How can you call yourself polyamorous if you’re in a monogamous relationship right now? It’s not an orientation
because i’ve been in polyamorous relationships in the past and could be in the future? i never claimed it was an orientation either. My girlfriend is monogamous and exclusive so i’m not right now but i would and could be dating multiple people at once again, hypothetically. That fact doesn’t change no matter what kind of relationship i am in at the moment. if i were single i would still be polyamorous, too.