things i never see on tumblr

anonymous asked:

I'm not cis either. I'm genderfluid as well as pansexual. And like I have no problem using something different. My problem was your reaction, the whole rolling your eyes thing. That actually kinda hurt a bit, especially coming from a blog that I really look up to. It kinda almost made me feel invalid because of a word choice. Do I think that was your intention, of course not. But, now it makes me feel terrified talking to you that perhaps I'm just not right or good enough.

I never react to things on tumblr, I just don’t. But this is something that genuinely bothers me and makes me grit my teeth when I see it. It is my reaction. There will always be people of groups that aren’t offended by things and say “yeah use it, I don’t care!” And there will always be people who do. This, racial slurs/racism, sexism, and cultural appropriation are the things I have major problems with. Other than that, I’m fine. I have a problem with the above list bc they either hurt others or are disrespectful to others.

Other than that, it’s fine. This is one thing I’ve reacted to in at least 6+ months, if not the whole time I’ve had this blog. I swore and I was mad because it makes me mad. It feels disrespectful, like I said in that ask, to the queer folks who have come out of the closet and literally been killed. It’s not comparable to me.

I’m not the witch queen or anything, I’m not your mom, I can’t tell you what to say or what to think. I’m not the end all be all, you’re entitled to what you think, just as much as I am. I just personally don’t agree. Just because we have one differing opinion doesn’t mean I would think everything you say or do is wrong. I go out of my way to be kind, open, and understanding to everyone who comes into my inbox, regardless of opinions. I was asked about my opinion by that person and I gave it is all.

If you want to call yourself a closeted witch, do it, that’s not my choice. Just to me personally, coming out as a queer lady vs telling people I’m a witch don’t hold the same weight, fear, and backlash. One is a choice and one isn’t. My rights don’t get taken away from me bc I’m a witch.

Didn’t intend for it to be mean, I never do. Just my opinion is all.

anonymous asked:

Have you seen keemstar's video about jack's response and if so, what are your thoughts on it? I think he actually made some valid points for once.

I saw some shit on twitter, Keem pointing out that Jack’s made jokes like that himself plenty of times. I watched Jack’s video and I do disagree with him on the most part, in terms of the feelings thing. Again, free speech absolutist. Though, I think Disney has a right to drop them tho. Throwing away all that hard work was bullshit, however.

Idubbbztv is with them I believe..? Which, tumblr NEVER pisses themselves over the cancer crew, so.

See, I fucking love Jack. But I can see he’s not on a good side in this. In my eyes. People accusing my of fuckin stanning my favorites, they’re just mad that I don’t agree with them 100% and the world does not revolve around them.

The simplest things that brighten my day: finding new indie music that sparks instant emotional connection, 
Tasting my first bite of food in a while when I’m really hungry,
Quenching thirst with my favourite iced drink after a scorching hot day,
Seeing a random puppy or dog outside,
Realising how beautiful roses are and the majestic sky in whatever colour,
(Especially when the sky is cerulean blue or vermilion red),
Embarking on an adventure to a new place that makes me appreciate nature and God so much more,
The refreshing feel of a breeze through a window,
Talking to good friends and people who radiate love, kindness and good vibes,
Laughing with a group of friends until our stomachs hurt,
or finding the one meme that everyone can relate to,
and many more.
—  reminsces

Monday 8:27am
I woke up with you on my mind.
You called me babe last night —
my heart is still pounding.

Tuesday 10:53pm
Today I realized we won’t work.
What we are is hurting her.
And I think she matters more to me than you do.

Wednesday 11:52pm
I broke things off with you today.
She barely said a word.
I’ve never regretted anything more than this.

Thursday 4:03pm
I shouldn’t have sent that message.
You shouldn’t have been so okay with receiving it.

Friday 9:57pm
I almost messaged you today.
I didn’t.

Saturday 8:49pm
I’m walking around town in search of alcohol.
They say that liquor numbs the pain of having a broken heart.
I want to put that to the test.

Sunday 2:32am
I heard you texted a girl you’ve never spoken to before.
I wonder if it’s because you’re trying to replace me.
I can’t help but wish you weren’t.
I thought I was irreplaceable.

—  a week with you on my mind, c.j.n.
Move on, leave, run away, escape this place… but don’t forget about me, about us, about this town. Always remember where you come from so you can appreciate how far you’ve come.
—  c.j.n.
You claim to love her, inside and out, but the only time you call her beautiful is when it’s 3 in the morning and I’ve already turned you down.
—  girls tell each other everything, c.j.n.
We throw around the word never likes its nothing but a small rose petal. The word never is a doubled edged sword. On one side it says ‘I will never leave you’ and on the other it says ‘I will never love you.’
—  The Word Never