they need you and your happy spirit

1. Losing people hurts. Friends, lovers, soul mates. You will cry into your pillow and lose sleep, and your eyes will hurt more than ever. Don’t let it affect you so much, you will be okay. Your heart is learning to love and forgive and so is your brain.

2. Eat that pasta you want but don’t just sit back and eat three more plates. If you want that ice cream bar eat it but don’t go crazy on sweets. You deserve a healthy body along with your mind and spirit but you don’t need to keep yourself away from the things you love.

3. Take a shower. Wash your body with hot water and wash your hair with cold. Make your bed and spray lemon scent perfume on your pillows that you stole out of your mom’s bathroom. It’ll help you breathe and sleep better, you’ll have better dreams too.

4. Don’t rely on other people as your happiness. If they make you happy that’s great but what about when they leave? Have your hobbies as your happiness, or even yourself. Be a whole person on your own.

5. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Do you know how many things you have survived and gotten through? You are a brave person and you shouldn’t be so rough and hurtful. You are a piece of art.

6. Don’t focus too much on outer beauty. Those stretch marks don’t make you ugly, neither do your bruises and marks. It shows you’ve been through life and have experienced many things that tied themselves to your body to tag along in life with you.

7. Don’t just wait around for something to happen. Go out there and make it happen and face scary things you would have ran from in the past.

8. Most importantly dance and love and
live and thrive. There is beauty within the ugly and the light will always outshine the dark. You only get one shot at this life, how do you want to spend it?

—  Tips from Blossite Part 2
👻 🍫‘Expecto Patronum’ 🍫 👻

inspired by jk rowling’s “ patronus “, a spell to summon your patronus (not a spirit animal) to help you in times of need and despair

👻 gather: a wand (if you so choose) a stuffed animal, an object representative of a happy memory (as many as you want), chocolate

🍫 meditate on the happy memory

👻 guide the memory with the wand into the animal.

🍫 seal it there

👻 cuddle the stuffed animal

🍫 eat the chocolate

Winter’s coming, but not fast enough. These books will tide you over until Game of Thrones season 6 premieres.

Looking for some kick-ass ladies?

Maybe you like your kick-ass ladies to come with a great destiny?

What about fierce battles and daring deeds?

Need a touch of magic?

One word: DRAGONS.

Happy reading!

  • James: Your dad said he liked me. But he also made it clear what he’d do to me if I ever hurt you or did anything bad. In fact, he described what he’d do in very graphic detail. Then just like that, he switched to some random, happy topic. I like the guy, but he’s scary.
  • Lily: He’s out of line! He has no right to threaten my boyfriends. I’m eighteen. An adult. I don’t need his help. I can threaten my boyfriends myself.

Sometimes an obstacle isn’t a sign that God is saying “no.” It may just mean you now have a new thing in your path that you need to pray about

for example

If God has called you to be a psychologist, and you apply to 3 grad schools and you get rejected from all 3, that doesn’t necessarily mean that God is saying “no, never mind, stop trying to be a psychologist.” It’s just a new thing to pray about. Pray about a different approach. Pray about what new schools you should apply to. Pray about whether going to school now versus in a year is the best option. Pray about next steps.

Sometimes, we find ourselves spiritually exhausted by the obstacles in our way and begin to interpret our frustrations as signs that God has said no, and that we are also not good enough to achieve the goal. I encourage you to lean on God even more in those circumstances for the strength. Because you will need to push through those frustrations, get over those obstacles, and do what you are called to do

America's Education System

You know what school teaches you? It doesn’t efficiently teach you how to get along with people, pay taxes, ace a job interview or even more importantly: be happy with yourself when others aren’t, know that you don’t need a significant other to be fulfilled, or that everyone is equal. You know what school teaches you? School teaches you to be a homework machine, to spit out worksheets and keep formulas in your head until the next test. It teaches you how to stay up late studying things you don’t even understand and sacrificing time with your family to put yet another number on your transcript. It teaches you to volunteer not because you care, but because colleges like people who volunteer. It teaches you to follow all their rules and then you get into the world and people wonder why everyone is the same, dull person.

Empath/ Witchy Self- Care

This is going to be a list to help with self-care for empaths but it can be used for witches in general, I’ll be listing many tips. Some may work for you, others may not- feel free to alter them to fit you. The biggest strategy for empaths would be to have layers of wards and intentions around them and on them as a means of protecting themselves from energies that are not wanted and amplifying energies that are wanted/ needed.

Safe guarding your environment.

You can use sigils placed above doors, by your bed, and other places to promote health, good sleep, to keep away spirits, to ward against specific energies, etc. Whatever you need.

Smoke cleanse or cleanse with bells. Use a bell with a ring that inspires happiness or positivism in you. Make sure to get corners and dark spaces- they collect pockets of energy like more open spaces don’t.

Keep your spaces clean and organized- this gives less of a chance of ‘energy cobwebs’ and begets an overall peaceful energy.

Set your bed clothes and blankets with specific intentions or wards. Ideas for this include: anti nightmares, deep sleep, overall comfort, or encompassing love.

Keep reading

Sunday.

  • Make sure you’re drinking water and you eat some food.
  • If you have meds you need to take, take them.
  • You know people who are terrified by what’s going on. Make sure they know they’re loved and supported.

Keep looking for the little things that give you happiness or strength or relief. You keep a fire burning by adding a little bit of fuel at a time, and your spirit is no different. The little things are very important.

“If nothing else in this long and short life, let me be true to my conscience, to the dignity of my own heart. Let me act in a way that says, I have honored my spirit as truly as I have honored others’. Let me stand tall and rooted as a mountain in the face of a quaking world.”
― Jennifer DeLucy

Sagittarius Rising: It is nice to spread positive energy everywhere and explore the world but do cherish the moments that you spend by yourself and from time to time do remember you have every right to settle down and lay your roots somewhere. Life will not stop for you if you take a moment and think about what you need instead of how making other people entertained and happy.  

Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansion and this why when you are in a room with a Sagittarius they seem huge and bigger than life itself. On top of that add an abundance of energy that can lift anyone’s mood easily and this is the reason that makes people like being around Sagittarius. Jupiter is not only about expansion but it also about believing in luck and that good things will come around. Also there’s a desire or a need to travel, see the world and pursue higher education in all it’s forms in order to keep to grow intellectually . To view life through a certain philosophy that makes living life seem meaningful and important. To be able to touch people’s heart and minds through simple words filled with energy and affection. 

Sagittarius keeps on looking for the bright side in life because they face so many hardships in life and they understand the importance to hold onto hope. They will love deeply, respect and fight for you once they love you and they will try to provide you with the best in the world. They are aggressive fighters but they are wise in choosing the battles to fight for. They usually close to their father than their mother, their father was the one who installed important values and ideas in them and they grow with it. They try to respect everyone and they accept people from all over the world. They are the stranger that never belongs to one place and as they go from one place to another, from one person to another they keep spreading love and warmth.  

With this rising you will have on your 7th house/the descendant the sign of Gemini. It is your opposite sign and it suppose to indicate the type of partners you like and how you will behave when in love. It is your opposite sign and it is the sign that balances you out, you may think of it as your shadow side when you are in private or in love. With Gemini on 7th on the descendant you desire a partner that you can chill and relax with and have good time being together. You want someone you can travel the world with and explore everything together, someone who you can share your ideas and beliefs with and to broaden each other’s horizon. You want someone to be your best friend and have fun with. You desire someone respects giving you the space and freedom you need and you will do the same.   

Features: They depend on the planets that exist on the first house, so having other planets can change your features from your typical Sagittarius rising.

The eyes tend to be small or average sized and the lips are thin and small but becomes wide when smiling. The nose is usually medium size and hooked on the end. The face tends to longish and squarish and the neck tends to be tall.  

Give Heart (Ni No Kuni Inspired)

A spell to uplift the spirits of a friend and help improve their day.

You Will Need:

💛 A piece of Paper
💛 Pen 
💛 Yellow Candle
💛 Open Window
💛 Fire Safe Dish or Bowl
💛 Rune for spell from game

Steps:

💛 Clear your space and if needed cleanse it and yourself and light your candle.

💛 On your piece of paper on one side draw the rune for the spell and then on the other side write your friend’s name. Fold up the piece of paper if needed

💛 Focus on your desire to bring your friend positive sunny yellow energy to brighten their day. “(name), I send you joy” Repeat as many times as you desire while carefully lighting your paper on fire via the yellow candle

💛 Carefully put the paper onto the dish to burn to ash

💛 Once it has burned out take your candle and blow it out, making sure the smoke goes towards and out the window, imagine this being you sending the spell out to your friend. Dispose of ash properly.

not to sound fake deep but please protect your spirit. the company you keep and the environment you chose to be in can change you into an entirely different person than you really are. i know some of us are forced to stay in toxic environments but find positive & healthy outlets. when hate builds up inside you, its only hurting you. the people youre (rightfully) hating are unaffected. they get to be happy while youre bitter and thats unfair. i know its not always easy but live happy, laugh, brush certain things off. in these are hard times and you need to do more than just survive, you need to live you deserve it. you dont always have to be Woke™ . you dont always have to call others out. sometimes you can just chill & be happy and you deserve it heres a rilakkuma gif

Originally posted by littleblackbabyprincess

RE: THE TOUR.

Babyz, we need to talk.

My top priority is the boys’ well being. Their health and happiness. Naturally, like a lot of us, I was worried when I got word of the upcoming tour. 

But boycotting the tour would be nothing but destructive for them. It would really deflate their spirits, and it would be very difficult to get tours for them in the future.

Let’s not jump to conclusions and respond with such harsh actions until we know more information. It’s not called LOE, it’s possibly just a 5-city stop or 10-date tour. They probably just wanted to do SOMETHING for the fans around LOE time, because they love us.

SO STOP WITH YOUR BULLSHIT AND JUST LOVE AND SUPPORT THEM, BECAUSE THAT’S WHY WE ARE HERE. STOP MAKING THEM FEEL BAD.

So come rain on my parade
Cause I want to feel it
Come shove me over the edge
Cause my head is in overdrive - Doomed

The world has coalesced
Into one giant mess of hate and unrest
So let’s sing along a little goddamn louder
To a happy song and pretend it’s all okay - Happy song

The sticks and the stones that
You used to throw have
Built me an empire - Throne

So how dare you try and steal my flame
Just cause yours faded
Well hate is gasoline
A fire fuelling all my dreams - True friends

Show me what I can’t see when the spark in your eyes is gone
You’ve got me on my knees I’m your one then come
Cross my heart and hope to die
Promise you I’ll never leave your side - Follow you

You’re hypnotized, can’t see the signs
I’d like to help you, but I think it’s too late
Made up your mind and now you’re blind
I guess it’s easier than making mistakes - What you need

I need a cure for me cause a square doesn’t fit the circle
Give me a remedy cause my head wasn’t wired for this world - Avalanche

They’ll never stop until they see us fall
So let’s run - Run

Who will fix me now?
Dive in when I’m down?
Save me from myself
Don’t let me drown - Drown

Cause we’ve found no sign and we’ve seen no light
We hear no voice when we pray at night
But we swore and now it’s too late to turn back - Blasphemy

It’s not a state of mind no, your head’s just in a state
I may be on the outside but you’re empty within - Oh no

Bring me the horizon - That’s the spirit

kawaiiusagi2  asked:

Hi sorry to bug you, but do you have an AO3 of FF for you fanfics? I can't get enough Mafia AU honestly. Yours is so hot and I NEED more!! *begs* I'm currently deep in writing two AU fanfics of my own, so I know it can get crazy, but I appreciate your time ^.~ Oh and your art where Yuuri and Viktor both have pierced ears has me shook!! You rock!!! Thanks ^.^

Originally posted by yoidailygifs

Don’t be sorry lovely person!! I’m so happy you like my work, it means a lot to me!! And thanks for being so understanding about time and all, I have a lot of deadlines right now so once that’s over I shall be born a free spirit and will just write and draw forever haha. I digress, but yeah, my Ao3 username is unfazedowl. Reader discretion needed though, bc it’s basically my sin bin…

Also, the mafia AU isn’t there yet, I’m still not done writing viktuuri getting down on each other  ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) -

my son

In time,
with time
As the branches of a sturdy oak
who has weathered You will blossom
and reach for your heart’s desires
once you have decided.

Large ambitions sprouting from the
edges of your life will take over and like
a leaf that senses and leaps in faith–You
too will be adventurous but kind.

In this one continuous vein, your being
will be full of all you need  Be sure the
one to hold you hand compliments
this fact.

Life will be both pleasant and terrifying
But your compassionate smile will touch
over what is beneath your feet
Do not fret…

Continue to grasp at rays streaming
Your spirit is not the kind to block
the sun or to withhold a prayer
from anyone.

Grow as the oak through storms,
my son and do so more when
imperviously minded winters
attempt to take over the happiness
you have crafted with love.

I've just had the most amazing realisation...

…that there is a very real possibility that we are gonna get a SECOND WEDDING at some point in the future….

I know a few people are feeling down at the moment - even putting spoilers to one side - because we had the high of the wedding and then came crashing back down to earth with the prison SL, but it just occurred to me that there is a very real chance that one day we might actually get to live through all of that wedded bliss all over again 😍😍 I mean, Iain said about having two bites of the cherry or something, and making it official eventually, so its actually on their radar, even if there’s no solid plans for it as yet. But it potentially could ACTUALLY happen! And without the need for a divorce/remarry scenario too 🙌🙌

💗💗💗💗💗💗

So in the spirit of keeping things happy and positive I wanna hear your ideas for what you’d want the second wedding to look like.

I’d love it to be on their 1 year anniversary, and for it to be completely spoiler free, so we get like a 90% robron episode but have no idea it’s coming, and we’re all thinking ‘they better acknowledge their bloody anniversary’, then we’re all just sat there in shock watching it happen lol. Rob/Aaron say they’re going to celebrate their anniversary in town and they get Liv and Paddy and Chas and DS Wise (he’s with Chas by then) and Diane and Bernice and heavily pregnant Vic and Adam, and they all think they’re going for a meal, and then they pull up outside the registry office and BAM second wedding, no fuss, just a whole load of heart eyes and soppy vows and Chas tears and this time an actual marriage certificate to take away with them.

In the spirits of National Coming Out Day if anyone needs to talk about anything or just chat I’m always here!
And to anyone who hasn’t came to terms with their sexuality, you’re perfectly normal and you still matter. You don’t have to decide right away, you have all the time to figure yourself out 💜💜
And to the people who have accepted your sexuality, im so proud of you and I hope you’re happy! 💕💕
And lastly to those who are afraid to come out, you dont have to until you’re comfortable. Just know that there might be people who don’t accept it, but there’s definitely someone who will. And the ones who do are the real ones who love you. Be strong. 💓💓
I love you all and I’m so happy and proud of everyone no matter what😘
Happy National Coming Out Day lovelies

ENFP confessions: a few times Myers & Briggs was too insanely on point for me to deny it’s legitimacy.

As a friend?

The excitable yet surprisingly insightful one who subtly gives you a pep talk every time you hang out.

If they like you?

Teases you mercilessly and uncharacteristically does not flake on any of your plans.

Mental age?

21. No matter how old you become, you maintain the drive, enthusiasm and passion of someone who is just coming into his or her own. You are young at heart but old in spirit.

Top relationship deal breakers?

Having limits placed on their freedom. ENFPs have big visions of what they want to experience in life- and they aren’t interested in discarding those visions for anyone else. Though they’re happy to accommodate and incorporate a partner into their lives, they have no interest in a relationship that is going to hold them back- they need an open-minded partner who is happy to explore and adventure their way through life together.

Personal definition of hell?

Every minute of the rest of your life has been scheduled for you- and it’s a long series of arbitrary, solitary tasks.

A few personalized struggles?

1. Getting your energy from social interaction, but disliking superficial conversations. Yes, I want to go to a party tonight. But a party full of contemplative people who want to alternate between taking shots and discussing the meaning of life.

2. Being very socially conscious but also fiercely individualistic. This means always wanting to fit in with a group, but never wanting to compromise your personality to do so.

3. Regularly forgetting that your physical needs exist.

4. Everyone thinking you’re flirting with them, all of the time.

5. Others being surprised that you hold such strong opinions and beliefs, despite your easy-going nature.

6. Constantly contradicting yourself because you genuinely see multiple sides to most situations.

7. People thinking you’re looking for advice when you simply need to process things out loud.

8. Staying in bad relationships because you focus on how things COULD be rather than how they are.

9. People underestimating your intelligence because you lead with the fun, upbeat parts of your personality.

10. Wanting to be alone… but like, with other people nearby.

Common misconceptions?

1. ENFPs are go-with-the-flow

When we don’t care about something, we don’t care all the way. If we’ve decided that material possessions don’t matter much to us, you could come into our house, accidentally smash all of our plates and we’d be all, “Hey don’t worry about it! Who needs plates to be happy? Not me!” But when it comes to our goals and desires, we are the least chill people imaginable. Everything this type does is deliberate, no matter how off-the-cuff is appears to be.

2. ENFPs are commitment-phobes

We’re not always quick to jump into serious relationships, but this is more often an issue of compatibility than one of commitment. ENFPs connect relatively quickly with most people. But they want more than a surface-level connection and a few common interests: they are searching for a specific, intense relationship that both challenges and grows them. If they find this, they are ALL IN. If not, the horizons are still being scanned for what else is out there. With goals, plans and relationships alike, ENFPs are in all the way or not at all.

3. ENFPs are always happy

We hold the pervasive belief that there is always something left to look forward to. This does not at all translate to constant happiness. Though this type gives off a light-hearted, fun-loving air, they actually take life quite seriously. We feel our lows just as intensely as we feel our highs- we just aren’t as comfortable expressing negative emotion as we are positive.

4. ENFPs are promiscuous

ENFPs are known for being notorious flirts and highly sexually active, neither of which entirely holds true. While they are generally quite liberal in their values (sexual and otherwise), they get off on emotional connection. Literally. We don’t enjoy meaningless sex and have to feel connected to our partner in some way in order to enjoy the act.

5. ENFPs are highly sensitive to criticism

We have a select number of people whose input we hold in high esteem. If you’re on that list, we take your criticism to heart in a huge way. If you’re not on the list, we could not care less what you have to say. Introverted feeling is very particular in this sense. If we respect you, your input matters. If not, what you say gets brushed off and we move forward.