finish reading it and… the way it’s written is so nice and appealing!! plus i rly love the vhope sequel too hehe she’s great!!) 

Bad boys and good-byes by blt_prf (@/blt_prf) [unrated, 12/12, 20k] college!au, enemies to friends to lovers, fluff, minor violence, music!au ish || (she’s one of my fav authors and this is one of my all time favs ok!!! this was such an amazing read i loved it so much!! i love the gradual build up of their relationship and her writing style is so pleasant and soothing,, like it’s a rly great fic ok i lov it lots!! she’s incredible i lov her other fics too) 

crush(ed) by fatal (cumrich) (@/witchboyjimin) [rated M, oneshot, 5.2k] space!au, angst, self-discovery, sci-fi!au, fantasy!au || (i lov this fic so much it’s written so beautifully and the worldbuilding is so wholesome. like, there’s enough detail for u to imagine the world the fic takes place in and!! it’s great rly i lov it n i lov her other fics too;; she’s amazing and i also lov her other fic ‘he hangs like tuesday morning’) 

run (you son of a gun) by infires (infires_man) (@/infires-man) [rated T, oneshot, 13k] gang!au, angst, hurt/comfort, heavily implied abuse || (this is so!! beautiful!!! i can’t express how much i lov this fic kadjf;k i still go back to read it because it was so amazingly well written and it just!! rly pulls at ur heartstrings but the ending just gives u such a warm feeling. i lov it so much!!! the composition is brilliant as well,, just pure amazing idk what else to say to convey how much i loved this asdjfkl;)

Brightly, Flare by flitter [rated G, oneshot, 2k] magic realism, hinted soulmate!au, art!au, artist!jimin, student!jungkook || (i lov all of flitter works ok!!!! i had a hard time choosing which one to put on here but this fic is the first fic i read from her which made me fall in lov with her writing!! this was such a dazzling fic… like she strings her words together like poetry and i just love her work so much!! amazing rly i lov her. plus her ballet!au one and the santorini fic is great too) 

speak now by recordmin  @minblooms [rated G, threeshot, 3k] freeform, fluff, pining, arranged marriage, wedding crashing || (this was rly cute ok i lov this so much!!! even tho it’s short it’s super duper sweet and my heart had burst open into sunshine and fluffy clouds bcus it was that enjoyable and great ok!! plus all her other works are rly great too i lov them so much;; she writes short fics but despite the length, all her writings will always leave this kind of lingering alluring and warm feeling with u and.. plus, wedding crashing!! is a great trope we need more of that! i adore this a lot ok!!) 

Fell For You In A Snap by Polkari Seuta (@/polkari-seuta) [rated T, oneshot, 3k] youtuber!au, social media!au, modern!au, drinking || (this was so cute,, like i smiled so much bcus it was so nice to read!! this was a great social media fic and it was incredibly delightful to read. i lov the author’s other fics too bcus they’re always so well-written and like, her writing style is always so crisp and fluent and is just such a pleasant to read!!) 

Push-up (push me down) by Mintsugakookies (@/mintsugakookies) [rated T, oneshot, 2k] canon compliant, fluff, domestic fluff, crack, established relationship, john cena kookie || (i am one big sucker for domestic fluff ok when i read this, it immediately cheered me up and my heart fluttered all the way into the sun dkafj;slj this was so so cute i lov it so much!! and i lov the author too) 

Aorta by minimints @strawberrywhaliens [rated T, oneshot, 15k] fluff, little angst, sick!jimin, lovesick!jungkook || (look this was so freakin fluffy i’m crying adsfjkl the rest of the series is rly cute too!!! i adore this so much,, like it’s word heavy but it’s rly fluffy and cute and it leaves a warm feeling, u know!! she’s a wonderful writer with a clear and eloquent voice and she’s a wonderful person too!!! the cutest mom i probably should have linked the first part but i love aorta the most so!! check it out ok!! i lov it a lot) 

너의 목소리 Your Voice by pinkmonnie [rated M, 10/?, 65k] college!au, assistant professor!jimin, student!jungkook, teacher-student relationship, fluff, realism || (oohmy gosh pink’s an amazing and an utmost incredible author!! and i lov all of pink’s fics and this fic is so precious and well-written. jungkook is selectively mute in this but the author doesn’t romanticize it and pink’s portrayal of their personalities and jikook’s relationship is so beautiful and stunning!! i lov it to bits. plus!! her other fics like ‘After Hours’ and ‘Thirst’ are freakin golden, ok;; she’s brilliant)

Let The Walls Break Down by pjungkook @pjungkook [rated M, 5/?, 37k] canon compliant, non au, friends to lovers, homophobia, heavy angst, fluff, smut || (the angst in this?? broke my heart but like the lil fluff afterwards healed my soul. and then it shattered again like, another 100 times again bcus so. much. angst. isa why isa is a rly awesome writer & i love her writing lots!! the way she paces her stories are so wonderful and so well-done. her writing is so fluid and articulate too! plus!! she’s the sweetest and loveliest person ok!! my wimpy shy ass probably wouldn’t have made a move to talk to her if she hadn’t msged me first;; her other fic ‘lost stars’ is amazing too omg so check her out ok!! i lov this and i lov her)

Cherry by bananacookies @bananacookies1 [unrated, 11/?, 36k] wolf!au, hurt/comfort, a/b/o dynamics, fluff and smut, omega!kook, alpha!jimin, mature themes || (a/b/o fics are not my cup of tea but this!!! is amazing!!! like i said i rarely read smut but this is another exception!! it’s so fluffy and cute and it’s getting rly angsty right now, but the author’s updates are so consistent and she’s an incredible writer!! the pacing of the story is wonderful as well and the story’s so intriguing, especially since it’s omega!kook. but bcus of that, pls give her lots of love and be open-minded about it ok!!! she deserves lots of love bcus she’s awesome,,)

Tie Me Down by ohdizzy (@/ohdizzy) [rated M, twoshot, 23k] college!au, taegi is main, side jikook, kidnapping, humour & crack, fluff, ot7 dynamics || (i’m sure we’ve all read.. the lejindary Blow Me Like Your French Horn fic.. and i love that fic so much but i love this fic so much too!!!! her fics are so well-written and so funny i lov them so much!! reading them makes my heart all warm and fuzzy hehe;; this was hilarious i lov how she writes their dynamics! i know the main pairing is taegi but!! pls read!! it’s amazing i lov her writing sm) 

son of a witch by syubnugget (@/namgifucker) [rated E, 2/?, 9k] witch!au, main sugamon, side jikook, humor, strangers to lovers, witchcraft || (i think i’ve fallen in love with sugamon after this… like i kno jikook is a side pairing but this!!! is such a wonderful and lovely fic!!! the characterization is fantastic and it made me giggle a few times from the banter, but the world building and the little details are so well written! i love witch!aus too so i rly lov this a lot!! the characters are rly interesting and i’m rly excited for more hehe) 

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MAKE THIS SHIT.

Get a measuring table and measure

  • bust
  • collar to knee (or collar to however long you want it)
  • around your collarbone and shoulders
  • however long you want your ruffle to be

Fabric suggestions

  • fabric with a reasonable drape, not too heavy
  • cotton voile, chambray, tencel blends, light interlocks, rayon
  • NOT: quilting cotton, denim, heavy fabric

RLY QUICK INSTRUCTIONS (assumes you know how to do some stuff)

  1. Sew side seams of the dress. Sew short sides of ruffle rectangle. (Right sides together.) Add whatever trim you want to the ruffle, or just hem it.
  2. Apply bias binding to arm holes.
  3. Match centre of dress collar (right side up) and ruffle rectangle (right side up) and sew.
  4. Fold ruffle rectangle and attached dress down 1”/ 2.5cm to create an elastic casing. Leave 1”/ 2.5cm opening.
  5. Thread elastic through the casing and adjust so dress sits comfortably off the shoulder. Sew elastic ends together to secure. Close elastic opening.
  6. Turn up hem 5/8”/ 1.5cm and sew.

You’ve got yourself a damn dress. Fuck ASOS!

tbh i rly hate the idea that in order to have a healthy relationship (platonic or romantic), you have to talk to each other all the time bc honestly? that’s unrealistic (and tbh could be unhealthy in some cases bc it could make u way too dependent on each other, which could put a strain on the relationship and the ppl involved). 

ppl have lives and many factors of that life that could prevent them from talking all the time, or even from talking for days at a time. ppl have jobs, and school, and sometimes life throws curve balls at you that could make your life busier. 

ppl also have their own levels of social tolerance. talking takes energy and effort, even text conversations, and not everyone can handle putting out that energy all the time. it’s nothing personal and it shouldn’t be taken personally. i know it’s hard to not take it personally, but trust me, it isn’t always you.

mental health is another factor as well bc ppl’s mental states and their mental illnesses/disorders can also make it so they aren’t up to talking.

i don’t like that people are made to feel guilty when they aren’t up to talking, and i don’t like that people on the other side of this are made to panic that their relationship is doomed just bc they don’t talk to each other 24/7. 

ppl have their own lives and the stuff discussed involved with those lives, but ppl also need their space. everyone needs alone time every once in awhile and that should be respected and acknowledged more than it is.

if you’re someone who can’t bring yourself to talk to ppl all the time then you aren’t a bad person. you aren’t a bad friend or a bad significant other. you just can’t talk to ppl 24/7, and you shouldn’t be expected to honestly. if you’re on the other side of that, then just remember to not take it so personally if you don’t talk all the time. though, if it’s really that worrying, then maybe bring it up so you can understand why you aren’t able to talk all the time and get some reassurance. but just know that it’s healthy and normal to not talk all the time, and the idea that it isn’t is rly fucked. 

anonymous asked:

hi! can you recommend a list of robrae episodes to watch? i'm planning to rewatch teen titans again, but i only really want to watch the episodes that are heavily robrae. thank you ^^

sure!

rly heavy robrae eps:

  • birthmark
  • the prophecy
  • the end (part 1) (part 2) & (part 3) - to be clear, part 2 doesn’t have a lot of robin/raven interactions, but it’s a LOT of robin talking/thinking/looking for raven that gets ya heart hurtin

eps with good robrae in em:

  • nevermore
  • fear itself
  • titan rising
  • haunted
  • the beast within
  • bunny raven
  • go!

eps with one or two robrae moments that i enjoy:

  • terra
  • fractured
  • aftershock part 2
  • spellbound
  • snowblind
  • hide and seek

enjoy :D

i need some things to think about to fall asleep so consider:

post-sburb dave and karkat are both gods, karkat god tiers

they’re both capable of unsticking themselves from the flow of time and just watching the universe from a distance but they want a chance to live mortal lives and work out their issues and be real people before they like, ascend off this general plane of existence

this universe is karkat’s chance not to screw up and the pressure is almost unbearable but he has a huge support network and people to tell him if he’s fucking shit up. he becomes basically a glorified ambassador between humankind and trollkind

unlike his alpha counterpart dave wants to explore a quieter life, partly because karkat’s famous thanks to the “””myth of the second sufferer””” and partly because he’s had enough of being Important to last him a lifetime thanks to game things. he ends up going back to school and majoring in social work bc he wants to try to help kids growing up in homes like his

he and karkat end up getting married

they eventually move to the suburbs because the idea of being too far from burger king is horrifying to dave but the noise and stress of the city is sort of grating on them both

they adopt two kids, one human and one troll

consider these important domestic headcanons

  • karkat puts the coffee on a timer to brew before they wake up so that they wake up to coffee. dave is the one who actually gets out of bed and pours said coffee. he always puts a packet of hot chocolate mix in karkat’s
  • they argue a lot about who makes food better but honestly they both know it’s karkat.  karkat makes food better.  in dave’s defense this is because he really only learned to make easy mac and spaghettios as a kid.  karkat tries to teach dave to use a stove.  the fire department becomes acquainted with them
  • every year at the end of the school year they and the kids have a bonfire where the kids can burn their schoolwork except dave and karkat snag and rescue a lot of it and keep it forever
  • on that note, karkat absolutely scrapbooks sorry i dont make the rules
  • dave puts good grades, report cards, and teacher comments on the fridge bc he absolutely glows with 100% unironic happy dad pride.  he’s literally so embarrassing.  the kids suffer
  • karkat and dave both have Issues surrounding the game plus general mental health issues.  consider, they both get therapists and lean on each other for support. figuring out boundaries and things that work and things that don’t i could make a whole other post about ptsd headcanons and probs will at some point but this is just an i-need-to-sleep post so
  • dave gets up to pee in the middle of the night and without fail when he comes back karkat has somehow managed to roll the blankets into an impossibly tight cocoon around him
  • (karkat insists this is just sleepy instinct bc he grew up sleeping in slime pods.  dave makes a game out of trying to wiggle his way back into the blankets and see how far he can get before karkat wakes up)
  • dave frequently gets bored with the current home decoration and end up repainting at three in the morning.  at one point the bathroom is lime green, the bedroom is duck themed, the kitchen is hot pink and electric blue striped, and the living room has a sbahj mural behind the television.  karkat has stopped questioning the design choices as long as all his stuff remains where it is
  • karkat talks a lot about how cats are evil demon creatures that prey on people to eat their souls thru Fake Affection but then dave brings home a stray and it immediately cuddles up to karkat and purrs and suddenly theyve adopted sixteen cats

addwomentothesequel  asked:

a guy saw me walking with a bunch of dirty plates and just? piled his on?? like i'm clearly carrying a lot of heavy plates if my (rly nice tbh) coworker hadn't grabbed them they would have fallen! why? you wouldn't do that to anyone else it's not ok to do to a server either.