things about being single

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So this is love, so this is what makes life divine…

[EXORUN] Sehun vs. EXO-L

when he ranked no.6: 

oohsehun: 나는풀업그레이드했는데.. 진짜잘한다EXOL

Even after i did a full upgrade…. EXOL are really good at this

when he ranked no.2: 

oohsehun: EXOL진짜못한다😇

EXOL are really bad at this 😇

when he ranked no. 6:

oohsehun: EXOL뭐야 맨날이것만하는거에요? 왜그러는거에요? 

What are you EXOL, is this the only thing you do every single day? Why are you like this?

the thing i love most about being a taylor swift fan is that every single event feels god damn historic like we’re preparing for jesus christ himself to rise from the dead and deliver the performance of a life time before taking his seat at the right hand of the father

Dear Christian Dating Bloggers:

We all know this is bad:

“If you just follow Jesus he will make you wealthy!”

“Ask God and he will give you whatever your heart desires, be that a new house, a new boat, a high-paying job… name it and claim it!”

“You’re sick because God is punishing you.”

“God’s will is for you to be wealthy. If you follow God’s will you’ll be wealthy.”

So why is this okay?

“If you just follow Jesus he will give you a loving husband!”

“Ask God and he will give you the perfect man that your heart desires!”

“Your failed relationships are because God is punishing you.”

“God’s will is for you to have a great romantic relationship. If you follow God’s will, you’ll have a great romantic relationship.”

Christian bloggers… stop this.
Stop bribing young girls to Jesus with promises of finding a handsome prince. That is not what the gospel is about.

God did NOT say our relationships would be perfect, in fact he said that because of him family members would despise one another and that people would hate us for his name. In other words, you can do nothing wrong, and still have troubled relationships. Maybe even BECAUSE you are following the will of God. Why should that be any different for romantic relationships?

God never said there’s ONE perfect person out there and you’re bound to end up with that person. Show me that verse in the bible. (I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Josh Harris doesn’t count as a book of the Bible.) Many righteous people have a sad or downright tragic love life.

Consider that you shouldn’t have to be bribed into virtue with promises of an extra-special relationship. Obeying God is enough incentive to lead a pure lifestyle. By the way, “Pure” =/= “Virgin”. It’s never too late to start being pure. Purity is a lifestyle to be maintained, not a state of having never sinned. By the way, THAT is my problem with purity rings. Can you get a purity ring if you’ve already sinned? Jesus said if you lust after someone that’s just as bad as having had sex with them. Take off your purity rings, everyone. Throw them away. You don’t deserve them. No one does.

What about women who are abused by their husbands? Women whose first husband dies and they have to remarry? Women in Pakistan whose husband throws acid on them for being a Christian. Are they just not following God’s will? I wonder which part of God’s will Hosea failed to follow when he married a prostitute by God’s explicit instruction and then she cheated on him.

One other thing: the gospel isn’t about finding peace with being single, either. The gospel is about Jesus coming to earth and dying a horrible, bloody death to save your soul from hell. The gospel is not about your relationship status.

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request:  Please tell me that you are going to do a second part for Bathroom. Pretty please you can’t leave us hanging

well it’s finally here after many more of you asked and i’m sorry it took longer than i said it would! you can find part one to ‘bathroom’ here. keep sending in requests from the blurb list or whatever your hearts desire! hope you enjoy!


Harry was out wondering the streets, trying to make sense of what he had done. He was in a relationship. He kissed his best friend. He left said friend alone, in a bathroom to cry to herself. He was being a proper arse. But his mind was full. He has always had some kind of feelings for you, but being in a good relationship had halted those feelings. But being there in that bathroom with you was like there was no one else that could affect how you to came together. 

But after he realized what he was doing, he went into sheer panic. He is in a relationship. He has a girlfriend. How could he betray her like that? Did he see a future with her? Maybe not forever, but even so, cheating is cheating. Even if the person your with isn’t who you always wanted. 

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I’ve been thinking that the time we have to be single, is really the time we have to get good at being alone. But, how good at being alone do we really want to be? Isn’t there a danger that you’ll get so good at being single, so set in your ways, that you’ll miss out on the chance to be with somebody great? Some people take baby steps to settle down. Some people refuse to settle at all. Sometimes, it’s not statistics. It’s just chemistry and sometimes, just because it is over, doesn’t mean the love ends.
The thing about being single is…you should cherish it. Because in a week, in a lifetime, of being alone, you may only get one moment. One moment when you are not tied up in a relationship with anyone. A parent, a pet, a sibling, a friend. One moment, when you stand on your own. Really, truly single. And then….it’s gone.
—  How To Be Single
{PART 12} Who Are You? // Im Jaebum

Originally posted by sugaglos

Pairing: Jaebum x Reader (ft. Jackson, Jinyoung & BamBam)

Genre: Angst, slight fluff

Summary; Jackson and Jinyoung go through with setting their plan in motion - while Jaebum begins to fall apart from the inside out.

Please note that this series contains mentions of road/car accidents, amnesia and cheating.

{Part 1} // {Part 11} {Part 12} {Part 13}

I update this series every Sunday between 9pm-10pm (U.K Time)

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Thing I like about being single: I bought myself stupid sheets today. I love them. My bedroom is looking more and more like the dorm room I never had because I went to college when I was 22 and lived with my grandma instead of on campus.

Turning 35 in 3 weeks and fucking FEELING these gold foil pineapple sheets and twinkle lights.

This house is the bachelorette pad of my dreams. Just me and my girl living our best lives with all the floral prints and velvet we can stand.

for the anon that requested #2 from the prompt list

so sorry, tumblr was deleting everything so i needed to do it on here instead of answering your ask
“please don’t cry, i can’t stand to see you cry.”
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you couldn’t do it, as hard as you tried you just couldn’t do it.

no matter how many times shawn told you not to read what people say on the internet, today you gave in.

you didn’t usually read the comments, or the mentions on twitter with your name in it, but today you felt like you had to.

after a few hours of scrolling through what seemed like endless comments on instagram and twitter, you couldn’t bring yourself to look away from the laptop screen. you believed every single thing that was being said about you.

they were right, you didn’t deserve shawn, you weren’t good enough for him. you weren’t pretty enough, or skinny enough either.

luckily shawn wasn’t going to be home for a few more hours, because if he caught you reading this you didn’t know what was going to happen.

you hadn’t looked away from your laptop screen in a few hours, you’ve answered no calls or texts, you didn’t even get up to make yourself any food even though you were very hungry.

you unlocked your phone while reading some tweets about the recent event you attended with shawn. you had multiple missed calls and a few texts from shawn.

“shit.” you whispered, reading the texts from shawn.

shawn <3
hey, studio hours got changed. coming home a few hours early today!

shawn <3
y/n? you haven’t answered anything all day, are you okay?

shawn <3
baby, it’s been 4 hours now. i’m coming home.

the last message was sent about an hour ago, meaning shawn would be home any minute now.

“y/n, i’m home!” you heard your boyfriend call from the front door followed by footsteps coming up the stairs.

there was no way you could get rid of all the tabs of social medias you have open, or even get out of the one page you were on before shawn’s tall frame appeared in the doorway of your bedroom.

“y/n, is there something wrong?” he asked.

you quickly shut your laptop, pushing it away from you before wiping your eyes just in case of any remaining tears.

“yeah i’m fine, sorry i just saw all your texts now. i fell asleep.” you flashed a quick fake smile to let shawn know you were okay.

“that’s bullshit y/n, i see right through you.”

you sighed as he came and sat next to you on your bed, pulling your laptop closer to him and opening it up.

tears filled your eyes as the endless tabs of hate were once again visible on the screen.

“i told you not to read this shit y/n,” he sighed after a few minutes of reading the comments.

“sorry,” you sniffled, “i couldn’t help it.”

shawn noticed you starting to cry again and pulled you onto his lap.

“hey,” he cooed, “please don’t cry. i can’t stand to see you cry.”

he let you cry for however long you needed. he didn’t say anything, but him being there was enough for you.

“y/n please don’t believe what they say, they’re just jealous. i don’t want any of them, i want you and only you.”

“but you should want them shawn! all your friends are so much prettier and skinner than me, they’re probably nicer too.”

you knew sometimes you weren’t the nicest person in the world, and people noticed that. you were sure it was starting to annoy shawn too.

“y/n, you are the most beautiful girl i’ve ever seen in my life. inside and out. you need to believe me, i don’t want anybody else in the world but you.”

you nodded, finally looking at him. his eyes were staring to tear up too.

“why are you crying?” you asked, cupping his cheek. “i can’t stand to see you cry either.”

he shook his head, “i’m okay, just sad that you believe all these lies about you. one day, i’ll make you see they aren’t true.”

you nodded, pressing your lips on
his for a quick second before pulling away and resting your head in the crook of his neck.

“but first,” he said, opening your laptop again. “we’re gonna make a
few changes with your social media accounts.”

Ignis doing anything gameplay: Oh you precious gem. Wonderful treasure. Most important thing of my life. Sweet little cupcake. Beautiful human being. I love you and every single thing about you and nothing could ever make me love you less, you wonderful creature, best character ever made. 

Ignis chocobo racing me gameplay: you fucKING ASS, SLOW DOWN,  THAT’S CHEATING, OMFG I HATE YOU.

I’ve been thinking that the time we have to be single, is really the time we have to get good at being alone. But, how good at being alone do we really want to be? Isn’t there a danger that you’ll get so good at being single, so set in your ways that you’ll miss out on the chance to be with somebody great? Some people take baby steps to settle down. Some people refuse to settle at all. Sometimes, it’s not statistics. It’s just chemistry. And sometimes just because it is over, doesn’t mean the love ends.

The thing about being single is you should cherish it. Because, in a week, or a lifetime, of being alone, you may only get one moment. One moment when you’re not tied up in a relationship with anyone. A parent, a pet, a sibling, a friend. One moment when you stand on your own. Really, truly single and then it’s gone.

The only thing I don’t like about being single right now is not being able to share how my day went with the person I love. Like I know I have my roommate but it’s just not the same.