they dont get much more attractive

the solution to people not being able to express their sexuality in one or two words is not creating 1,000 micro-labels; it’s an understanding that you don’t NEED to communicate the intricacies of the attraction you feel toward other people in one or two words.

human sexuality is complex! human relationships are complex! the way that i, as a lesbian, view and am attracted to women is not the same as how every other lesbian views and is attracted to women - and that’s okay! it doesn’t matter! i don’t NEED strangers to know how well i have to know someone personally to want to have sex with them at a certain time of day and how much of that attraction i want reciprocated in what lighting. i don’t NEED to give strangers a detailed list of micro-labels that define every specific aspect of my attraction to women; i like girls! that’s all anyone needs to know unless a relationship is going to develop, and in that case, i would much rather have an actual discussion about what i want or need in a partner than say “i’m demi-homo-cupio-romantic, homo-placio-asexual”

moreover, most people dont even have a concrete understanding of their own attraction/desires/etc, and to assign fixed microlabels to oneself and then experience an attraction/desire/etc that contradicts that… more often than not makes one feel as though they’ve lied about their identity (or gives one an otherwise bad feeling that’s difficult to articulate). i get that it’s nice to feel like other people relate to your sexuality and all, but other lesbians exist. other bi people exist. other pan people exist. you can relate to them without sharing with each other the intimate details of where and when you feel attracted to what and who.

if having hundreds of sexuality definitions out there to choose from has somehow helped you, that’s fine, to each their own i guess. but i wanna emphasize that it’s not necessary - and often very uncomfortable - to like, divulge the particular way you experience sexuality to strangers in the form of a few prefixes.

TL;DR - just say you’re gay, janice.

ok lmao im officially done with a significant portion of the overwatch fandom tbh??

i am tired of reading torbjorn hate.  i just am.  im tired of hearing he’s ugly, im tired of people saying he creeps women out, im tired of hearing he doesnt deserve happiness/his wife/his family/his house.

there is something really fucking evil about how many fucking people on tumblr demand “representation” and make fun of the physically disabled combat veteran and say that he should be homeless and doesnt deserve a wife or family or friends.  like, i get that we probably should have accurate representation for physically disabled combat veterans- 8% of the total us homeless population are veterans, though that number has dropped substantially (by 33% since 2010) but half of all homeless veterans are disabled.  but somehow i doubt, that this is asking for that representation and more about saying he doesnt deserve his things because he’s ugly and unliked in fandom.

its malicious.  its despicable.  

Torbjorn has dwarfism and the chronic headaches that go along with it.  im 99% certain that makes him the very first video game character to be a little person. 

tumblr has this massive problem of saying “I want representation!” but when they want it, they want it in their fucking pairings that they can “ship” and remember, from all of those shipping charts that put the little yellow circle around Torbjorn the same way they put it around winston- (Are you comparing shipping the physically disabled man with another person to bestiality or are you just upset because he’s not conventionally attractive?)

He’s close friends with mercy, with reinhardt, with ana, and from the halloween comic, probably jack and gabe too.  but in 99% of posts that talk about them he’s just left out?  like?? 

and the “creepy to women” thing, like where did that come from?  I know the voice lines you’re probably basing it off of too but i didnt ever read them as him being “creepy?”  (unless you’re saying he’s creepy because of that + his “gross” physical appearance thats attributed to his disability :) )

i always interpreted them as teasing, and several of the female characters tease back- (Mei, Ana, and satya sounds like she’s heard it before and knows he’s teasing her).  the only voice line that could be interpreted as strange would be the one with looking at d.va’s mech- but i dont think thats because its creepy, i think its because of the futuristic age they live in and how torbjorn is a world class engineer.  there’s a line between Pharah and Torbjorn where she’s showing off her raptora suit, and he has to be begrudgingly impressed by it.  its far more likely they dont want torbjorn getting his hands on the specs of d.va’s mech and she’s guarding them rather than her getting creeped out by him.

THEN THERE WAS THE MESS ABOUT PEOPLE COMPLAINING ABOUT HIM BEING SANTA.  like.  that was so good, so pure.  why were you complaining? because reinhardt wasn’t santa?  because 76 wasn’t santa?  bc neither of your conventionally attractive characters were santa? 

i s2g if i see one more post complaining about how only skinny, conventionally attractive white girls have gotten confirmed relationships in overwatch im going to scream because as long as there is so much rampant hatred and active dislike of the physically disabled man and his wife, that makes fun of him for being physically disabled and so often it’s by the same people who make those posts and i really just wanna reiterate this:

you’re making fun of the physically disabled man for his appearance and then going back and saying you dont want conventionally attractive people.  but you still want attractive people, but attractive in “unconventional ways”.

like, god fucking, i’m so tired.  im so tired. tea is spilt, rant has been made, if you want your stupid otp to be confirmed canon to get the “representation” you want just say it upfront.  

Hey guys it's Pride Month and I need to get something off my chest

There’s a loooooooooooot of argument whether or not certain identities/sexualities belong in the LGBT+ (emphasis on the “+”) Community

Here are a couple examples:

Asexual- the Lack of Sexual Attraction

Aromantic- the Lack of Romantic Attraction

Polyamory- the practice/desire for more than one intimate partner

And so much More!!

Some say yay, some say nay, but guess what??

YOU DONT GET A SAY IF YOU ARE NOT THE IDENTITY IN QUESTION!!!!

For example, as an Ace, I believe that Aces belong in the LGBT+ community! Even Heteroromantic Aces!! Crazy, right???

I have an Ace friend who believes that they do not, and that’s okay because it’s their interpretation of THEIR identity!

Both of these examples are okay, but this next one isn’t:

Someone who isn’t Ace: Aces shouldn’t belong in the LGBT+ community because they aren’t oppressed/it isn’t a real sexuality

That person is an asshole

Now, things that definitely don’t belong in the damn community is 1) Pedophilia.
2) “Furry” (YEAH sorry Furries don’t replace Trans thank you very much)

So in short, everyone celebrates their pride differently, so don’t shit on people because you don’t believe in their pride

This has been a PSA

Extra Credit: Part 2

“What are you doing Y/N?!” Mr. Im practically shrieks.  


You realize that you just made a huge mistake. This could expel you from school. He could report you. What were you thinking? You literally attacked his lips.

 
Mr. Im began to speak with a shaken voice,“Y/n… I… uhh… well.. you see, I am a teacher. Although you kissed me first, I am sorry that I responded and promoted it…” 
There was a 15 second silence and he started again. “I will continue teaching you till the end of this school year and I will not be awkward. I would like to have a professional relationship. I will not bring this up to anyone.”


You open your mouth to speak but he walks out quickly and you are just standing in the teachers lounge awkwardly, with your mouth open. A fly could fly right inside your wide open mouth. You are appalled at yourself. He was very professional and awkward. He was surprised and so were you. Just last week you said to yourself that he was not hot and now you couldn’t control yourself and you kissed him. You had no self-control. You felt so immature. But that muscle tee he was wearing… how could you resist? He shouldn’t be wearing that around students you thought to yourself. You’ve never noticed his arms before because he was always covering them with coats and dress shirts. You noticed in class that he had two moles above his left eye. You noticed he always smelt like cologne and even though you hated the smell of strong cologne, he had this aroma that made you so attracted to him. He smelt like a mixture of roses and cinnamon. What a weird combination to enjoy. As your standing in the teachers lounge, you realize that you unconsciously noticed him and started to feel attracted to him this past week. But you’re just a little high schooler for crying our loud. He clearly would never be attracted to you. Today you realized that you ruined your chance with him for practically attacking his lips. Hahahhaha but wait. You never had a chance to begin with, you thought to yourself. “I’m just a little high schooler” you whispered under your breath. 


A tear trickled down your face and you can’t believe your crying over such a stupid situation. Youre crying over a man that you think smells like roses and cinnamon. You barely knew him and he just became your teacher last week. But there’s something about him that made him so irresistible.And you’re just noticing now. Im Jaebum. 


You wipe your tears and exit the room. You drive back home even though you should be working for the hallway decorations. You plop right in your bed and take a nap. A couple hours later you hear your phone ringing and you grab it and answer it without looking who it may be. It was your friend Jackson Wang. 

You met Jackson in freshman year and you sat together at lunch. You guys had the latest lunch period that year and no one else sat at your table because all your friends and his friends had lunch earlier in the day. He became your friend instantly and he always came to lunch with funny jokes and gossip from school. Because of him, you found out your three week boyfriend was cheating on you. He is your best friend and it is an innocent friendship. Nothing more you thought…


“Y/N, it’s me Jackson. I’m outside your house now and you told me Thursday you didn’t feel like driving to the school at night and i even offered to take you but now you’re not even answering the door”

 
“What Jackson? I was sleeping. What time is it?” 

 
“It’s 7:30 the stupid dance already started” 

 
You agreed it was a stupid dance but as a class president you had to attend. Jackson called it a stupid dance but you know that he secretly loved going because he could gather all the gossip of the school, who’s cheating on who, who’s fighting with who. It was the perfect place for him to gather his gossip. If you ever told him you kissed Mr. Im, it would spread like wild fire throughout the school. Even though you were his best friend, he couldn’t let that gossip get away even if it hurt you and your reputation.

 
“I’m comin downstairs to unlock the door and then I need to get ready. Come upstairs and plug in my straightener”

 
You went downstairs and greeted jackson then he followed you to your room and was plugging your straightener in like you asked him to. You quickly grabbed the dress you set out on your chair the previous night and went to the bathroom and brushed your teeth since you just woke up from a nap. Wow your hair looked disgusting and your makeup was ass. You ran outside the bathroom with the dress on and you looked like a crying girl who got dumped at a high school dance. Your makeup from school was all over your face and your mascara was coming down your face because you rubbed your eyes during your nap. Jackson stared at you and started laughing hysterically at the sight of you. 

 
“Shut up Jackson” you said as you took the hair tie out of your hair. 
“Straighten my hair like the good ol freshman days when you used to come over and I wanted to look perfect for my first freshman dances” you said with a laugh. 
Those were good times. When you and Jackson would hang out and he would burn your ear with the straightener and help you get ready. You didn’t want to straighten your hair back then because your hair was too long and you were too lazy to do it. But Jackson offered to for the first high school dance and it became a habit. Every time you guys had a dance to go to or you needed to look presentable somewhere, he would straighten it for you because he thought it was fun and he would kiss your cheek and laugh every time he burnt your ear. Even though you hated the fact he actually burned your ear, it was always fun with him by your side. That’s what a real best friend is, someone who straightens your hair for fun with no complaints.
He finishes straightening your hair and you go to fix your makeup because it still looked horrid. You fiercely put the deodorant on your arm pits and sprayed perfume and you finally looked like you were ready. Your dress was a tight red spaghetti strap dress.  


“Awh look at baby Y/N growing up”  


“Awh look at Jackson not growing up and still looking like a 10 year old boy who hasn’t hit puberty”

 
“Very funny but I don’t look like that and you know it. Also, why were you sleeping? You never take naps! I was wondering why you didn’t answer my calls and where are your parents?” Jackson said in a nagging voice. 

 
“You sound like a teacher yelling at me for sleeping in their class for the first time and then asking where my parents are so you could complain to them about me” you said.  


“Yup that’s my job. The nagging annoying teacher that you love” Jackson said. 


You thought about his words. “Nagging annoying teacher that you love.” Well, Mr. Im doesn’t nag but you sure love him. Oh no. Why were you thinking about Mr. Im again. 
Jackson drove you guys to the school again and you saw the decorations at the dance. Oh shoot. All the decorations you never helped with. You didn’t really care. Your goal for the night was to not run into Mr. Im and you knew for sure he would be there because he was a class advisor and chaperone. And of course he would be there because he was in charge of decorations for tonight. You met with your friends and Jackson’s friends. Your group consisted of Amber, Nicole, Irene, and Wendy. Jackson’s group consisted of Mark, Bambam, Youngjae, and Yugyeom. You guys all danced with each other but then “All I wanna do” by Jay Park came on and everyone started twerking and grinding. Jackson was grinding on Amber and you were grinding on Yugyeom. While you were dancing you felt a pair of eyes on you and you looked up and saw Mr. Im staring at you and Yugyeom from afar. Mr. Im locked eyes with you and smirked. You blushed and turned away. You looked into Yugyeom’s eyes and he asked you what was wrong because he saw the panic in your eyes.

 
“Oh nothing Yugyeom hahahah why are you even asking? I’m fine” 


Besides that awkward situation, the rest of the night was fine and you returned to school on Monday. Mondays are always the shittiest but it really got shitty when it was Mr. Im’s class. 
“Hello class I hope you had a fun weekend. I was at the dance because I was chaperoning and other things such as decorations blah blah blah and I know a few individuals were really wilding” Mr. Im said to the class but looked you and smirked.  


Why was he being so awkward and weird you thought to yourself. He was the one that said he would be normal. 


The school year went by and it was already Decmeber. During that time, it got less awkward with Mr. Im and he started making jokes with you and your class. Occasionally he would make fun of your short height. You remember one time there was a picture of a washing machine on the TV screen he was teaching from. How did washing machines have to relate to History anyway? You dont even remember what he was talking about the washer. You told your friend jokingly “I could fit inside in a washing machine” Mr. Im heard you and laughed at you. He said to you, “why would you need to go in a washing machine? You are already shrunk” Wow what a good one. 

He made those jokes occasionally and teased you. Every time he passed out worksheets, he accused you of writing novels for short responses and made fun of you in front of the entire class. 
"This nerd over here wrote an essay for these short questions” he said.  


During a test one time, you didnt want to get the question wrong but you were stuck between two choices. You asked him and he whispered in your ear “dont think too much honey” and you didn’t want to think it was flirting but when you told your friend Wendy, she told you it was. But he really was less awkward and more of a regular teacher now. You still found him very attractive of course. I mean.. who wouldn’t find Im Jaebum smoking?  


A few weeks later, you were walking in the hallways during your free class and you saw Mr. Im at the other end of the hallway. 

 
“Hey shortie” he screamed. 


“Hi Mr. Im” you said with a quiver in your voice because you really didn’t wanna deal with his taunting. 


You walked towards him and he looks at you and smiles genuinely at you. His smile is so sweet. You wanted to kiss him again. Nahhh you really need to stop thinking about that.  


“Y/N, I know we had a rough start but I really need someone to babysit my kid today after school because I have a school district meeting. I am asking you because all the other students i have asked have some sport practice after school today and I only trust you and your brains you nerd.”

 
Oh look, Mr. Im is back at making fun of people’s brains and calling you a nerd. Wait, did he just say kid? WHAT KID ? Kid? He’s married?! What kid? 
Your eyes darted towards his ring finger and you saw it was empty.

 He noticed your sudden eye movements.  


“I’m not married. My ex-girlfriend left me.” he said in a low voice.

AUTHORS NOTE: This is my first fanfiction and I think you can see where I am going with this baby sitter teacher thing… I have a lot of mistakes because I didn’t even proof read this. Sorry! I am just so lazy. I plan on writing smut for this series but it won’t be in the beginning chapters because I need to build up the relationship with Jaebum and Y/N. Yesterday I had 15 followers and today I have 50 followers. Thank you so much for being interested in this fanfic. I am such an amateur.

Originally posted by myjaebutt

Lets talk a little bit about her.

She’s insecure and overeacting all the time, because she was a housewife her entire life and knew little about the world. But when everything falls apart, she pulled herself together immediately because she still has this sorry ass of mine to take care of. She took over my father’s company, worked through its crisis, became a manager at the age of 46 without any knowledge about construction and architecture. It means she had to learn everything from the scatch, with plenty of help from others but still, her will to raise me decently was the only motivation she has.

She’s also very beautiful and charming, which I inherited none (lol) Sometimes I think if I resemble her more perhaps I will be more attractive? She totally agree because she thinks Im so stubborn but she said Im the most beautiful creature she has ever known. She never once thought of me anything close to ugliness, ever. I’m her pride and joy.

She doesn’t believe in drawing can earn a living and pressure me to get a decent job all the time, which I did. But thats also the reason why I’m not so close to her, I dont really share much with her though I know she is there 100% for me. In her time it was so different as she was raised in war, when everyone has to struggle to survive with everything and living a dream is something unrealistic. It’s not her fault to think that way, and I understand that well.

She likes to spoil her children rotten and wants me to rely on her more. Honestly, with my tendency to be fiercely independent and lonewolf, I hate cring to others and vice versa. I am a totally ass if I feel that my freedom was restricted in any way. We fought a lot when I was younger, she wants me to stay close to her, I want to leave. I made her cry a lot. I think if its not because of her great love, anyone would have left me already. Theres no point in reasoning with people like me, but she tried her best. Now I had already left, she just learnt to accept the fact that Im all grown up and take care of my own life. She would sigh sometimes “Why do you have to be so stubborn you can have a easier life you know? I’m so worry”

She’s a super being that I can’t never compare myself to, and will always respect with all my heart.

She’s increadible, kind, strong, loving mom of mine.

The elephant in the fandom

I spent most of my life denying who i was. I never gave myself the chance to experiment with feelings i was having because in my world i couldnt accept that i could like men and women at the same time. I, like so many others, lived their life in a religious right family whose go to reaction to most upsetting news was shouting.

Its only recently that i have started talking about it in my real life. I told my wife after we were married and had a kid. I told my best friend for years after being the one to tease his older brother of his sexuality in my teen years. I openly mocked a gay kid in high school, never to his face but to the same friends we all had.

I hated bisexuality and called it one foot out of the closet. More importantly i suffered from depression, anxiety, rage and antisocial tendencies becausr i could not admit to myself that i was attracted to men.

And let me get this out of the way, i love the way my life turned out. I dont regret anything. My family turned out much more accepting then i anticipated, my wife is very supportive and i have a beautiful baby girl.

It wasnt until i joined tumblr and found a community that celebrated people like me. And more importantly online content like critical role that featured strongly characterized characters of varying sexualities and gender identity. All these characters were unashamed of themselves and more importantly were definded beyond just that they were gay.

Gilmore as a successful merchant and powerful mage.

Kima as a short zelot warrior to the platinum dragon god

Allura as a nation leader and accomplished sage.

Not only that but main characters that are influential and powerful warriors in their own right.

This all enabled me, amoung other things, to be honest about myself.

And then comes Tary, problematically played by a straight actor. When he came out i was reserved? Ive alluded to it before so if you want the full thing find that post. I dont really want to get into that right now. What i am saying now is that even though it is problematic i like tary’s characterzation.

He isnt as over flamboyant as lets be honest gilmore can be sometimes and no one complains about. Sam filled a role that so many people wanted, an openly gay pc. Because no matter the jokes and enduendo representation matters to those people.

And you know who wasnt represented in that show until tary was revealed? People whose lifes have been affected negatively by homophobia. People that have lived their whole life believing the way they feel is wrong.

This fandom can get so toxic out of no where sometimes. Ive seen people shout for female represention and nit pick at everything keyleth does.

Tary’s coming out probably seems trite and over used because guess what, coming out isnt easy for most people. Family gets disowned and people get pressured by the ones they love to be who they arent and sometimes people need to be reassured that life gets better and not everyone is going to hate who you are.

Instead of hating matt and sam for the negatives look at the positives. Tary is smart and capable and every bit as indespencable as anyone else in the core group and that includes scanlan shorthalt.

Tl:dr i will defend my genius little science gay with every fiber of my being.

OKAY HERE IS THE DEAL

Okay so


BUGHEAD IS CANON. WHAT THE FUCK. H O W E V E R. okay. I am not a bughead shipper and here is why. So i get the whole “opposites attract and she brings out the good in him” trope. What i dont understand is why it is those two. Yes. Jughead is ace. And Asexuals can and do still have healthy relationships. But i am wondering, why them? Why is it that the two characters in the show with the l e a s t amount of romantic attraction to eachother suddenly love eachother? Betty had a crush on archie since they were s i x. Jughead has shown no interest in anyone, much less b e t t y, the entire show. Hw showed more interest in archie for gods sakes. So why now. Why are they together. The most screentime they have had together before this last episode was the blue and gold, which was friendly, if not a little standoffish, and the diner scene in the next episode, when jug rants about the drive in and he calls her “betts” or whatever. Thank you for your time.

anonymous asked:

have u ever done drugs? I feel like everyone my age has already experienced everything and I've just been left behind.

left behind? because you havent done drugs? honestly not at all. I haven’t done any drugs, i havent even smoked a single cigarette or been drunk in my life, altogether i have had about 2 alcoholic beverages in my life. and I dont care, I have no desire to do so the more time i have spent with people who use drugs/ have done pretty much every drug there is… etc i realise the more i don’t want to do it anyway. even as a very sober person I am very into clubbing/the music which attracts alot of ppl who do take drugs ,  which therefore has given me access to hang out with people who do use drugs a lot more than they should and i have spoken in depth to these people, who all basically say not to get into drugs. Its not glamorous, its not celebrating your youth. it fucks you up. people dont talk about it often, but it can really fuck you up. trust me.  i go out clubbing and everyone thinks im gurned but im literally just having the best time because of the music. i respect people have their own choices. but i am not going to sit here and say its SAFE! because its not.however,  if you are going to experiment with drugs make sure you do it around people who you TRUST and take all the precautions. its unpredictable. its a lie that everyone has experienced everything. the more i live the more i realised we are all at different but also similar stages in our life. its not a fucking race, for anything. we are all growing. instead of drug taking there are other things to immerse yourself in. i really mean that. stay safe. 

Unpopular opinion: I honestly never saw the “chemistry” or attraction between s.terek… Like at all….

anonymous asked:

hello, I don't know much about asexuality or aromantism and I was hoping I could get more info.. I know asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, and I know that many ppl complained about b*ghead but from what I got it's completely normal to kiss someone if you're aroace so i really dont know why jughead being aroace is impossible rn just because he kissed betty (correct me if im wrong btw i really dont know much about aroace ppl)

You’re right, people who are aroace can like kissing, though many do not like it.

However, it’s not really the act of kissing by itself that erases Jughead being aroace, it’s the intention behind it. Media almost always shows kissing on the lips as a romantic act. Riverdale is definitely within that scope in which kissing = romantic. So by having Jughead kiss Betty, they’re saying Jughead has romantic feelings for Betty, which erases his aro identity. 

Plus, we know the writers are not going to portray Jughead as ace either, so it’s erasing that as well. 

Ubomb is a passionate love, the kind of relationship that feels like an affair. They dont live together, but they like to meet up like its a secret. Physically attracted to the point were they undress the other just to look at them. They cant kiss without making out, so they avoid kissing in public altogether.  Lots of whispered dirty talking, they dont need words to understand each other, so they dont talk much, a more physical relationship, things get so intense they can go by without seing each other for weeks at a time. Lots of sexting and sudden love confessions.

Zikyung is a casual, teenaged boy kind of relationship with sudden spurts of cheesy romantic moments. They see each other everyday and have been friends for ages before getting together, so its hard to draw the line between best friend and boyfriend, which results in lots of video game dates, late texting, pranks and inner jokes only they understand and make them look weird in public. There´s no definite “top” and “bottom”, a role that changes as they feel like. The kind that fuck like teenagers but then stare each other when they sleep. Lots of teasing, joking and making out in public bathrooms and friends couches.

Taepyo is a romantic, very innocent love. They still get flustered and nervous around the other. Both have insecure personalities that sticks them like glue, they need to constantly hear that the other loves them too, but are too shy to say it themselves, which ends up in many awkward “you say it first” phone conversations. The type to blush while holding hands in public and constantly plan dates that mostly consist in watching tv. Lots of innocent pecks on the lips, sleeping on each other´s arms, cute conversations and awkward giggling

reasons you should vote for bob morley in the alpha male madness:

  • He called himself an alfalfa male and that is adorable
  • He is a man of color and this kind of recognition would be awesome
  • He gets so much hate from racist fucks and he is so pure i dont understand it (im making myself emotional tbh)
  • If he wins he’d get an exclusive interview by E!
  • this would get his name out there and possibly attract more fans and recognition for him
  • this is by no means an emmy or something but this is something we can do for him to show we care
  • Bob puts SO MUCH in to bellamy. Like way more than anyone realizes or gives him credit for. link to this post
  • The man is an incredibly gifted and talented actor and he consistently sells himself short, remember when it was revealed he never even submits his name for emmy consideration bc he feels like he could do better?? i cant find the post but thinking about that breaks my heart
  • He is so good to fans, remember when someone asked to recreate the bellarke hug and he was like which one and did it ur fave could never (fuck links  cuz i suck)
  • also remember when he created a bellamy blake shirt to raise money for a mental health charity, (what are links)
  • Bob is so good and pure he is always trying his best and being an overall cinnamon roll can we just fucking do this for him?????
  • lastly, (bc lets not kid ourselves about what this poll is really about) i present you my most persuasive argument:

anonymous asked:

Am I the only one that gets bothered by advertising for Gerard's (or really any of the old band members) recent stuff that uses photos of them that are really old *cough* back when they were younger and had more "sex appeal" that would attract more attention to the advertisement *cough* wow excuse me I've had this really annoying cold haha...

yeah it annoys me too but i guess whoever writes these articles just uses google bc theyre lazy and dont bother much to look up recent photos of him (also there arent that many recent photos of him) but yeah its annoying

anonymous asked:

Mac made an upgrade getting with Ariana, Ariana is much sexier and much more talented and attacking your ex's girl is not a cute look, it only makes her look sad, lonely, miserable and bitter.

i dont want to post shit like this, she has a tumblr and i dont think this hate is warrented just let her live she hasn’t done anything wrong for  you to attack 

honestly both girls are more attractive than mac himself so like they should date each other

winterkitty93  asked:

LEGIT FIRST THING I NOTICED WHEN WONHO POSTED THIS PICTURE WAS THE FREAKING NAIL POLISH AND IWAS LIKE HOW THE FUDGESICLE IS NO ONE MENTIONING IT ?!?!

🗣🗣HE’S AN ICON!!! AND I LOVE/RESPECT HIM SO MUCH MORE FOR NOT BEING AFRAID OF WHAT PEOPLE MIGHT SAY OR CONFORMING TO THE REGULAR “gender norms” LIKE HE’S DONE THIS MANY TIMES WHERE HE SAYS HEADBANDS AREN’T JUST FOR GIRLS OR THAT ATTRACTION ISN’T LIMITED TO JUST WOMEN! HE IS LITERALLY AN ICON LIKE I DONT SEE MANY OTHER KPOP ARTISTS STANDING THEIR GROUNDS AND BEING SO OPEN AND WELCOMING ABOUT THIS STUFF AND LIKE!!! EVERYONE SHOULD APPRECIATE THIS FLUFFY MAN BECAUSE HE MEANS WELL AND WE NEED MORE BOYS LIKE HIM WHO AREN’T AFRAID TO GET OVER THEIR MASCULINITY!!!

dean-dingus  asked:

As much as I agree with your NV post, every single romanceable companion in FO4 is bi.

yeah, i dont think youre wrong! i dont see them as not being bi. but when i mean explicitly bi its as in, ACTUALLY STATING that they are attracted to more than one gender. they never talk about it! not a single companions ever talks about either being in a past relationship with someone whos the same gender, or just loving someone who is the same gender, and yet we get three male companions talk about their wives/girlfriends! its playersexual, you would never know these characters were bi if the player character didnt exist!!!! its like… Schrödinger’s bisexual. is a bi character really representation of bi people if they never talk about being bi? i always tell someone im dating, if they they dont already know! i tell my friends. i actually talk about it, so i just dont see how any of the companions in the canon game can be praised as good bi representation when they never talk about it.

Reply to Anti Naruhina

I would like to thank the sane naruhina fans for replying to my blog in a proper manner..
The points you guys made were fair, and I would just like to reply to those points in another anti nh blog, because every time I try to reply back in my original “anti naruhina blog” It would only allow me a certain amount of reply space. 

The top replies I got

((A))Naruto knows who Hinata is

((B))Naruto cheering for Hinata against Neji

(©)Naruto saying “I like you” to Hinata

((D))Hinata did watch Naruto from afar in the manga



((A)) I would like to start off by saying, I could of typed out my blog more thoroughly with better details. Yes Naruto did know who Hinata was.. It wasn’t like he walked passed her thinking “Who’s that girl?” ((that was Shino))..
In my blog, what I meant by “Trying to get Naruto’s attention” was attraction wise, and getting Naruto to understand her more.
Naruto just knew Hinata as the ((Quote)) Weirdo, shy and dark girl…Naruto didn’t know much about Hinata, he only knew her from academy and afterwards….  

((B)) Naruto cheering for Hinata..
I dont count this as a moment. I am sorry naruhina fans..
The reason why I do not count this as a moment is because you might as well say Naruto had the hots for almost everyone there..
Kakashi even told him to “shut up” because he was cheering too loud.
Yes you can reply back with “But he got the most angry with the neji and hinata match, and defended her!”
I would like to point out two facts with this one..

1… If you say that with Hinata, you might as well say that about lee. Remember how devastated naruto was when gaara beat the shit out lee…. Was it because of love? Well no… ((naruto doesnt have a thing for lee)) It was because naruto thought that Neji/Gaara were jerks, and went too far..

2.. Of course he would of defended hinata in that match… Naruto is the main protagonist ..
And when you have another character who is acting like a bully, and bullying other characters who cannot stand up for themselves, what do you think the main character would do?  
Naruto is a character that believes in never giving up, Neji was just bullying Hinata and telling her to give up, Naruto would of felt like it was a personal attack on him as well..

So really the whole Hinata vs Neji, you could of replaced with any other characters, make them act the way neji and hinata did in that scenario, and Naruto would of done the same thing ((Proof: the Lee and Gaara match))

(©) Before Naruto left to train with Jiraiya, he ran into Hinata and said, “Your still weird, but I like you”
Yeah, I guess that’s sort of a moment ((And I like to remind you guys that I was a fan of naruhina at that stage)) but also it wasn’t Naruto confessing his loving feelings. It was just a kid being like “Hey, your weird. But that’s ok, I like you.” 
And if that’s not enough to convince you… Didn’t Kankuro go up to Naruto and say “Hey, your funny. I like you” ???
Well oh my god, Kankuro must have romantic feelings for Naruto as well… 


((D)) Yes, in like one or two parts of the manga, Hinata did watch him from a far ((Again should of word it better)) but I am angry with this because alot of naruhina fans state ((she was always there for him)) 
No she wasn’t!!!
The fillers make it out to be like she was always there for him, but it wouldn’t even make fucking sense if she was there!
Naruto had an upsetting childhood because he was so lonely and Isolated, he had no one ((until iruka)) IF HINATA WAS ALWAYS THERE! HE WOULDNT FEEL THE NEED TO BE SO SAD, BECAUSE HE WOULD HAVE ATLEAST ONE FRIEND!!! 
IN THE START, HE STATES CLEARLY, HE HAD NO ONE!
HINATA NEVER HUNG OUT WITH HIM WHILE HE WAS ALONE, SHE NEVER HELPED HIM BUILD A SNOWMAN, AND NEVER ENCOURAGED HIM WHILE HE WAS TRAINING!
ALL FILLER!!
((calm down))
And if she was such a good childhood friend, and was always there for Naruto, why would Naruto call her a weirdo as the intro to Hinata? Wouldnt it be something like “This is my best friend. She is like the only girl who hangs out with me”….
And again my main point.. Why would it take a whole manga series, and half a movie for Naruto to realise Hinata’s love, if again ((sorry to quote this so much)) but…IF SHE WAS ALWAYS THERE!!?! 

. *sighs* This couple frustrates me… Ugh next I am going to be doing the worse…Sasusaku..ughhh..  

anonymous asked:

Why is Jung Hoseok so gosh darn attractive?!?!?!?! I do not understand it.

anon dont even get me started.. not to be dramatic but im not even joking when i say i have truly never seen a man more beautiful in my whole life.. his beauty rlly shines when hes performing hes so smooth and clean and effortlessly so captivating sexy gorgeous stunning breathtaking remarkable + when hes not putting my ass into a coma w the incredibly alluring way he dances hes so cute lovely endearing pretty charming sweet funny charismatic hes honestly the whole package and its crazy to know that hes 100x more glowing and radiant in real life than he already is on camera and i love loving a legend i love him so so so much

beyond-the-breeze  asked:

Any advice on continuously coming out? Like youve came out but have to do it again and again for every new person you meet (who of course assumes youre straight)? Especially how to come out to girls you meet and wanna make sure they know. Since im kinda into stereotypically straight girl stuff, like flowers and cute stuff, and i cant pull of short hair no matter what, and so on, you get the idea. Thanks a bunch!!

i find it so much easier to come out to newer friends than to older friends. with old friends, i choose my words carefully and try not to come off super strongly but with new friends, i am much more relaxed and comfortable because we havent known each other for too long and there isnt really anything to lose. honestly, you dont have to make it into a big thing, just talk about someone you find attractive or talk about the lgbt community or sapphic movies or just bring up your sexuality! pay no attention to stereotypes! just be yourself :) maybe put a rainbow in your instagram bio or the lgbt flag or get lgbt clothes/jewelry/phone case. i hope this helped!