“You’re asking stupid questions and I can set you straight in one.”
FWIW I would read that Rey/Kylo fic. And am so, so sick of the way fandom treats him, not because I really like him that much (though I would like to know more about his backstory which is apparently the same thing?) but because... people aren't mocking him for being a murderer or a patricide or working for a genocidal regime? They're mocking him for having feelings, basically, and his being a bad guy is supposed to make that okay.