they care so much about us i just

You know what’s so annoying? Lance keeps going around flirting with all these girls who literally use him or are just flat out uninterested (no offense to Allura tho LOL)

When he literally has Keith who clearly cares about him

Wants to be by his side

Flirts with him (almost to the equivalent of how much he flirts with those girls)

Literally always puts up with him no matter what, even if he does get annoyed sometimes

Never truly gets angry at him, even though I’m sure he’s wanted to on multiple occasions

Gets so hurt when he forgets an important moment between them, which shows how much he cares about him

Gets so easily jealous over him

And just the way he looks at him too 

It’s so annoying because he has a perfectly decent guy right there who I’m almost 99.9% sure likes him, but he could literally care less or notice. Like dude, open your eyes and look at what’s right in front of you already…

I REALLY hope people take this the right way. I feel like a small portion of people might misunderstand or have a kneejerk reaction to this and think that Jack’s saying he’s tired of interacting or wants us to back up for a while, but I don’t think that’s the case.

Quite the opposite, in fact. I think Jack’s saying that he wants to do everything he can to make sure he’s genuinely engaged when he’s interacting with us rather than just clicking like arbitrarily without actually reading or looking at posts. And that he doesn’t want to become so inerred to the constant praise and/or serious personal stories that it stops making him feel anything or drives him to a point where he doesn’t care about fans individually and we all just become a blob. It seems to me that he cares so much that he’s horrified about the possibility of not caring, if that makes sense.

But what that means is that he can’t be up to his neck in tumblr and twitter and comments every single day. Not because he doesn’t enjoy it or want to do it, but because pure psychology and human nature decree that overexposure breeds apathy and numbness. If he buries himself in constant interaction and fan service, he’ll eventually reach a branching point where he either gets exhausted/stops feeling it and quits that stuff or he turns into a machine that likes and reblogs and comments meaninglessly out of habit or uninspired desire to be likeable. That’s just a fact, and he couldn’t help it at that point, regardless of how genuine he is at heart.

So I’m glad he understands and acknowledges that concept now and wants to try to avoid that. If he needs to take breaks or whatever sometimes in order to stay emotionally connected or to add life to his future interactions, then that’s OK. It’s good, actually. It’s nearly impossible for public figures to remain grounded and actually give a shit about fans/fan creations. It’s unlikely that any public figure can maintain compassion and/or interaction for their entire career. So whatever balance Jack needs to take or actions he needs to make for himself and to push that potential burn out further into the future… I wholeheartedly support and appreciate. The nice thing is I think most everyone else here will too. We’re a pretty rad community.

I want @therealjacksepticeye to stick around in his career and be happy with it for as long as humanly possible, so whatever helps that and him is something I can 100% get behind.

anonymous asked:

OH GOD your reply totally got me thinking more on the greek mythology au and i mentally swore to myself that i was done dwelling on it but I can't fight the need to weep about my precious russian potato son. so, in my head, hephaestus has always had a problem with caring too much about people who basically think about them like they're a microwave: useful. a person values a microwave for what it can do, but it's inherently not the sort of thing that anyone could legitimately love. hephaestus

tends to think that the achy feeling caused by the lack of intimacy is just a sign that they’re being irrational and mooning over something that would distract them from their purpose, so they just kind of make all the friends that they can, give that their all, and it feels so good that sometimes, it’s enough. Also, you’re definitely write about alexei not totally feeling decent about choosing to play in the nhl. it feels selfish when he knows that he’s spent previous lives building space
shuttles or pulling shrapnel from soldiers’ wounds, but since he did settle on doing something he loved, something for himself, just this once, he knew he had to be great – partly because hephaestus has never half-assed anything since they pulled themself from the earth’s core and shoved their way to the surface, and partly because the better he is, the bigger the paycheck, and the more money he can slide towards the people doing what he feels like he should be doing.
but yeah, i think that after the falcs game, kent decides, yeah, he’s waited for too damn long to meet someone who could just maybe understand what it feels like to spend millenia watching yourself fuck things up and without having any idea how to make them alright, so he’s not gonna let the alexei mashkov thing go. naturally, swoops takes a couple of the guys from his old team out (including one that is very russian and just so happens to be friends with tater), gets them all drunk, and somehow
managed to get mashkov’s number (because even if /“this seems like one ripe shit of an idea, parser”/ swoops is a good bro and he knows how badly kent wants another person like him. so kent and tater get texting, kent apologizes for the dirty goalie-snowing, and promptly tries to feel alexei out for where he is with all of the potentially-a-reincarnated-god stuff, but honestly, tater hasn’t even said anything to imply that he knows he’s a god, let alone that kent is too, so then they keep
talking because kent appreciates alexei’s warm personality and non-judgemental listening skills while alexei appreciates being able to talk to someone who values who he is, not what he can do. so this goes on for awhile and by now kent’s freaking out because hephaestus could hate eris as much as all humans have for centuries and he wouldn’t be able to handle that level of rejection – especially since he had to be an idiot and go catch feelings for tater. like, serious feelings. i think it’d
be nice if after a game kent decides that it’s Do Or Die time, and waits for alexei to ask if they could talk somewhere. they settle for like, a stairwell or some shit, and kent prefaces with some word-vomit, “hey look, just tell me if this isn’t okay, but before we talk i just-” and then the word-vomit stops and he can’t get anything out so he goes for the kiss, half-expecting to get shoved down the stairs, but alexei’s one hand stays where it was on the railing, and the other winds up resting
on kent’s cheek. and if kent wasn’t still sort of immortal, the heat coming from his hand would probably hurt like a bitch, but he is sort of immortal, so it’s kind of just a turn on. even more surprising, though, is when alexei really kisses him back, at which point, kent shorts out the stairwell light by accident. they part pretty abruptly, and alexei’s got this look on his face like he’s freaking out, looking a kent’s face and then down at something specific. kent freaks out cause he thinks
for 0.02 seconds that tater wasn’t cool with that but then he realizes that alexei is staring at the railing because his grip fucking /melted part of it/ and shit, kent knew he was hot, but hadn’t noticed he was “melting metal railings” temperature. alexei is freaking out for 0.02 seconds because he had his hand on kent’s face so if kent was a normal human he’d look like harvey dent from the dark knight right about now but then alexei puts it all together and everything is good in the universe.

Listen…..I must write this. FORMALLY REQUESTING PERMISSION TO WRITE YOUR GREEK MYTHOLOGY REINCARNATION AU? (Literally feel free to message me off anon and we can spitball ideas I just. I have so many feelings and there is so much potential here and if you add the whole Jack thing?? I’m dying.)

anonymous asked:

So ever since I was younger I've never really cared all that much about my gender, I didn't care what pronouns people used, or if I was mistaken for a boy. But like every day I'll like remember I'm a girl and get really uncomfortable because I don't feel like a girl, but I've never felt like a boy either? Is there a term for that? Can I be nothing? I'm sorry I've just been freaking out and no one I know can help me, I'm so uncomfortable

Hello anon! Sorry for the late reply.

Okay let’s take a deep breath, and calm down. I got good news for you, because there is a term for being “no gender” it’s agender. And a lot of people are agender, and it’s totally normal and okay. No need to freak out.

Now I’m not usually agender, so if you have more questions I would go check out some agender blogs, or blogs run by agender people. 









There’s so many more, but these were off the top of my head, feel free to check them out, as well as do your own research!

Hope this helps!! 

Helpful Links

Agender definition

What It Means to Identify as Agender - Teen Vogue Article

If anyone has any other blogs or resources they want to recommend, add it in a reply!

really random question but how much do people care about blog plot?

like i’ve been trying more or less from the start to follow and/or plan certain developments, and there’s some things i kind of want to reveal gradually or slowly (like the undiscovered alters or the canon four’s individual fears and inner demons) because i like using the blog as my own form of storytelling, but…well, there’s no point in me doing that if nobody cares, right? XD

so basically what i want to know is if i keep going like this or if i should just lay out everything as my mind comes up with things?

The Fic Writer’s Beatitudes

Blessed are the readers, for theirs is the archive.

Blessed are the betas: for they help us write the stories we see in our hearts.
Blessed are they that kudo, for they reassure us that someone likes what we’ve done.
Blessed are the rebloggers and reccers, for they help the readers find our work.
Blessed are they which leave comments on a WIP that say something other than “write more please”: for they comfort us when we feel taken for granted.
Blessed are the commenters; for their words bring us joy.
Blessed are the loyal fans, for they keep the fandom alive.
Blessed are the fan artists, for they bring our worlds to life before our eyes.
Blessed are they which read an entire long fic and comment each chapter, for the string of comment notifications fills the writer’s heart with delight.
Blessed are ye, who rec our fics in public and tag us, for seeing that we made somebody squee is the light in our days.
Rejoice, and be exceeding glad; for great is your reward in fandom.


me, an astrology intellectual: yoongi is a pisces sun so he genuinely cares about a lot of things and he’s so sensitive and he really victimizes/blames himself for shit (like a true pisces would) remember in that interview he said that when the girl broke his heart, he started blaming himself that he wasn’t good enough or how he felt like he wasn’t good enough for his parents because he wasn’t doing what they wanted him to do? he blames himself so much for things. pisces ass. and the thing about it is that, yoongi is also a virgo moon which means that he especially cares for his members and us so much. he’d do anything for either one of us. he loves us so much. he just don’t wanna show it bc virgos hate showing their true feelings smh. they always wanna know everyone else’s deep feelings n issues but don’t wanna show anyone theirs. SMH ☕️ anyways, all i’m saying is yoongi actually really does care he just tryna scam y'all n make it seem like he don’t. lying ass pisces ass headass boy.

I don’t know how to fully enjoy any of these moments without wondering if it’s the last.
—  Jay Asher, What Light

A great leader is not born but made through exhibiting constant care and support for others, putting others first no matter what, enduring suffering and hardship often in silence, exerting great humbleness, having a continual struggle for self-improvement, and above all, giving the most thorough and sincere love to each and every member.

Though we call her God Jihyo, every human has their limits, and now she needs us most. Although she may never show us all of the pain, stress, and both physical and mental injures that she has incured, we know what a tough road it’s been. Twice wouldn’t be the Twice we know without her amazing leadership. Twice’s leadernim fighting! God Jihyo fighting! #GetWellSoonJihyo

“I missed you,” he said quietly, his gaze darting between her mouth and eyes.

“When I was in Wendlyn. I lied when I said I didn’t. From the moment you left, I missed you so much I went out of my mind. I was glad for the excuse to track Lorcan here, just to see you again. And tonight, when he had
that knife at your throat …” The warmth of his callused finger bloomed through her as he traced a path over the cut on her neck.

“I kept thinking about how you might never know that I missed you with only
an ocean between us. But if it was death separating us … I would find you. I don’t care how many rules it would break. Even if I had to get all three keys myself and open a gate, I would find you again. Always.”

― Sarah J. Maas, Queen of Shadows

You know you’re fucked when you’re only 15 but yet it feels like the world could end right there and you would be fine with it. It’s fucked when girls and boys are so young but so depressed, so heartbroken. Feelings fuck you up, i remember when i was only a little girl and i had this whole life ahead of me and all I wanted was a boyfriend. And now after having one, I don’t understand why I needed one, it’s messed me up. Emotionally and physically, I am fucked.

He was the type of boy you could just see yourself lasting forever with, and that’s exactly what I did. He teased me so much that I used to sook about it, but that didn’t matter because at least he was making me smile in some way. He cared so deeply, and he was so sensitive even though everyone I knew saw him as this big tough guy. He was gentle, he was romantic, it was like we were 23 and just madly in love. Our relationship was beyond what you would expect at such a young age, but we were just so maturely in love. But that’s the thing, i’m not 23, i’m so young and now i’m heartbroken and it’s not as simple as going out every night to get him out of my head. I have to sleep early because of school, i have to go to school, I have to study and commit to all of my commitments and it’s impossible to get him out of my mind. He wasn’t just my boyfriend, he was genuinely my best friend and sometimes we fought as best friends would. But no matter how we were fighting, we fought as hard as we could for each other because that’s what love does to you. But one day i guess he just decided to stop fighting, and it wasn’t like I was expecting it. We always swore we would fight for each other, fight for the relationship, fight for our fucking love but he didn’t want too anymore. He didn’t want me anymore, and i can say with all my broken heart that killed me. It’s the worst thing to wake up happily in love and then go to bed broken because you’ve lost the reason why you even got up that day. He said he lost feelings, but I can’t place when. When did he lose feelings? With all of that sweet talk, the kisses, the texts, the calls, the hugs, everything and at some point he somehow started to lose feelings. And it hurt and surprised me so much because everyone knew that he was crazy about me. I saw parts of him that he would never dare to show anyone, we were so comfortable with each other and we allowed each other into our hearts but for some reason he just didn’t want that anymore. I can not place that all in my head, how you can suddenly lose interest in something you once loved. And it wasn’t like the hurt stopped there, no a month later he found himself with another girl. Making all the memories, the love, the jokes, that we were once doing. And the weirdest thing is, everyone around him can see that he doesn’t love her. Not the way he loved me at least. And i can’t seem to process the thought of why you would throw away a diamond for a fake one. Why would you throw away your perfect girl for someone who doesn’t even come close? Fuck, she’s not even pretty and yet i feel like i have to compete with her. And every month goes by, and they are still going strong and for some reason my brain still can’t process it. I still can’t believe that he’s moved on from me because love doesn’t just go away. You can’t just get rid of love because you don’t want it anymore, feelings don’t leave when you ask them too. So what is he doing with her when he can be with me? I’ve never been the girl to wait for someone, i always want to try with everyone but for some reason i am constantly drawn to him, as if he’s truly made for me and i think he is. I think he’s the love of my life and maybe i’m just not his. But when you love something you don’t just let it go, you fucking fight like crazy for it and i can promise everyone i would never go down without a fight. Okay maybe he’s happily in love with her, but what about me? What about my love for him? That doesn’t just go away, that doesn’t get excluded so fuck society and their expectations. Fuck everyone who thinks i won’t succeed. I know what I want, and i’ve never been so determined to get it.

i. you’re with her now and
it makes me want to rip myself apart
limb by limb
because it was supposed
to be me you were loving not her

ii. so if i call you drunk and complaining
about how much its hurts
please pretend to care

iii. and if by some chance you dont
and delete my voicemails
just like you did with the memories of us
i promise i’ll sew my mouth shut
and pretend my heart wasn’t breaking apart all over again


The more you forget me, the deeper I slip.
Give this silence two more months and it’ll be like we never even met at all. That’s what we both want, right?
The thought of you wanting nothing to do with me still hurts just as much as it used to.
I promise I won’t call anymore.
I won’t even say your name when I’m drunk, alone in a bar.
It won’t be so bad, right?
We always go back to each other, right?

But, what if we don’t this time?

—  Maybe we weren’t supposed to work out

Can we talk about Finn for a minute? I keep reading that Finn gets described as “flat” or “boring” by some in the Star Wars fandom. Obviously everyone’s entitled to their opinion. But I’ll tell you, from my perspective? He’s one of the most unique, charismatic Star Wars characters out there. 

1. Finn humanized stormtroopers. Made us experience panic and terror at the terrible choices they have to make. Stormtroopers, who were practically a joke in the other movies - white plastic statutes that existed just to get shot and clatter into a pile.

2. Finn’s flight with Poe Dameron is an explosion of emotion. That scene blew me away. Both of them had so much fun with it, and you can see Finn feel the real impact of having a name, rather than being a number. 

3. Finn is profoundly empathetic and protective. Hell, I swear he cares about BB8 when he has to describe the plane crash, and Poe’s “death”, to the droid. 

4. Finn shows tremendous range in this movie. Traumatized (stormtrooper battle), jocular (”you got a boyfriend?”), joyous (”that’s one hell of a pilot”), wistful (”Take care of yourself. Please.”), angry (ligthsaber battle), I could go on. I like Luke Skywalker as much as the next fan, but I think Finn shows more range in this one film than Luke did in all three. 

5. Finn’s story arc is powerful, subversive, and inspiring. Going from a number to a name. Finding a family after being taken from his home as a child. Turning his back on the First Order and then realizing he needs to go further, and embrace the cause of the Resistance.

6. Finn’s relationship with Rey. I’m gonna get choked up about this, so I’ll just say John Boyega is an amazing actor, and I loved every scene he had with Daisy Ridley. 

Anyway that’s my fangirling contribution. To me, Finn’s amazing. 

Gif courtesy of @kit-harington

✩Thank you, Lauren Zuke.✩

✩Thanks for all the laughs and lots of love that you have given us. I’m really gonna miss you a lot. Most of us will! And thanks for letting us appreciate Lapis and Peridot’s relationship. Their friendship has gotten stronger throughout the whole show, and it’s been a true blessing. Last night killed me with tears just seeing Peridot care so much about Lapis. I hope you enjoy your time in the Crewniverse. It’s been a blast with you boarding some of the episodes and your love for Lapidot! Thank you, @laurenzuke!! We love you!!! Lapidot FOREVER!! 💚💙💜✩

earlier i was literally on the verge of tears thinking about what an accepting and encouraging person harry is? and how he used to care so much about what other people thought but he’s grown into a confident young man who wants other people to have that same confidence in themselves? and how his heart is still so full of love even after being degraded by the media and even his own fans since he was 16? and just…… how much i would absolutely die for him,

Tell me, am I finally losing my mind?
When I fell for you, all these years ago, there were so many things about you that appeared simply irresistible.
You used to care so much, about the people close to you but also those who had never met you before, you used to be able to sense someone’s sadness in a heartbeat and light up their whole day with a few genuine words and an honest smile.
I remember the way you greeted anybody with an adorable laugh and how you stood up for other people’s rights, not even tolerating a guy with a sexist shirt to breath the same air as you.
And god, you did not just meet all my standards; you are the one who set them for everyone that will follow.
You used to be my perfect secret example of all the good things in our wold and everything that is worth fighting for.
However, when I am looking at you now, I cannot spot any of these things any longer.
You literally do not care about anything any more and where used to be heartwarming empathy is now ignoring silence.
And every one of your ‘jokes’ about women actually breaks my heart because this is not you.
This is not the man I fell for, this is not the guy that I loved so much, with all these beautiful characteristics.
—  // so tell me, am I losing my mind?
Did you change so much or have I been blended by what I wanted to see in you for so long?
Am I no longer able to trust my judgement?

i can’t stop thinking about how dan chose panromantic asexual as an example of a label someone could use. asexuality is so rarely mentioned by people with a large following that that in itself is important, but the acknowledgement that some people choose to separate romantic and sexual attraction and can feel one without the other, along with mentioning a specific example of this type of identity is just. so uncommon. i just love how much he’s learned and wants to share and how much he truly cares


“My mom often talks about how she used to only take care of me because I was a trainee ever since I was young and didn’t know for sure whether I would debut or not, but now she is glad because she can focus and take care of my younger siblings. That’s why I like standing on stage. Because I made so many dreams come true.

#HappyJihyoDay ♡ You have gone through so much at a young age but know that we are all grateful for your efforts as a leader and as an idol. We love you just as much as you love us. Thank you for being born.