hey im in need of help. Im 14 and agender, but i hate telling people that i prefer they/them (tho i dont mind he/she) and i generally hate telling people that because i always get the 'youre 14', 'just a kid', 'youre just being a special snowflake' and it makes uncomfortable and anxious... what should i do??
Unfortunately, we are a blog specifically for adults, so we don’t quite feel comfortable taking on this question. I’ve conferred with some of the others on the admin team, and they’ve recommended @transgenderteensurvivalguide
Despite their name, they don’t just deal with binary trans issues, so they may be better equipped to help you out, since they’re geared more for teenagers. Some other blogs you may want to look into, if they can’t assist:
I hope you’re able to find the help and support you need, my friend. Take care.