My cousin and I were talking a few weeks ago and she said something that hit me so deeply and it just made so, so much sense, and she said that instead of thinking of people as like, “Oh, they used to be my boyfriend/girlfriend…they used to be my best friend…they used to be _____,” we need to start looking at them as someone who was put into our lives by the universe during a time period of our own lives when we were struggling…and that sometimes when people are “temporary,” they were really just gifts given to us by the universe to help us through that time when we may not have been able to get through it all by ourselves. Like…picturing them as little guardian angels to give us a little extra help during that tough time, you know? This puts things in an entirely different view and perspective and makes me feel so…warm. Like, thank you universe, for sending me that person for the time they were in my life for helping me through some trials.
hello! I'm looking for a fic where dan had severe anxiety and his boyfriend cheated on him, and him and chris are best friends. I remember dan and phil like.. napping together a lot and they make out a few times because dans sad. it was on ao3(?) thanks!! :)