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Harry Styles’ Natal Chart Analysis

So many of you have been asking me to do this forever and I finally finished it and decided to post it! It’s quite long but quite worth the read.  (And very interesting.  Especially if you want to see what you have in common with him!) 

A general note: none of this is written from any bias or from what we as fans already know. It was taken from websites and books that I own, as well as my own knowledge of the signs and how they affect a person.  Read this willing to note the positive AND negative aspects of his personality. 

Please feel free to ask me any questions about my own personal feelings/interpretations of this, or chime in with your own! 

Without further ado and below the cut, here is… the Natal Chart of Harry Styles.

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When Universes Collide (part 1)

Paring: Avengers, X-Men X Reader

Prompt: In this story, Avengers Universe and X-Men Universe finally collide together during the Avengers’ Civil War.

Warnings: Some swearing

Length: 2,927 words

Introduction


Your name: submit What is this?

Siting next to Charles on his private jet took you back years when he came to you for help about a future event that would render all mutants extinct. Now, you’re here again to be the voice of reason for all mutants so that future event won’t happen all over again. Great …

‘What are you thinking about?’ Charles’ calming voice echoed in your mind and you turned your head to gaze at him.

‘Can’t you already tell?’ Your lips curled into a soft knowing smile and cocked an eyebrow at him.

Charles had the tendency to peer inside your mind instead of asking what was wrong when you looked distressed or lost in thought. The fact that he asked you first was surprising to say the least.

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eene-fangirl  asked:

Do you think EddEddy was canon in the series?

Understanding that it is a show about 12-year-olds who are repulsed by romance, and the less-sensitive time period the show comes from, and the completely-insensitive old-fashioned setting it takes place in, I think EddEddy is as canon as it can be at this stage of their lives and more developed than most of the other ships addressed in canon so far.  It is also one of the only ships that seems to be headed anywhere positive.  The show has directly acknowledged it as a potential outcome several times, they hold hands, lock lips, share beds, and marriage has been suggested at least twice…  Add on the fact that keeping Edd and Eddy together is essentially the whole plot of the show, and it just becomes too much for me to write off.

I think it’s important to remember that canon in this show is just hard to ascertain, multiple episodes unravel their own reality and don’t explain what was or wasn’t real.  These children go to space without spacesuits and have no issues. There is an official map that the show almost never adheres to.  The most canon things, if you ask me, are the things that get the most focus and EddEddy gets more focus than anything.  I would even imagine they’ve gone further with EddEddy’s shipteasing than any of the hetero ships.

afestiveoldisappointment  asked:

Do you ever think about how your life would be different if you didn't have kids? If so, where do you think you'd be and what would you be doing?

To be honest, no. I don’t think about this much. It’s actually quite difficult to imagine my life without them at this point.

But I’m forcing myself to do that exercise right now for the sake of this question. Surely, first and foremost, I would not be living where I do. Specifically, not in this town, because there’d be no reason to pay these exorbitant property taxes which fuel this fancy school district. I’d live somewhere far more humble, and then I wouldn’t be tied to this career and industry I hate so much. I could make the trade I dream of: doing work I like without worrying about pay. And then more globally, too. I’ve had offers to take jobs that would require me to leave the midwest, and if not for those two goddamn anchors (kidding) I’d have probably taken one, most likely in a place without winter. This all presupposes I could talk Sharon into that plan.

So, the first-order results of my kidless life are: smaller house, enjoyable career, and warm climate. Other likely outcomes, given the increase in free time: I’d be really fit, and a way less rusty musician. That all sounds good, but as we say in the biz, I’m not bid.

First Editing Steps: How to Transform Your Novel

Whether you’re pleased with your first draft or you want to tear it to shreds, you should take the editing process very seriously and use it as an opportunity to transform your novel into something you’re super proud of. You worked hard on that first draft, you spent months—or maybe even years—building something you can rework into an impressive full length masterpiece. Don’t stop working after that first draft is done. Give yourself a break and jump back into it.

Here are a few first editing steps you should be sure to make:

Use the first draft to check for plot holes/continuity

Plot holes and continuity errors could end up ruining a novel. The world needs to remain consistent and we need to trust that the writer thought it all out. Go through the first draft and take notes. Does everything match up? Do scenes need to be rearranged? Does it connect? Do the scene transitions make sense? Read through your novel first to make sure everything works. If it doesn’t, that’s fine, but make sure you jot it down. Plan on rewriting scenes that don’t add up and adding in detail where you might need it. This is important!

Don’t worry too much about small grammar edits

Small grammatical errors don’t make a huge difference in a first draft. If you see something, take the time to make note of it, but don’t stress. I usually work on content first and then jump into editing grammar mistakes. If sentence structure and problems with tenses need a huge overhaul, that’s a different issue. Point that out during your first run through.

Check on character development

Does character motivation make sense? What does your protagonist want? Do they get it? Does the outcome make sense and leave readers satisfied with the conclusion? Character motivation and development is what drives your story forward, so make sure it’s all there. Work on building a character that your audience can relate to and even root for. Use your first draft to make sure your characters grow and change in some way (unless the point is for them to stay stagnant).

Print out your novel

This might seem like a weird suggestion, but printing out your novel so you have a physical copy makes a HUGE difference. It can be somewhat expensive, so if that’s not possible for you, it’s okay. With a physical copy, you can jot down notes, circle mistakes, etc. If you’re comfortable doing that on your computer, that’s fine too!

-Kris Noel

anonymous asked:

hey I've got exams/assessments this week, any tips to be less anxious?

I got a few, yeah!

  • Take breaks. If you start to feel like it’s hard to focus during studying, I advise that you step away for a few minutes before going at it again. I found that I didn’t absorb anything if I didn’t let myself take a breather
  • Approach them with confidence. My old Art History teacher would tell us to think positive thoughts, to tell yourself that you’d rock it would help the overall outcome. Try not to psych yourself out!
  • Get a good night’s sleep.
  • Read the directions carefully, change positions every few minutes or so, skip questions you don’t understand so you don’t waste too much time.
  • Eat breakfast, preferably fruits or veggies to help reduce the stress.
  • And remember that as long as you do your best, that is ALL that matters.

Good luck on your exams, lovebug!

State of Westallen: Season 3  Part One

Hello my lovelies!

 Your favorite, absentee fandom writer is back and I’m ready to finally process  my feelings about the Season Three finale. Some may disagree but I think this is the strongest season of “The Flash” yet and my owned-by-Westallen ass has nothing to do with it. Okay, maybe a little bit.

Originally posted by ihiphop

Anyway, this is not going to be so much a plot point-by-point like I usually do, but work more in the thematic elements of the show which I think was really strong this year. As per usual, everyone is batting .400 on this amazing cast, but the real MVPs have to be our dear Westallen. Grant is pitch-perfect as the menacing Savitar, which is made all the more awful when you can see the damaged boy underneath that fell-asleep-on-a-waffle-iron face (seriously guys?). 

Originally posted by parisblakestuff

Candice is the world’s prettiest crier, and is able to show mercy and calculated rage towards Savitar. Iris is the most kindhearted person in the universe, but she had zero hesitation once it was clear Savitar meant to kill Barry. Iris’ protective instinct is usually underplayed, but here it’s shown in full force. Also, it was so satisfying to see Iris, Iris, take her future back from the person who has been terrorizing her for months. I know some people thought she should have come to this moment sooner, but I think it would have detracted from that twist, and what a sweet twist it was. 

Originally posted by meenadhawan

Nonetheless, this episode shows a side to Westallen that makes them the best couple in the Arrowverse: they inspire mercy in each other. Iris has done that a lot this season, holding Barry back and holding him accountable to his values. Barry has and always will have a dark side to him, raging pain whenever someone close to him is threatened. Once that line is crossed, he has no boundaries anymore. Iris is able to curb these urges and make him into the Flash which protects the entire multiverse. Just as Barry accepts, supports, and protects Iris and her dreams unconditionally, no matter what. Barry helps Iris push forward, and Iris protects Barry by holding him to a higher standard.
That’s why revealing Savitar as a version of Barry is so important to the development of their relationship. I’ve read more than a few posts about how Savitar’s revelation as Barry was “predictable” or “uninspired,” and I’ve never been more disappointed in the Westallen fandom. I’m definitely going to write something decidedly pro-writers in the writers v fandom debate, but this is going to be too long already. 

Originally posted by deadwithnoselfesteem

At any rate, let’s break down Savitar’s use in the story. Every year, the Big Bad has been a foil for Barry. Thawne represented the dark side of Barry’s lack of control. Thawne manipulated everyone around him to make one specific outcome, killing pretty much anyone Barry cared about or taking them away from him. Barry still struggles with this, and that’s why Thawne is still kicking around. Zoom represented the rage that Barry felt at this lack of control, but he has a good rein on most of the time. So what does Savitar represent? 

Originally posted by justbarryallen

Fear. Savitar is born because Barry’s remnant is doomed to die, but he doesn’t and is shunned. Savitar lacks control over his own existence, and he finds it in trying to become a god. This is fueled by his rage at being denied the things he loved because he’s a copy of Barry. It festers and boils in him while he’s stuck in eternity, and he is driven insane as a result. Savitar is the result of Barry’s neglect to someone who needs him, someone that Barry used selfishly.
Flashpoint was created because, for once in his life, Barry used everything he had in him to make a better world for himself. It was selfish, absolutely, and he hurt a lot of people as a result. He hated, still hates, himself as a result because this is something that has been in him all along. Snart always said he had a little bit of criminality inside him, because he has that need for control that’s in anybody who suffered tragedy at a young age. What keeps him good, what keeps him human instead of the vengeful god he could be is the people around him. 

Originally posted by slythertan

Iris does this for him because Barry and Iris inspire mercy in each other.

Originally posted by lovemywestallen

So ends Part One. Part Two will be up shortly to deal with that heartbreaking finale and predictions for Season 4!

Originally posted by parisblakestuff

So there’s this.  I know I’ve written a bit about me and Baby’s journey with breastfeeding.  I wholly, freely support breastfeeding, of course.  We all know the benefits.

However, this shit can be really, really hard.  For the most part, I love my time with her.  I love how she snuggles in, and, now that she’s a touch older (like, a small touch older), I love how she looks up at me to make eye contact and then looks away (”you still there, mom?).

I’ve had an overall positive experience with our lactation consultant. but yesterday she said something that made me pause.  We were talking about if I had enough of a supply to move to EBF (no feeding breast milk or formula by bottles.)  Overall, she said I most likely did, but that I had to be prepared for breast feeding to take at least 45 minutes, and to continue switching / offering the other breast until she seems satiated.  Also, I would need to start getting up for the 1:30 feeding - no more sleep shifts at night.  With that, she gave a little shrug and said, “It’s her job to breastfeed right now” (as in, I should be committed to all of these things because her only task right now is to breastfeed.)

And that’s where the needle scratched for this therapist.

Breastfeeding has been challenging for us, but I still think we’ve been fairly fortunate.  I’ve been able to breastfeed at least a little (even at it’s lowest supply) and Baby’s latch has always been spot on.  (She’s a lazy little squidge eater sometimes.)  But at it’s worst, I’ve, as I mentioned yesterday, had all of the terribly depressing thoughts / low confidence about my body not always being able to feed her.

I belong to a mom’s group that is pretty fantastic.  (i found the right group for me.)  And the women in there have been lovely about acceptance around breastfeeding issues.  As rough as we’ve had it, other babies and moms have had it worse.

And I can’t turn off my therapist’s brain with this one.  Of course we want to feed our babies.  Of course we want what’s best for them.  But there are times when the issues around breastfeeding are so significantly impacting to mom’s mental health that I think we really, really need to give ourselves permission to stop if it’s too much.  Severely stressed out, sleep deprived mamas are going to have a hard time enjoying feeding and being with little ones.  And feeding little ones, by breast or bottle, can be one of the sweetest, most tender attachment building times.  

Perinatal mental health is something that is so overlooked and under-diagnosed (even when appropriately screened, women are not given appropriate referrals for treatment and seeing a therapist works!), and it kills my spirit a little when breastfeeding leads to negative outcomes in this area.  It makes us feel like BAD MOMS, which leads to keeping quiet, which leads to not reaching out for support.  And you know what?  Breastfeeding support groups, La Leche, etc. can be so, so beneficial.  For some of us.  For others of us, it might feel like too much, and that’s ok.

I’m still going to take the supplements, pump like crazy, and drink all the water.  95% of the time, she’ll be breast fed.

But I’m still going to do sleep shifts with hubs.

Nobody needs a me at this point that is sleep deprived.  

Anyway.  Do you.  As long as you’re not giving your 2 day old gatorade in her botte (I’ve been a social worker for 16 years), just do you.  Your little one chose you, anyway.  She knew what you were like before she came to you.  <3

BTS reacting to you accidentally sending a nude to another member.  [SMUT]

Rap Monster: He’d accept it as soon as you tell him that it was an accident but would still be mad at you and feel like he needs to punish you. ‘Let me show him who’s babgirl you are~”

Jin: He’d feel really dissapointed that another member saw what’s mean to be for his eyes only but wouldn’t be able to admit his feelings to you. He’d let it out on you on frustrating, dominant sex. 

Suga: He’d take it more as a challenge and get insanely turned on by it, not once hating you for accidentally sending it to another member. ‘Should I remind you who you belong to?’

J-Hope: He’d can’t help but secretly enjoy the fact that someone else has seen what is his and would especially make sure that the boys know who you belong to. [Skinship in front of them]

Taehyung: He’d talk to the member first, making sure he deletes the nude and then take all his frustration out on you, punishing you for being such a bad girl. 

Jimin: He’d become insanely protective of you and make you realize the outcome of your accident all through the night. He’d make sure you remember to always check twice before sending such private pictures. ‘How many times do I have to punish you until you realize?’ 

Jungkook: He’d firstly make sure that you don’t feel too uncomfortable and tell you to not worry about it too much before threatening the member with his life if he doesn’t delete it. Even if he isn’t angry at you, he’d still take out the frustration of another member seeing such a beauty on you during make up sex. 

Love, Youngmi~

#MondayMotivation

How To Live

 We’re all going to be out of here relatively soon, none of us are going to make it past 200. So why are we taking this life so seriously? I was living my life as though I was going to live forever - just lazing around not really doing much.

When I realised that the time we have here is so short, I started doing more of what I loved and thinking less and less about the outside world. I’m here for me, and only me. There’s no need to seek approval from anyone because receiving their pat on the back means nothing compared to living a life that serves you.

If you take a trip to a private island - would you only stay in the hotel for the entire trip, or would you explore the entire island? That’s the way I see my life now. The world is my private island, this is my vacation - it’s not going to last forever and I want to make the most out of my time here.

I stopped thinking too much before doing things and just started doing more, regardless of the outcome - I saw, I explored and I experienced. Playing it safe will result in a boring vacation, the hotel only has so much to offer - sooner or later you’re going to want to venture out into the island. 

I’d rather not wait until my old age to be able to explore the world. None of us know exactly how long we have here, there are no guarantees. So, if you’re playing it safe in the hopes that you’ll be able to do more later - consider what you’d like to be doing today with the time you have right now.

Don’t waste another second of your precious time doing something you hate - make the most of this human experience. Your soul has chosen the Earth as its vacation destination - don’t restrict it to the grounds of the hotel.

Love yourself enough to do what excites you the most.

Peace & positive vibes.

You Pushed Me Away

Masterlist

Pairing: Theo x Reader

Prompt: “I don’t know who you are anymore”

Summary: You found out that Theo killed his own sister, which makes you reconsider everything you previous thought you knew about him. But how the conversation ends shocks you.


Slamming doors, throwing belongings into bags and constant shouting was several of the things that were happening between you and Theo. It had been a long day, one of the worst ones you had ever had in fact.

“Are you really not going to give me the chance to explain?” Theo asked trying to calm you down since the moment you walked through the door.

Picking up your bag which had most of your things inside, you walked over to the door. “Explain what? Explain how you murdered your own sister or how you could of saved her but you decided not too, because the Dread Doctors told you some insane story that you believed!”.

He picked up your bag and placed it back into the bedroom, you gave him a look like he was crazy to even think that you wouldn’t need some space away from him after this. He turned to you, stopping any chance you had to retrieve your bag.

“I was nine years old Y/N. You can’t blame me for believing someone when they told me they had a way to save her.”

“Are you that delusional Theo! They took her heart and gave it to you, your sister died and here you are working for the people who told you that it would be a good idea to kill her.”

This is something that Theo had tried to hide very well, but it was Stiles who told you of his deep dark secret. Which you knew Theo wasn’t happy about.

“I can’t take back what I did babygirl, but what I did then shouldn’t effect us now”.

Turning around you had to refrain from giving in to your urge to slap him. How could he not see that this changed everything? He lied about something that was huge, how could he have kept that from you?

“It effects us now because I don’t know who you are anymore. I’m standing here questioning everything Theo. Our whole entire relationship is a lie”. Looking at him he was looking beyond guilty.

“How I feel about you isn’t a lie babygirl. Me loving you isn’t a lie”.

He had a way with words, that was one of the things that you fell in love with. Theo was one of those people with a charming personality, he knew what to say and the right moment to say it.

“No, don’t do that! Don’t pretend that this isn’t a big deal just because you don’t want to deal with it”.

Sitting down on the kitchen stool it was exhausting fighting with Theo. This relationship was exhausting, and no matter how many times you wanted to walk out the door and stay away the pull of Theo was too much and you came right back. Some would say the relationship you were in was unhealthy, and at times you would agree. But it came down to the simple fact that you love Theo more than you had thought you would, and when you love someone walking away is one of the most hardest things to do.

“It’s a huge deal Y/N and I know that, especially if it’s affecting our relationship this much to make you consider walking out on me. I should of told you, I shouldn’t of let Stilinski be the one to tell you but everything with us happened so fast. And when I was planning on telling you then something always screwed it up, I saw the look in your eye when I told you about me working for the Dread Doctors, I couldn’t bear that same look happen again”.

He keeled down beside you, “It was like you were afraid of me, like I disappointed you in the biggest way possible. But we survived that, and we can survive this. Just please don’t walk out that door, don’t leave me.”

You got up from the chair and joined Theo on the floor, you looked over towards the door and you were stuck. “Everything about us Theo is a constant battle, we fight to stay together so much that in comes back and bites us in the ass. We love each other that’s something that won’t change, but I need you to give me space”.

“So you are leaving me?” he asked.

Moving closer to him you gently kissed him, wanting to feel his lips on yours just in case it was going to be the last time. “I’m giving us time to make sure that this relationship is what we both really want”.

He got up and you followed, pacing back and forth Theo wasn’t looking happy with the decision. “You mean you want space to figure out if this relationship is what you want! Because I already know what I want, you babygirl….I want you”.

“You can’t blame me for wanting some time out! Do you really want me to stay and have us risk this entire relationship for good? Or do you want me to leave for a little while to think things through and then come back to you better and stronger?”

He shoved a photo frame into yours hands, “Look at us here Y/N. Were already better and stronger”.

“No Theo, were not. And I love you too much to have you believe that we are”.

Stepping towards him, you cupped his face and looked at him with sad eyes.

Everything about this relationship was a risk, but it was one you were happy to take. That is why you needed space, because losing Theo wasn’t an outcome you wanted to happen. This option was to prevent that happening down the road. No matter how many times he screwed up, or how mad you got at him the option of a break up wasn’t ever going to be on the table. Space was, but to end this relationship wasn’t even a thought.

“You need to trust me Theo, and you need to have faith in how we feel about each other is stronger than anything. You lied to me about your sister, and I can’t pretend that I’m okay with what you did. But you have to give me time..”.

He walked back into the bedroom and grabbed your bag, handing it to you. "I know when someone tells you that they need space, it means that they’re thinking of leaving you. Babygirl I’m not an idiot so if you’re going to break up with me, than do it here and leave. Because I’m not going to sit around and wait for you to do it sometime down the road.”

He was pushing you away, he had that little faith in you that he was practically shoving you out the door.

Grabbing your bag you stared at him “Wow so this is how you want it to be? Your really going to force my hand?”.

“I’m just speeding up the process” he said.

You looked him dead in the eye, “This is on you, me leaving is your fault. So when you wake up tomorrow all alone in our bed, wishing that I was there…just remember you pushed me out the door.”

Walking up the two steps to the door, you opened it but didn’t exit just yet. You looked back, “I loved you regardless of you being in league with the Dread Doctors, even regardless of all your evil plans to gain more power. And all you had to do was trust me to come back to you” Tears were forming in your eyes, “Theo I was going to come back”.

He didn’t move from his position, so you shut the door behind you and walked into the elevator. Turning once more to look at Theo’s door, the elevator doors shut closed and so did the chapter on your relationship with Theo.

Te-Fi vs. Ti-Fe

Te: It’s not always important to understand all the intricate details of a situation in order to gain a sense of logic or rationality. It’s more important to take action than to spend too much time asking questions. Logic is a fairly universally defined concept; you can see if a plan is efficient, a system works, data/facts support a statement, etc. The outcome is the most important concept of logic, and it is an objective measurement. 

Fi: However, it is important to recognize the subjectivity involved in morality. In fact, morality is a made-up concept created by humans and morals are inherently illogical. The most important part of moral values is the process of personal experience and questioning that goes along with it. We can’t just accept moral laws without personally questioning them and putting them into context of our own lives and beliefs. 

OR

Ti: The most important part of logic is the internal process of reasoning for each individual. Exercising our intellect, questioning the rationality of a process, and being able to understand why we think certain things are logical or not is extremely important. We can’t just accept logic for how it appears on the surface, we have to personally understand why something makes sense. Everyone’s internal process of arriving at an answer is different. 

Fe: Fundamentally, humans have values in order to affect their outward and societal interactions. At the end of the day, it is more important how we treat each other and the people we decide to be than our internal debate about morality. There are certain qualities that we as humans have recognized and valued (ex: kindness, altruism, honesty) because there is a certain universality in morality. It would be pointless to debate the concept of morality and never act in a moral way, that is the most important outcome of the situation. 

Imagine some sort of Morgana/Lena Luthor AU though. I know in Merlin she was permanently killed because she was stabbed with Excalibur. But imagine if she wasn’t. I haven’t watched Merlin too in-depth, so correct me if I’m wrong, but magical beings like Merlin and Morgana, unless stabbed through the heart with a sword forged with dragon’s breath, can never die. 

So imagine the AU where Morgana didn’t die. Instead, she went into hiding, seeing that her quest was a futile effort. That it wasn’t the right time for magic to be accepted. And she lived on through the centuries using her magic to sustain herself and a few times, posing as an orphan to cultivate relationships and connections. Just waiting until the time was right. For the world to be ready to accept her and her powers. And later on, was be adopted by the Luthors. 

And just imagine when Superman showed himself. He has something akin to magic, though he is obviously an alien. But he was extraordinary like herself. And imagine how Morgana/Lena would feel that he, by many, was being celebrated as a hero. Sure, he would always have people afraid of him. But it would give her hope that maybe, just maybe, she would be accepted. 

Then Lex, who is very anti-alien, wages war on Superman. Who else does that sound like from Morgana’s life? A family figure waging war on what she feels defines her? Or at least something/someone she identifies with. Oh yeah, Uther. And Arthur to a degree. And when Lex ends up in jail, she is in the perfect place, once again, to try and change the outcome. The head of a massive family empire. Sounds familiar, doesn’t it? And then she meets Kara, someone who really accepts her. Despite her family’s name. 

And then when Kara confides in Lena, eventually, about the Supergirl thing, she tells Kara about her magic and her past. And little puppy Kara Danvers accepts her for who she is (though it would probably be a process. But let’s be honest, she would eventually). And they stop Cadmus. And live happily ever after. 

Yeah, crack!Headcanon. Don’t take it away from me. I’ve spent way too much time thinking about this, can you tell?

here’s a thought

so I was reading a bunch of YOI metas, discussing the unexplained turnaround in Victor’s decision to go back to skating in episode 12, instead of the retirement his whole plot arc was leading up to,

and i had this weird little idea

what if victor intends to go back to skating…and lose?

bear with bear with

(and this is more of a detailed hc than a meta, but i hope that the imagining comforts you, if you like me are feeling terrified about the writing and plot arc of yoi s2.)  

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A thank you and goodbye 🌸

I have finally made the decision to quit Tumblr. For me, it is just a waste of time when you reblog similar things over and over again with no real interaction with your followers/other blogs. I feel that it is a very impersonal social media platform, and it takes up too much of my time to be so unimportant in the grand scheme of things. I feel like I have so many more better things I could be doing instead of reblogging pictures for an hour that eventually don’t lead to any outcome. For this reason, I’ve decided to quit Tumblr. I have quite a large following, so I just want to say from the bottom of my heart thank you so so much to anyone who ever took the time to send me a kind message or ask. I will be leaving this blog up in case anybody wants to continue to reblog from it. I also use Instagram as my form of social media so if anybody wants to follow me on there it’s @pixie.holly. I hope all of you understand why I made this decision. Goodbye, lovelies. 💗 Love always, Holly Ann

Bad Luck: Part Three

(So someone had asked if this was going to be another Chloe Akumatize stroy… and This is my answer! Enjoy!)

For the next few days, Adrien taken to talking to Marinette more often at school; trying to learn more about her. And with each conversation? He found new reasons to like her… Also during those few dyas, Adrien wasn’t able to get a hold of his father at all. But Alya had been sending the progress pictures and by the look of them? Marinette was about done, Alya explained that she only had to do was to add more details to the suit that she decided on last minute; with four days left for any mistakes that might happen before the Ball.

Also during those few days? No akuma attacks… There hasn’t been one for over a month now and it was concerning him. Hawk Moth was obviously saving his power for one powerful akuma and he knew that he was dreading the day that he would have to face him or her.

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some of you need some help

believe me, all SB’s primary focus is the money. No one’s spending time with and having sex with old wrinkly white men because they enjoy it. 

But

you cannot just jump on them, humiliate them, and act like a spoiled brat the second they bring up intimacy. 

I see countless babies posting “funny” screenshots on here of men asking them for intimacy and them saying something they deem “clever” about his bank account. (ex. “what are you thinking, sex wise?” “*insert snarky comment about using his credit card here*)

There are ways to work that conversation to your advantage. Usually, when I’m talking to a POT, I like to remain a bit professional at first, making sure he knows that I’m doing it so we don’t waste anyone’s time. THIS HAS BROUGHT ME SO MUCH SUCCESS. Usually this causes a POT to ask me if I have any ground rules, if he hasn’t brought up intimacy yet, I don’t. If he has, I make sure to include that there will be no intimacy until I get my first full allowance. I make sure to include something at the end such as “for safety reasons and to avoid scams, you understand.” because this makes it seem like I’m just taking precautions and am serious about having an arrangement. Whether or not this brings up the allowance talk is irrelevant, either way results in a positive outcome. Because he either brings it up and you get the number talk out of the way, or he doesn’t bring it up and you discuss it later after establishing more of a connection. The topic of allowance will get brought up again if he isn’t a salt, and I like to get it out of the way before a date so I’m not wasting time, and I think discussing money too much in person is tacky, and I tell him that. It makes you seem more mature, and not just interested in his money while you’re on the date. You have more time to talk and connect. If he is upset about wanting the money before sex, he’s a salt and now you know before you’ve wasted precious time. Being polite takes you SO FAR. 

If he is a salt and tries to insult you, by all means, rip him to shreds if that’s your style. But you can’t just come for his throat the second he brings it up. There’s two sides to this arrangement after all.

This has brought me so much success. You don’t get a 6k allowance plus another k every other month for shopping purposes by being rude, you get it by being nice.