me & my "boyfriend" got into a fight today. we've been under a lot of stress in our relationship lately & we're sneaking around at school to be together & i'm risking getting into a lot of trouble if i get caught with him. he makes me feel bad about not wanting to take more risks & doesn't understand why i got so offended when he started saying i wouldnt do something that would be a huge risk. he doesn't even give me credit for the risks i already take. how do you think i should handle this?