this is a tran family appreciation blog

Ssssssso insomnia again (jeez it’s 3 am what even is my life) and I’ve decided to go for more spideychelle headcanons! And since some of you appreciated my trans!Peter x Michelle, I’m going to write pt. 3.

(seriously, I have to say a huge thank you for your support. You are amazing. Also rember you are free to send me request or prompt)

(and this is gonna be a bit out of context if you don’t read pt. 1 and pt.2, so maybe check it out on my blog under the tag #trans peter)

Here we go!

  • Pride was amazing. Really, Peter believes it was one of the best experience of his life.
  • And not just because he felt like part of a big family
  • And felt at home
  • And not even only because /no one/ actually misgendered him
  • Yes ofc that was a big thing and something that really made him happy but actually he’s so excited because
  • HE HELD MJ’S HAND FOR ALL THE DAMN DAY
  • Well most of it
  • And he touched her smooth, warm skin even if he hadn’t enough courage to gently rub his thumb on the back of her hand
  • Even if he really wanted to
  • And she was just… stunning
  • He decides that he wants to print the selfie they took all together (Ned included ofc) and put it in a frame, so looking at it he would remember that special day
  • Also in the pic he and Michelle are holding hands so…
  • He can’t stop thinking about her hands
  • He almost text Ned, but at the end he just goes on patrol. But nothing can take away the big smile on his face.
  • And he still secretly has his cheeks painted
  • He had to remove the polish immediately (he can’t risk to wake up may at 3 am just because he needs to sneak in the bathroom just for his nails damn)
  • But the paint can be washed away easily so nevermind
  • And also MJ did that so he wants to keep it on as much as possible
  • Anyway he sends a message to /her/, something like “thanks for today. :)”
  • :). Ugh, laaaaaame. What was he thinking about.
  • But she actually answers with a “no problems, Parker”, so it’s fine???? Maybe???
  • And after that, it’s /crazy/ how much time they spend HOLDING HANDS
  • Like ok not in front of everyone but maybe while they are eating, under the table
  • Or under the table during decathlon meetings
  • And her hands are usually kinda cold
  • But it’s nice because his are warm
  • And this is perfect for the “my hands are cold hold them for me please you person with warm hands I know enough for ask this” excuse
  • With she uses a lot
  • Unless she reaches for his hands when’s anxious or panicking, even if she doesn’t know why
  • In that case is just her way to say that it’s fine everyone is ok everything is ok and she is here for him
  • And Ned notices OFC I MEAN
  • And one day he and Peter has a really long talk about his really embarrassing huge crush for MJ
  • Like, Ned wants to talk about it because he’s so tired to hear him talk about Michelle the 95% of the time
  • “and stop with the I’m going to click the like button for all your Facebook/Instagram/tumbrl posts stuff, dude, it’s creepy. You are embarrassing yourself”
  • “am I?” “A bit?” “Ned” ….a lot" *Suffering dinosaur noises*
  • Whatever. He’s screwed anyway.
  • Because he doesn’t even think she can consider to date him
  • But she really wants because despite what she’s telling to herself, she likes Peter Parker.
  • A lot.
  • And she doesn’t have anyone to talk about it, but she knows
  • She tried to push it back, but it’s impossible
  • So she starts to doodle him
  • A lot
  • Kind of a way to demonstrate affection because what the fuck Peter is an amazing boy, why should he even consider to date /her/
  • Basically: they are two dorks
  • But it doesn’t matter, because they both believe that the other company is better than not talking
  • And they just…get along so well
  • And they start to get out all together, Peter Ned an MJ
  • She joins them in their movies marathons and to do homework and for dinner
  • But even if they like being just the 3 of them, Peter always finds some time just for Ned.
  • And some time just for MJ too
  • Like, he’d never thought she would fit so well in his life
  • They do a lot of things together
  • Nothing extraordinary, just watching movies… playing videogame…go to the park
  • And talk.
  • Actually, they have days when they stay in silence, enjoying the presence of the other
  • Which are also used from Peter to look at her when she’s not looking
  • Michelle does the same
  • But she doesn’t get caught lmao
  • However they also have days when it’s impossible to shut them up
  • Like. Totally impossible.
  • But it’s fine. It really is.
  • But they can’t bring themselves on the next level
  • Like the we are dating level
  • Peter thinks about it a lot but he doesn’t want to loose her or to ruin their friendship
  • MJ doesn’t want to daydream too much and hope to hear him ask her out
  • So they just stay in this weird middle levels between friendship and lovers relationships
  • Jeez they actually even sleep together once
  • Ok they fell asleep on the couch
  • And waking up to find her snuggled up against him almost killed him on the spot
  • Like she’s just…so adorable
  • But not only she’s beautiful
  • She’s so clever, so brilliant
  • And sarcastic, he loves her sense of humour
  • And actually she seems already so strong and firm in her ideas
  • And she admires her so much for how much efforts she puts in actually /doing something/.
  • He even consider to tell her about all the Spider-Man thing
  • Another motive keeping him from asking her out
  • Like, he doesn’t want to put a big target on her head
  • So at the end he doesn’t
  • Even if something tells him he can trust her
  • He has no idea she already knows, lol
  • Untile one day they are looking a video on YouTube and she’s like “good job Parker” and he’s like “thanks” and then just WHAT THE HELL?!
  • he’s totally paralyzed, horrified, incredulous and so on
  • But she’s like “oh relax Spider-friend. I didn’t tell anyone. And I don’t mean to”
  • Ok and that’s a big thing but HOW?!?!?!?!?
  • She just sighs and explain that after the decathlon she was already suspicious, but after a while became quite obvious (at least to her)
  • And he just… laugh. A bit hysterically but however bc he’s kinda feeling relief knowing he doesn’t have to tell her
  • And he just let out “damn you are amazing MJ” and then he shuts up
  • WILL HE EVER LEARN GOD WHY W H Y ABORT MISSION I REPEAT ABORT MISSION
  • She’s looking at him in such an inscrutable way like is he joking? Is he serious? Can it be /he/ just told her she is /amazing/???
  • After a minute that felt like an hour she smiles she actually smiles in a new sweet and cute way
  • “I know” and he kisses his cheek.
  • Softly. Gently. Briefly. But it was a kiss.
  • Peter thinks he could even die there, in that precise moment, but the smile on his face is as wide and bright as the entire solar system.

Between a cancer diagnosis and new meds kicking my ass, I haven’t had the spoons lately to do much on social media other than ‘like’ posts, but just to be clear: if you are a white supremacist by any name or political persuasion, if you support white supremacy/nationalism/fascism in any form, GTFO my blog. I’m not just talking about those who support genocide or overt discrimination, either. I’m including those of you who think we should just be “nice” to each other, that the problem with racism is calling it out, or that antifa are “just as bad” as nazis. I am a disabled, queer, trans, multiracial person of Jewish decent. I have friends and family who are Jewish, Romani, Black, disabled, and queer. I will not stand for this shit.

As for the rest of you, I truly appreciate seeing how many of you condemn their actions and ideology, but we must respond with action whenever possible. Root them out. Expose them. Curse them. Call that shit out when you see it online and off, in your workplace, your school, your community of faith. Get them fired from their jobs and disowned by their families. Make them afraid. Show them that their bigotry has consequences.

Thomas Sander’s blog is just like mine when I started tumblr. Lots of popular posts with a helluva lotta notes. The suddenly, I see a trans person appreciation post.

These things are normal on tumblr, of course, but I kinda had supposed that the majority of CIS celebrities kinda didn’t really care.

But lo and behold, a post with beautiful trans women and handsome trans men was reblogged by Thomas Sanders himself. With the comment “fricken gorgeous!”.

Sir, you helped my self-esteem so much with that comment. A lot of people(including my own family) think I’m a freak. I’m glad you find people like me freakin’ gorgeous. Thank you very much for the encouragement. It means a lot coming from someone so kind and wonderful as yourself.

thatsthat24, thank you for the help, even if it wasn’t direct.

anonymous asked:

Hey, I'm sorry if this isn't the right place, but I didn't know where else to go. I found my sibling's (going with gender neutral language, don't know what they prefer) blog by accident, and their description said they were nonbinary. Should I tell them I found it or not? Because if they're not ready to be out, I don't want to make them uncomfortable. But maybe it would be good to know that I totally support them, and will do whatever they need to be comfortable. I'm cis, and very lost.

Emery says:

So here’s the thing. My brother found my blog and that’s how he learned I was trans. This made me suuuuper uncomfortable - my blog is (was) my safe space, and my family was not supposed to be in that space. I was going to come out to my brother when I was ready and not before. So that was super not-good, and I would have preferred he kept his mouth shut.

BUT there is at least one different between you and my brother. You seem to actually know some shit about trans/nonbinary identities. It seems like you get they pronouns and stuff, SO your sibling might actually appreciate the ally. How close you are to your sibling is also an important factor in this decision. My general advice is to keep quiet about their blog, but maybe try to drop some hints about your general state of openmindedness/acceptance/love for trans people/your sibling, so that they know you’re a safe space.

Thank you for reaching out to us - though we don’t usually encourage asks from cis people, I really do appreciate you trying to be the best sibling that you can be and recognizing that you needed some support. Good luck! And our love and support to your sib!