they're human even when they're not

types of taylor blogs
  • The Sweet and Simple: Just here to enjoy the music and gush about how cool Tay is. Wishes everyone would stop fighting. Tries to ignore drama and usually succeeds.
  • The Bitter Country Fan: Wishes it were still the Taylor Swift/Fearless era, and everyone knows it. Still bought 1989, though.
  • The Actual Stan: Knows a worrying about about Taylor's personal life. May or may not have her address and/or personal belongings and may or may not be selling them on eBay. Everyone's sort of creeped out but follows them anyway for the info.
  • The Matchmaker: Ships Taylor with everyone she's ever interacted with, ever. Just wants Taylor to be happy. Follows all the tabloids that give "updates" for Taylor's "romances," both real and imagined. Burst into tears of joy when Hiddleswift happened. Probably still crying over "Everything Has Changed" and "Enchanted."
  • The Vacationer: Only on Tumblr when Taylor is.
  • The Defense Squad: Will always stick up for Taylor in any drama. Even drama where she's not even involved. Defends Taylor even when Taylor was probably in the wrong. Will fight literally everyone. Usually pretty nice when no drama is happening but let's be real there's always drama happening.
  • The Salt Squad: Ready to drag Taylor at every opportunity. Claims to unstan her for every little offense and then comes back 3 days later. Everyone's used to them by now.
  • The Tired Gay: Makes wlw aesthetic posts for different Taylor songs. Applies "Ours" to every F/F OTP. Ships Kaylor. Lowkey convinced Taylor is bi. Just wants more wlw pop music.
  • The Zen One: Has been here for years. Totally desensitized to drama by now. Continues reblogging gifsets and edits even in the face of crisis. Seemingly indifferent to everything. Sees fans fighting and is just like, "Yep, same shit as always."
  • The Strong, Silent Type: Never posts anything besides gifsets, aesthetic posts and edits. Never comments on drama... or anything else, really. Everyone loves their beautiful graphics, but people are starting to wonder if they're actually human.
  • The Rich Stan: Has seen Taylor in concert 10 times and owns all her merch. They've met her twice and always has new material the day it comes out. No one is sure how they manage this other than assuming they must have cash to burn.
  • The Mom Squad: Welcomes new Swifties to the fandom. Cries over "All Too Well." Tries to stay out of drama but usually fails. Usually on Taylor's side in conflicts, and goes unusually quiet when they're not. People tend to ask for their opinion on drama because they're the "levelheaded" ones in the fandom (even though they're secretly dying inside).

poshtearex  asked:

I'd like to provide a story that may give other aces hope when they're friends think they're weird after coming out as ace. See, when I came out as ace to my friend, he was very confused and found it really strange. Often making fun of it and saying that I literally failed my purpose as a human being. But over time, he learned to accept me and understand that aces aren'tweird and are perfectly normal, even apologising for the things he said. Just think that might give some other aces some hope.

this is a great some people learn story 

youronlyastory  asked:

I love your blog! It's amazing! I just wanted to ask how you felt Jasper and Rosalie's relationship is like? They're given the role of both being Hale's but other that their hair colour and perhaps their resistance (in terms of staying hidden) to humans, I struggle to see how they would interact with one another and if they would at all. Any thoughts? I'd like to think they're closer than they look but I'd love a second opinion. Thanks!

I tend to think they’ve developed some sort of sibling bond because I don’t think Rosalie would let just anyone use the “Hale” name. It obviously means a lot to her, she’s kept it all this time, even when everyone else was using ‘Cullen,’ even after marrying Emmett multiple times.  So I don’t think she’d just be “whatever” about someone else using the name as part of their cover story, I don’t think she’d let Jasper use it if she didn’t like, trust and respect Jasper. 

I think they’re sort of the “ruthless” ones of the family.  Carlisle and Edward have their morals and ideals, Alice and Esme are mostly rays of sunshine, Emmett is all Hakuna Matata about everything. I think Jasper and Rosalie bond over being more practical, less idealistic, more willing to do the dirty work to protect the people they love. Carlisle doesn’t want to kill anyone–doesn’t want to kill Bella to protect the secret, doesn’t want to kill James, doesn’t want to kill the newborns (witness giving Bree asylum), doesn’t want to fight/kill the Volturi. But Jasper and Rosalie saw Bella as a threat and were willing to do what they thought needed to be done, not out of any malice toward Bella, but to protect the family. I think that’s sort of the place where they really “get” each other in a way maybe their partners even don’t. 

I think Rosalie vents to him when she’s upset with Emmett, and they both grumble about Edward together, and roll their eyes at Carlisle’s naive idealism. 

anonymous asked:

This is weird but could you write an imagine where you're a teen relative of Bella's (human) and the Volturi turn up to see Nessie. And she walks down stairs and when she sees jane and Alec complains about how flawless their skin looks even though they're like 13. And then she thinks they're going through an emo phase when she sees the black cloaks but then she points to another member and is like 'ur a little to old to be in ur emo phase still' and it turns out she's one of their mates thanks!


Originally posted by letsdiscussaboutsherlock

People who side with health insurance companies in thinking that profits are more important than sick people getting treatment make me fucking ill.  I don’t give a damn if treating sick people loses billions of dollars a year.  It should still be done.  Why?  Because people are more important than money.

  • Patrick Rothfuss: Sorry guys but Book 3 isn't going to be out this year, best come to terms with it now.
  • George RR Martin: Yeah, Winds of Winter isn't looking likely either.
  • Brandon Sanderson: Well it's an incomplete list but I'm currently working on these fifteen books covering eight distinct universes and twelve planets three of them will probably be released this year and at least two in 2016, I'll keep you guys updated though. Also I'm touring so come to a signing!

anonymous asked:

Wait so...All Might is your kid? That seems kinda....

aNON what problem do you even have with my skeleton son let’s talk about this what has Toshi done to you that you’d exclude him like that he’s as much worthy of the title of Son™ as any other bnha character actually in my specific case my child Toshinori is one of the two reasons why I started this manga to begin with he was my son even before I knew him yes, yes, he’s definitely my son as well

I’d fight an actual army for this mess of a human being tbqh

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as promised: the fetishism callout post!

let me just begin by saying there's nothing wrong with finding any of the cast members attractive. this is an EXTREMELY attractive cast. everyone is so FINE I bet even the folks backstage who we don't see are gorgeous. Its okay to be sexually attracted to them too! We've all made posts professing our love to the cast, which is perfectly fine!! Right now you're looking at Leslie Odom Jr's fiancé! we good!!

but ya see there's a big difference between "anthony ramos is my sweet freckled child <333" and "I want anthony to shove his #thicc cock inside of me and ten other cast members at the same time but also freckles uwu"

You see the difference right?? Right??????

I don't have anything against writing smut about the characters (who, yes, are technically real people but they've been dead for literal centuries ok. Let it go) but it just gets weird REEAAAAL fast when u say the same thing about musical!John Laurens and the real live human being Anthony Ramos. It gets even weirder when u talk about the cast members in this way in relations to each other??? Shipping real people in a serious, unironic way is just a lil :/// to me (I say "serious, unironic way" bc I do write rpf with my friend but its a Huge Joke™ and nonsexual and come on I don't actually ship sandra bullock and steve harvey together ok). I mean Anthony is quite frankly dating Jasmine Cephas's a legitimate fact. There are pictures. It's on Wikipedia. They're in LOVE and its PRECIOUS and they're gonna get MARRIED eventually so why tf r yall writing about him bottoming for Lin????????

And Lin!!! He has a beautiful WIFE AND SON. You can speculate about his sexuality, NOT PUBLICLY BC HE SEES THINGS, but that's fine if u honestly must??? (although he tweeted that he was straight once during his "grease live" livetweeting U can talk about how cute he and jonathan groff are! But y'all don't stop there do u? Bc one second ur talkin about them being cute and then a sentence later it's all "and then he SUCKED his BIG FAT DICK clean off!!!!!! He was dickless!!!! While wearing their costumes!!!!!!!!!! He choked on the full decapitated dick!!!!!"

That shit ain't cute.

So, now that u finally realize that (hopefully), we can get to the real nitty mcfreaking gritty. this part is primarily for white fans but it technically applies to anyone who is not specifically latinx and/or black jsyk:

So even before the whole "baby girl" thing started, I saw quite a few of y'all calling Anthony and Lin "papi" which like.....why should I even have to tell you why this is wrong. If you're not latinx, DON'T USE THE WORD "PAPI", especially since most of y'all are using it in a sexual context. You went ahead and took an innocent word, and turned it into a way to sexualize your faves who just so happen to be latinx. It just ain't right, and its also?? weird??? Let me put it this way, I'm black but not jewish so thatd be like me calling daveed "bubbe". Or something. Either way see how that'd be gross and offensive? You're taking a part of them, a huge part of them, their culture, and turning it into something exotic and sexual. That, my friends, is fetishism.

Another good example of this is the whole "baby girl/boy" n "papa" thing. Y'all rly went ahead and took an cute nickname and rolled RIGHT with it lmao. @alexandralexander explained it beautifully in this post, but basically "papa" (and "mama") is a cute lil way of older folks to regard ppl who are younger than them. It's a caribbean thing, aka something yall just won't get. Idk what the whiter equivalent would be, idk like ur grandad calling u "big guy" or something??? Who knows. Just kno that its NOT SEXUAL IN ANYWAY LIKE WTF WHY DID Y'ALL MAKE THAT A DADDY KINK THING. WHY CAN NOTHING BE SACRED WITH YOU GUYS. Best believe when my grandparents call my brother "papa" they mean it in an endearing way. And that's how Lin meant it? I don't see how it could have been construed any other way??

As for the baby girl/boy thing, in all the times I've been called/heard someone else call someone baby girl, it was NOT sexual. It can be used that way, but it was n o t in this context. Again, its a cultural thing i guess. And with "baby boy", yall do remember that anthony plays lin's son in this show right. okay, just checking.

But forreal. what is wrong wit u guys. I told myself I wasn't gonna kinkshame nobody but its Time, it rly and truly is Time.

One last point I want to make (as if this isn't long enough already) is the language with which u talk about the cast too. This was said rly well in several posts especially this one that uses that tags ppl tend to use, but i’m gonna elaborate on it a little. I just want to know right now why Anthony (or our lighter skinned and SURE AS HELL THE WHITE cast members) is "sweet precious sunflower child cinnamon biscuit roll wheatgrass turkish delight with sprinkles or some other corny shit <333" while daveed is AUTOMATICALLY "raw me zaddy" THE FUCK??? Why we gotta go STRAAIGGHTT to zaddy-basis with daveed??? Why do I see y'all talking about his dick size???? Y'all dont do that from the get-go for the lighter skinned members (which is sad bc daveed is already a certified Lightskint™ so that's rly saying something)?? Why can't black actors (and characters) ever be seen as "sweet turnip bumblebees (???)" instead of either being put on an inhuman pedestal where it's "STEP ON ME BAD BITCH QUEEN" or sexualized with some "CHOKE ME YOU COCKSLUT" ???? Ask yourselves why y'all do that. I'll wait. 
And y'all don't even TALK about oak (as a quick sidenote okieriete is not that hard of a name to pronounce y'all just don't care to try. It sounds exactly like its spelled) but tbh I don't rly want u to bc you'd just sexualize him as well. Plus that means more for me cause I'm engaged to him too :) remember to save the date!!
This was all over the place and idk if I even said what I was trying to say but whatever. I guess what I'm trying to say is (and this is to white fans) you're stanning a thing full of people of color. im assuming that this is probably the first thing that youve been rly into that has included exclusively people of color. Please just be mindful of the way you talk about them. There's a history of you exotifying and sexualizing poc to the point that historically, people have been killed for??? There's a history behind y'all calling latinx folks "papi" and automatically assuming black folks got a big dick ok lmao. At the end of the day, the way you talk about them shows that you don't rly respect them as much as you claim to do??? Idk I wish I had made notes about this bc it sounded waaaaaaayyy better in my head but! Whatever it's still lit. s/o to @aaronsburrr for assistance! 
You know what?

I’m gonna say it out loud and proud. 

I love Ninjago. I love every single character from Ninjago. And so many characters get hated on for stupid things. Well, you know what?

I love them all.

I love Nya. I love that she has problems with guys, like just about every girl does. I love that wants to be part of an all-boys club in some way (I sure as heck did when I was younger!). I love that she struggles to figure out her identity in the team, as both a samurai and a ninja. I love that she has problems. I love that that makes her human.

I love Kai. I love his cocky attitude, and the fact that he’s still figuring it all out. I love that he tries to be leader and still ends up messing everything up, even though he’s the one the other ninja seem to follow. I love that he acts as a brother to not only Nya, but Lloyd as well. I love that he cares for his sister, but gives her space and lets her find her own path. I love that he makes stupid decisions, because those make him human.

I love Cole. I love that he tries to lead, but still ends up following. I love that he has family problems, that he’s had to try a lot of things before settling on being a ninja. I love that he sacrifices himself for his teammates. I love that he’s kind of a showoff, and has obsessions with ridiculous things. I love that he’s not just strong, but smart and even wise at times. I love that he can be strong in bad situations. I love that he has problems with like his friend’s girlfriend, because that happens! It makes him human.

I love Jay. I love his positive attitude, but I also love the fact that he can be more sensitive too.I love that he has trouble controlling his emotions, that he’s impulsive and wild. I love his laugh, and his terrible jokes. I love his humble background, and his slightly overbearing parents. I love that his friend was interested in his girlfriend, and even after fighting, they managed to make up. I love that he has problems that can take some time for him to fix. Because that makes him human.

I love Zane. I love that he’s confused about his identity and his place on the team. I love that he’s gone through so many hardships, both with his realization of being a nindroid and his transition to a new body. I love his voice of reason in the team. I love that he can have a cheerful, joking side to balance out his cold exterior. I love that he’s intelligent, and that that can get in the way of reason. I love that he has trouble relating to the other ninja. Because even though he’s a nindroid, those flaws make him human. 

I love Lloyd. I love watching him grow from a whiny brat to a mature young man. I love that we get to see him face all the problems that come with his destiny. I love that he faces them head on, even though he knows they will come with consequences. I love that he’s had to watch his family fall apart multiple times, but he still managed to pull through it. I love that he accepts help, even though he’s the most powerful of all of the ninja. I love that he never lost his charm, even when he aged. I love that he has to pull through, even when the other ninja may not be able to. I love him, and how he’s human, like all of them.

I love them. I love them all. I understand they have flaws. I know they all have lots of problems. But I love them despite those. Those flaws? That’s what makes a good character, because no human is perfect. Those flaws are what make them interesting. And I love them all so much. I think they’re brilliant. 

anonymous asked:

louis doesn't 'play up the gay' with harry because the moment he does yall will take it as proof that they're a couple. you're saying he could act exactly the same as he does with liam or calvin or niall, in that those are his friends, and yall wouldn't immediately jump on it as 'proof'? if he sat on harry's lap you wouldn't take that as platonic, if he had a water fight with harry it wouldn't be platonic, etc etc. he can't act that way with harry because yall convinced they're a couple

Do you know what the natural human tendency is when someone says they can’t have something? It makes them want it more. Fact. They might not even really want it but the fact that someone says they can’t makes their desire for it to increase.

Heightened attention: When something is hard to get (or forbidden) you immediately pay more attention to it. Notice that when you are on a restricted diet, you sometimes get too focused on what you “can’t” eat. This heightened attention – which can escalate into obsession – makes the forbidden food seem very important.

1DHQ created this situation of heightened attention towards Larry when they basically cut off all interactions cold turkey back in 2012. So obviously over time peoples desire to see them interact grew. In fact, people started paying more attention to them after the interactions stopped because they thought it was so odd that it got to a point where they didn’t even exist on the same stage. And before you say “y'all larries made them stop interacting back in 2012 cause you were so obsessed”, I’m sorry, but no. Between their Twitter messages and physical interactions between 2010-2012, Louis and Harry did nothing to discourage the fans excitement towards them, so it was clearly 1DHQ’s call to shut it down. Louis and Harry demonstrated many times they were rebelling against their managements wishes to keep them separated in the public eye. 

So this brings me back to my original question: Why shut down Larry interactions while simultaneously encouraging homoerotic behavior between all the others for the last 3 years? Why completely enforce the two ‘friends’ to stop interacting in the first place? Why was management so afraid of fans shipping the two of them together when this type of harmless romantic shipping existed long before Larry Stylinson?  

the signs as i've known them
  • Aries: Analytical and very logically minded though they have a soft spot and if you get to it they can be insightful towards you and towards the world. They care even if they don't show it. They find great comfort in science and logics.
  • Taurus: Confused and kind of scared like, all the time. They try not to let that show, though, and it makes them seem more or less cold and hard. It's because of this that when you become close to them they'll care deeply and loyally for you. They like things that make sense to them whether it be arts or science or anything else.
  • Gemini: They'll push their struggles, no matter how much bigger they are, away to help someone they care about deal with their's. You'll know if they like you because if they don't, they're blatant about it. They love art.
  • Cancer: Appearing to not care about what others think, it's one of their biggest worries. They don't let that stop them from being themselves, though, and are generally strong people even if they don't know it. They care immensely for others and are extremely empathetic and sometimes don't know when to put themselves first.
  • Leo: Really, really cute. Once you're friends, even if you never really talk, they'll always be there to pick off right where you left off and they're really loyal in that way. Super homely and kind.
  • Virgo: Emotionally very elusive and sometimes they'll crack and spill all their problems to you. They're usually a pretty sturdy shoulder to cry on being pretty great listeners, they love to see you follow their advice. There's a lot of stuff you don't know about them as they're not people that spill their guts out to you right away, you kind of have to earn their backstory. Extremely valuable friend.
  • Scorpio: They tend to get sucked into things easily and may loose themselves in the popular crowd when that's not really what they want. They're empathetic and usually great friends.
  • Libra: Underestimated and talented. They have an admirable philosophy about anything and will always be there for you, loyal as fuck, strong as fuck.
  • Sagittarius: Hard to talk to a lot of the time, they don't really know how to do friendship and might not have the best morals but god are they gorgeous human beings. Even if they're hard to talk to, every conversation you'll have with them will be a valuable one. They hate showing it but are really troubled on the inside and you know you're close if they do show it.
  • Capricorn: Funny and generally excited about life. Despite being hilarious and easy going on the outside, if you're friends with them, they'll care a shit ton for you and can tell if something's wrong. Total optimists.
  • Aquarius: Hopelessly artistic. Whether or not they show it, they're rooted in the arts and will get to expressing that sooner or later in one way or another. If you're friends with them it's a great friendship. Always warm and accepting.
  • Pisces: They're easy to take advantage of and terribly emotional but still are extremely valuable as family and friends. Ridiculously loyal to anyone who shows remote interest in them and gets invested into whatever they care about fast and hard.

i can’t even put into words how proud i am of myungsoo right now. people (even some inspirits sadly) would always hate on him for just being a visual who wasn’t really good for anything else. i know how hard it is to hear that as one of his stans but can you imagine how he must have felt hearing that for basically 6 years? but instead of lashing out, he used it as his motivation and worked so so hard on his vocals and look at him now! on masked singer!! with people are asking if he’s the strongest vocalist in infinite now!!!!!! that’s how good he is! his voice is so unique and actually really powerful but he’s always been overshadowed vocally and infinite songs don’t do his vocals justice tbh. but he did so well and he knew he did well and i’m so proud and just, please love him ;u;

anonymous asked:

I wanted to follow this blog to gain insight on making my own story more diverse, but I see too late this is just some front to put racism behind every motive a producer/writer/director has for not doing exactly what YOU want. Even when the creator themselves defends their choices, they're "Not good enough" or worse, they're internally racist against their own culture... Sorry that some writers don't want to patronize POC and actually write them as people.

So, let me get this straight, what you’re basically saying is that you followed us, because you wanted to study POC, like we’re some kind of peculiar insects to you, but you didn’t expect that we, POC, are actually human and want to be treated as such. And now you’re angry that we even dare to raise our voices to point out media and fandom’s racial bias.

With all due respect, we won’t even waste our time discussing BS like this. It’s like you’re trying to prove us, fans of colour, that racism doesn’t exist and that’s all in our heads. Okay, good luck with that. 

To quote this meta:

1) we don’t care 2) this isn’t about you 3) do something else with your time and energy than trying to make our anger comfortable for you.

You know where the unfollow and block buttons are.

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  • what she says: i'm fine
  • what she means: we know so much about our universe but we also know so little. like, do you ever think about aliens? don't you think we sort of, like, project our own humanness onto them? why do they travel in flying objects like we do? there's no way of knowing that that's how they travel. and they're always stealing humans to experiment on them so they can learn more about us. like, doesn't that sort of reflect who we are as people? i mean we're always on these endeavors to learn more and more about our universe, but who is to say that aliens would be doing the same exact thing? like, it's just a reflection of who we are when, really, there's no way we can predict the way an alien would travel, act, or even look. what if they don't even have bodies, and they're just entities? like, they could be functioning on a totally different molecular level than us
preference #164 stretch marks
  • Harry: Just a few on the edges of your boobs. They grew too fast for your body to catch up. You found them to be disgusting, and absolutely hated wearing anything that flaunted them. Harry on the other hand, thinks the total opposite. He's constantly telling you how much he loves them, or how they simply just make you... you.
  • Niall: You've had stretch marks for as long as you can remember. You'd been teased for having these lines on your legs for years. For a while you were even ashamed of wearing shorts, skirts, or dresses. When you had met Niall he fell in love with you, all of you, including your stretch marks. He runs his finger along them whilst in bed, mumbling words like 'beautiful' or 'mine'.
  • Zayn: They're your biggest insecurity. Looking at them, touching them, feeling them, or even knowing that they're there make you upset. For a while you wouldn't even show yourself to Zayn, afraid he'd be as disgusted as you. When he noticed them whilst in the bedroom, he continued kissing your body, including your stretch marks. "Perfect," he whispered, before kissing them yet again.
  • Louis: "I like them." He ran his finger along the thin lines on your hips. You looked at him funny. "Why? They're disgusting." He smiled as he shook his head. "No ones perfect babe. I've got my very own, and I've learned to love them. Just like you should. We're only human."
  • Liam: Let's face it, you've got quite the bum for a not so big girl. The bum didn't come alone though, it was accompanied by a few light lines. You were insecure up until you met Liam. Most guys when they noticed them got weirded out. Liam shrugged it off. To him they meant nothing other than the fact you're you.

anonymous asked:

Even if camren is real, i "suppose" that Lauren and Camila are tired and sick of how intense we are. They need space, and sometimes we forget that they're human too, and they still teenagers (most of them) they are scared and confused just like we are, the only thing they're asking for is that we respect their private lives. They accept the fact that we ship them (L&C) but we HAVE TO respect them. I'm camren shipper with my heart and it hearts when they're sad or being "attack" by "fans".