this is gross but i needed to make something

I know I’ve been making a lot of little quips about things that antis do that bug me, but I feel like this really needs to be said.

I get so frustrated whenever I see an anti post something that ends in something to the degree of “Sorry sweetie I don’t make the rules uwu.” Mostly because making the rules is exactly what they’re doing.

These posts almost always begin with something really awful, along the lines of “If you ship ____ you’re ugly/gross/icky”, and that isn’t okay. It isn’t okay to judge a person’s character based on their tastes in fiction.

An alternative to the above is “If you ship this you’re an abuse apologist/pedophile/not a true fan”, which is much more harmful. Using such strong language towards someone who merely has different tastes in fiction than you is just… wrong.

On top of this, many of them add a little not in the tags that, in my eyes, makes things go from bad to worse. “This isn’t directed towards survivors, you’re only allowed to ship it if you’re coping.”

This little footnote doesn’t change the fact that these antis just said that people who ship this are as bad as abusers themselves. All it does is show a halfhearted attempt to seem like they genuinely care about survivors.

In closing, posts like this are far more harmful than the problematic ships that they’re trying to protect the world from. We’re not the ones saying every person who enjoys a particular relationship is gross, or evil, or abusive. We’re not the ones tacking on a weak attempt to seem like we care about people, ignoring that survivors of abuse, while a large group of cops shippers, are not the only who use ships to feel normal.

Just something to think about.

Ethan While You're On Your Period Would Include...

• unlike Grayson, he would buy you anything you needed/wanted like feminine products

• also unlike Grayson, he would be really handsy because he knows how much you need the attention during this time

• would DEF pig out with you

• would understand that this is a naturally occurring thing and not be TOO grossed out about it

• do things to make your day better like packing your lunch or something

• tell you that you’re beautiful when you complain about bloating and such

• Would FOR SURE play with your Period boobs 🤷🏻‍♀️

• overall I just feel like Ethan would handle you and the situation better than G.

OKAY, SO

I really want to make this post to apologize to the younger generation (if some of you guys follow me which I’m sure you do), I don’t post it often like at all BUT I have posted in general like graphics about ////Sheith and stuff and I need to apologize for doing this.

I did not know, at all, until tonight that Shiro is a 25 year old man and Keith is a teenager. THIS. IS. NOT. OKAY!

I apologize to my younger followers for promoting something that is so gross and scary and normalizing it. Adult/minor relationships ARE NOT OKAY, PLEASE!

Stay safe. I’m sorry for promoting something so inappropriate, it won’t be happening again. Have a good night, guys.

You know what makes me even more angry? Its the fact that fans turned something so pure and loving (Bambam calling Mark’s dad daddy) into something disgusting. Its kinda sad that fans nowadays don’t understand what boundaries are and they feel the need to make EVERYTHING into a sick joke. You know, when I was a kid, it was a NORMAL thing to call my father daddy. I don’t know the trends these days, but so many of you are sick. Keep your gross kinks or whatever in your own heads and let people live in peace. You probably ruined everything for the poor boy ( a 19 year old who grew up without a father), so fuck all of you and your gross minds. 

“Dirty Laundry”

Summary: Something as simple as doing the weekly laundry at the bunker becomes a more stressful task.

Characters: Dean x Reader

Warnings: Make out session (?)


Originally posted by codestielckles

“This yours?” Dean says as he holds your bright pink panties. 

You snatch it from his hands, “Who else would it belong to?” 

Dean shrugs in response and winks, “You never know.” implying that it could belong to a girl the he (or Sam) have spent a night with.

You roll your eyes in disgust, “Gross. I did not need to think about that.” 

Dean folds a pair of his jeans, “You’re just jealous.”

“You wish,” you scoff, slightly offended that he thinks you would get jealous that easily.

 You have a crush on Dean. You’ve been crushing on him since the moment you met him and considering how much he flirts with you, you’re pretty positive that he feels the same. Especially considering how his need to spend nights with random girls is pretty much gone. Of course, he jokes about it, but you suspect it’s only to get a reaction from you.

He makes his way over to you, a playful smirk on his lips, “You’re right. I do wish.”

He pauses, leaning in towards you, his warm breath brushing your ear, “Every single night.” 

You can’t help but want to roll your eyes and blush at the same time. A comment like that is expected from Dean, but he’s never been as playful as he is being right now.

You can’t help but notice the lack of distance between the two of you. Thinking how much you want to close the distance and see if his lips are really as soft as they look. 

He catches you staring and licks his lips, taunting you, teasing you.

You turn away, clearing your throat, “We should get back to doing laundry.”

As you fold one of your shirts, Dean puts a hand on your waist, pulling you around to face him, just for him to crash his lips against yours. 

You’re shocked by the sudden contact, your mind feeling fuzzy, before you regain the ability to kiss back. 

One of his hands is on your waist, the other tangled in your hair. You wrap your legs around his waist as he lifts you onto the laundry table while deepening the kiss. 

As Dean starts kissing your neck, the two of you are interrupted by Sam clearing his throat.

Dean lifts you down, and the two of you catch your breath, recovering from the heated make out session. 

Sam’s eyes are looking between the two of you before he focuses on something else, the laundry table. 

He picks up his now wrinkled plaid shirt that was a victim of the make out session and scowls at his brother while shaking his head, “Seriously? Now i’m going to have to wash it again.”

You bite your lip as you look at Dean, his smile making it obvious that he isn’t planning on apologizing for Sam’s now ‘dirty’ laundry.

mothsteeth  asked:

of course the "it's just a ship uwuwu" person likes killing stalking ew gross

I… really don’t care for your opinion. I know you think you’re hurting me, but really it’s not having any affect on me :P I know you might probably have a problem at home and you want to make someone feel bad about themselves so you feel better but it’s not working and you should find a new hobby

And if that’s not the case then well you need to check yourself because there’s something seriously wrong with you.

You’re upset over a fictional story when there are real problems in the world.

Instead of being an asshole and trying to degrade people for liking a piece of fiction, why don’t you take that time to look in the mirror. Think about why you care so much about characters that don’t exist, and what drives you to openly harass others for liking fictional work.

Because that is more fucked up than anything Killing Stalking does.

I like dark fiction. Killing stalking, Game of Thrones, Stephen King, Attack On Titan, Any Psychological anime, and many other things that are probably much worse than Killing Stalking.

You want to complain? Fine, go ahead.

But don’t waste your time on someone who gives no fucks about you or your shitty opinion.

🖕🏾

I don’t care if this hurts anyone’s feelings, I am sick and tired of seeing this crap!

Why can’t people leave boy positivity posts alone? Why can’t boys have something that makes them feel good about themselves without some ugly, entitled woman who can’t stand the fact that something isn’t about her for once commenting about how “gross” boys are and “lol I think you mean girls ;)”. Like shut up, that crap isn’t cute, I don’t care how many likes/reblogs you get from your nasty little followers, you aren’t being cool. It’s immature and disrespectful.

You want to spread positivity for girls, fine. You can either reblog the hundreds of posts on this site dedicated to girls or make your own. Don’t hijack or derail a positive post MEANT FOR BOYS/MEN just because you never grew out of your cooties phase. Like can you people just shut up for once and let boys have their positivity posts. Let them be happy, let them feel good about themselves. So many issues that boys face are often overlooked (often because of misconception that either these problems don’t exist) and honestly for you to go and add your unnecessary negative comments to boy positivity posts shows me that you’re just heartless and selfish and I fear for the well-being of anyone involved in your life. 

If you have to derail a post meant for boys or put boys down for your girl “positivity” then I think you need to look over the definition of the word “positive” again cause dang somewhere along the way it became twisted. I’m sorry boys loving themselves and being loved bothers you so much. 

Sick day rp starters
  • Here, take some medicine.
  • I got you something for your head.
  • Want me to make you some soup?
  • I made you something to eat, c’mon, at least try it.
  • How’re you feeling?
  • You don’t look so good, maybe you should sit down.
  • Did you sleep at all last night? You look like hell.
  • Yeah, you’re burning up. Lay down, I’ll get you some medicine. 
  • Gross! You got puke on my shoes.
  • If you’re going to vomit at least do it away from me.
  • Just sleep, you need it. I’ll still be here when you wake up.
  • Don’t worry about getting me sick, I’ll be fine. 
  • Nope, you’re going back to bed. Shoo. Go.
  • You’re not leaving the house like this, we’ll reschedule our plans.
  • Cover your mouth when you cough, geeze. 
you have to be pretty

Girls have to spend so much money to buy “feminine things”: tampons, menstrual cups, shaving products, make up, lingerie, cute clothes.
Girls have to spend so much time exercising in order to “get in shape”, portion controlling because gaining weight is something that should be avoided at all costs, shaving because body hairs looks gross on girls.
It’s draining, it really is, emotionally and mentally, always striving for perfection, trying to change your body because everyone around tells you it is wrong.
You’re not doing it because you want to, but because you’re afraid no one will ever love you if you don’t.
It’s wrong to accept yourself as you are because you should never be content with what you are.
Being aware of your self-worth is not attractive, especially if you don’t fit in nowadays beauty standards.
That’s out number one worry, the constant voice in the back of our heads telling us we’re not enough.
I, as a girl, have to look pretty all of the time. 
My mum demands me to wear makeup and “look presentable” when I go out with her.
She frowns when she sees me lying on my bed in my pj, messy hair and no makeup on, because I don’t look good
Girls are afraid to go out barefaced because we are teached from a very young age our natural state is something to be ashamed of.
And what drives me up the motherfucking wall is to see guys strolling across the street with stained t-shirts, sweatpants and facial hairs without feeling self-conscious.
They can do that. They can have fizzy hair, dark circles, pimples, a fat tummy, hairs everywhere. That’s normal.
They can roll out of bed and hit the streets without feeling like a fuckin’ trashcan.

I can’t do that.
Girls can have fizzy hair, dark circles, pimples, a fat tummy, hairs everywhere. That’s normal, that’s out body works. But we can’t look ugly. We can’t go outside not giving a damn because people will think we’re not attractive and we can’t bear it.
We can’t stand it because we are told the male gaze is the measurement of our worth

I’m a girl and therefore I should look pretty.
If I don’t I’m wrong

This is so sick I’m going to throw up.

Binding Tips

Okay so I’m going to do this for afab bros out there because it’s super important.

1) Never. Ever. Sleep with your binder on. When you sleep you breathe more and then your ribs get all tight and just, you need those.
2) Don’t wear your binder for more than 8-10 hours at a time. Your body needs a break.
3) If you’re relaxing, take it off. You don’t know how tired you might be and you might fall asleep and then break your ribs and once again, you need those.
4) Don’t exercise with your binder on. You need to breathe!
5) Don’t wear it when you’re sick. You might already be coughing and sneezing and you don’t need something making it so you can’t breathe either.
6) Get two if you can. They get gross real quick so you might need one for when the other is washing.

I know I probably missed some stuff so I’m sure one of the other mods will add on later. But really, be safe! I know dysphoria sucks but, you need to breathe.

-

Brooklyn 

I clearly need to make this known.

This account is a safe space. No homophobia. No racism. No body shaming, neither fat shaming nor skinny shaming. No islamophobia. No xenophobia. No sexism. Gender expression and equality 300% welcome and encouraged and relationships/ romances of all types are as well. If there is a post celebrating something you consider gross, ugly, wrong, etc. and clearly my Cinnabuns are enjoying it and I see you trying to come for them in anyway.
BITCH.
I WILL FUCKING INTERVENE.
DO NOT ATTACK MY FUCKING FOLLOWERS.
IF YOU WANT TO DEBATE WITH ME OR YOU THINK SOMETHING I POSTED IS WRONG, PLEASE, MESSAGE ME SO I DONT HAVE TO COME FOR THAT ASS.
BECAUSE WHEN YOU HURT MY FOLLOWERS UNDER MY POSTS, THATS WHEN I GET PISSED OFF AND THIS SAFESPACE TURNS INTO HIGH HELL.

// So I feel the need to post this because what happened earlier with @fantasyimmortal is disguisting and I didn’t get to address it enough due to gaming. These are /our/ blogs. We get to choose what content is posted because it is /ours/ and ultimately we make the decision what we do with it. While some blogs do exist for purposes and we try to be considerate, we do not exist to please specific people. If you think something you we say or reblog is gross, offensive, or disguisting, kindly move on. It is not the visitor’s right to dictate what we post and what we don’t post.

Thank you.

anonymous asked:

You shouldnt try and dictate who can and can not reblog from you. Especially when you don't even have BPD yourself. Youre 15, like no. If you pro self dxers did half of the actual research you claim to have done you'd know that.

i reblog bpd specific posts. if people without bpd (diagnosed or self dxed) reblog these sorts of posts, it ruins the severeness of symptoms and it turns it into some sort of a “funny, relatable, over exaggerated” post. i can’t stop you from reblogging from this blog but it’s insensitive and gross if you do.

and i know you’re insinuating that you can’t have bpd if you’re under 18. newsflash, symptoms don’t just manifest over night! they develop over time, and if i need something to help cope with that (researching the disorder, making a blog, etc), you can’t say shit and say i don’t know what i’m talking about? i know myself better than anybody else.

anonymous asked:

Thank you for making that internet support group post, you know a lot of people forget that Dan is very very self conscious about the videos he uploads and everyone hyped this video up so much for something they needed that they are just being kind of rude now that it wasn't what they expected. Like Dan did say the video he was going to make just didn't really fit how he was feeling at that moment. People really need to chill and be kinder.

OH god yeah. i def played into the hype bc its fun but i Always made sure to clarify it was all just fun u know?? isg is one of my favourite dan series?es? and im really happy he uploaded bc i was super sad 2day and he made me smile a lot :(( hes like a big warm hug

I’d like to take a second to make a post about all the Puerto Rican food I miss eating. So if you life fried foods or just delicious foods in general, this post is also for you.

an example of a place to find the foods I’m about to show you:

first we have some lechon:

then we have some pasteles con arroz y gandules:

(I know, it looks gross. But trust me, it is soooo good ugh.)

there’s always a jibarito if you want something light:

next up, some alcapurrias:

followed by some pastelitos:

can’t leave out the tostones:

gotta add in the traditional arroz y habichuelas:

(in my dad’s house this is literally a side dish to EVERY dinner he makes)

and we’ll finish this post with a snack platter:

and of course we can’t forget dessert:

the-tao-of-fandom  asked:

For prompts: So I'm interested to hear about the courtship of female Sam Vimes and Lady Ramkin because obviously that's something everyone needs in their lives. (or just the life of a female Sam in general)

inspired by x

Those nights when she makes it home at something approaching a decent hour, Sam will lie in bed with Sybil’s head on her stomach. Sybil keeps her hair very short and fine beneath her wigs, and Sam likes the feel of it, tracing every dip and line of Sybil’s skull, from the soft rolls of her neck to the slope of her temples, the sharp curve of her widow’s peak. Her fingertips could map out Ankh-Morpork on Sybil’s skin, though sometimes she got distracted and forgot where Scooner’s Lane ended and the faint divot beneath Sybil’s ear began.

Sometimes Sybil will talk, or read aloud, and Sam thinks—there’s the Chase, there is always the Chase, but this might the only thing she’s ever known where there’s joy in the having.

What are you thinking about? Sybil asks sometimes, and Sam says, Nothing, nothing. Tell me more, I was listening. I like listening to you.

.

There was an Understanding.

The Understanding was: Her Grace, Lady Sybil Deidre Olgivanna Ramkin, had, on the twelfth of May, married Captain Samantha Vimes of the Ankh-Morpork Watch. It was a very lovely ceremony. There had been cake.

Questions on the matter, such as “is there legal precedent for this”, “where exactly are the records for—” and “how does a noble title pass to a duchess’ wife” could be respectfully addressed to the Patrician.

It was amazing how quickly people Understood, when Vetinari was suggested as the alternate means of education.

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friendly reminder that

Littles who mess their diaper are NOT gross
Littles who mess their diapers are NOT inherently sexual
Littles who mess their diapers are valid

you can be a nonsexual little and still mess. there is nothing wrong with that. I regress to a point in my infancy that I need my diapers.

So can we stop making littles feel gross for doing something perfectly normal?

Binding Tips

Okay so I’m going to do this for afab bros out there because it’s super important.

1) Never. Ever. Sleep with your binder on. When you sleep you breathe more and then your ribs get all tight and just, you need those.
2) Don’t wear your binder for more than 8-10 hours at a time. Your body needs a break.
3) If you’re relaxing, take it off. You don’t know how tired you might be and you might fall asleep and then break your ribs and once again, you need those.
4) Don’t exercise with your binder on. You need to breathe!
5) Don’t wear it when you’re sick. You might already be coughing and sneezing and you don’t need something making it so you can’t breathe either.
6) Get two if you can. They get gross real quick so you might need one for when the other is washing.

I know I probably missed some stuff so I’m sure one of the other mods will add on later. But really, be safe! I know dysphoria sucks but, you need to breathe.

Commissions are OPEN!!! 10$ Headshots 15$ Chibis

I recently got a job for the fall and I am going to start my career. (yay)  I’m going to move pretty far away and I want to draw commissions a lot this summer in order to pay for things in my new apartment, so I can make it into a home.

I’m going to accept only 8 slots for commissions

Flat Chibis are 15$ each

Cell shaded Headshots are 10$ each

Once the slots are filled up, commissions are closed.

For more info, click here!  My email and my commission rules are there.  If you are serious about getting a commission, email me and we can talk details.  After both parties agree, I’ll send you my paypal email and we can get started.  Thank you!!!