they are not worthy of my love

anonymous asked:

I'm really emotional. You said Richonne was iconic and you're right. Seeing a black woman, dark skinned like me, being showered with love and affection and now freaking gifts from the white male lead in one of the biggest shows on tv right now? It's groundbreaking. And the message it'll send is amazing.

PT2: “And it’s not in a “oh my gosh the white man is accepting me!” nonsense way. It’s that she isn’t a stereotype. She’s strong and capable, but also gentle and sweet. She’s badass, but also affectionate. She’s independent, but also ready to share her life with the one she loves. She’s dark skinned and more than worthy of love and adoration - and gifts of cats! Lol. THAT’s the message young girls of colour watching will receive. We are beautiful!“

oh anon ;-; oh my gosh. thank you for sharing these feelings with me. i feel the same and i am so so happy. twd has its flaws but if they did one thing right it was bringing rick and michonne together. and portraying them with so much love and passion and such a deep connection that the last thing you think of when looking at them smile at one another is the colour of their skin. but at the same time, when you see the light and dark of their hands coming together to hold each other you can’t help but smile like an idiot and be so happy that a love like this is being shown on such a massive show. i’m so proud to be a richonner oml *sobs*

Remember, you are not alone.

Reminders to all my fellow simblrs who go through hell every day.

1. You fight these battles every day. You are not weak for having psychological issues. You are strong for making it through yet another day of torture.

2. Control is an illusion. We don’t have control over anything except ourselves, and even then it’s not always the truth.

3. You are not alone. It’s very likely that someone you know struggles with their own demons. Reach out to them. There is strength in numbers.

4. You are worthy of love. You deserve to be loved. I love you.

5. It can feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel when you’re in your darkest hour, but I promise you the light is there. It may take awhile for you to see it, but you WILL see it eventually. Keep that hope close to your heart.

6. You are not your illness(es). You are you, and you happen to have some mental health issues. It’s part of who you are, but not all that you are.

7. It may feel like you want to just give up and die sometimes. I’ve been there many, many times, but just know that giving up is not an option. Every time you take a step forward, literally, you are progressing. Every little tiny step you make, whether it be going to school/work, or just getting out of bed that day, is still success. Celebrate every single baby step. Even the littlest ones.

9. You don’t have to be ashamed. You are amazing just the way you are. Warts and all! Embrace yourself as the wonderful, awesome warrior you are. There is nothing that can’t be gained when you are comfortable in your own skin.

10. You have all the weapons you need…now fight.

the-well-rested-one  asked:

I am here to flagrantly harass you. I don't know why. I just thought I'd pile on. How you doin' over there, hon?

I am feeling feisty and sexual today (apparently?? ), and you?? Apparently the troll hate is free flowing today, not sure how I became so worthy! 😆
Your harassment however, is ALWAYS welcome. ❤️
Your boy has a LOVELY pout by the way. My goodness.

ME:A Countdown: 30 Days

30 Days: Will you play SisRyder or BroRyder first? Why? How does your Ryder define their gender?

SisRyder! I love playing as badass women—there’s just not enough of them. Then again, there never can be enough of them :P

My Ryder doesn’t put much thought into gender in specific, but she identifies as female. Just because she likes doing “masculine” things doesn’t mean she would rather have been born a guy. The only time she really stopped to think about it was shortly after her dad started talking about this one N7 recruit named Shepard; she became a huge fan, and decided she was going to become someone worthy of respect too, so that girls have other role models to look up to and think “I’m going to be like her!”

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This is what confident women do after they got bullied! #smile & #dance! #repost @bodyposipanda:
I thought we could probably use some joyful jiggling in our lives right now so it’s #DONTHATETHESHAKE TIME! 💃💜 REMEMBER: your body is so worthy of love in all the shapes that movement creates. Your wiggle is wonderful! Your squish is spectacular! OWN YOUR JIGGLE MY BOPO BABES! Anyone can join the DONTHATETHESHAKE party and celebrate their jelly - it isn’t about being a great dancer or looking super cool, it’s just about moving with joy and finding love for our bods outside of a still picture frame! So if you feel up to it, GET SHAKING! And check out @donthatetheshake for more! 💜💙💚🌈🌞

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I AM SICK OF THE SAME OLD SMUT IN FANFICS

I’m tired of smut just being porn star worthy, professional, distant fucking

give me fic smut where the characters are new and awkward and ‘oh my god am I doing this right?’ and 'no, oh my fuck you don’t put it there’

give me fic smut where the characters are crying but not like 'that’s good dick’ crying or 'shit that hurts’ crying but rather 'oh my god I love this person more than life and we’re so close right now’ crying, gimme some of that full out bawling

give me fic smut where it’s all a joke and they’re doing anything they can to purposefully kill the mood just to make the other one laugh

give me fic smut where they’re trying things out and maybe things don’t go as planned but they keep going anyway and have a good time

give me fic smut where the characters are literally teasing each other the whole time, but not like sexually teasing but more like insults that are their way of flirting like 'ow you bit my tongue, nice going you clumsy asshole’ and 'fuck you, I made you spaghetti and this is the thanks I get?’

give me fic smut where they laugh, be it because one of them did something funny/embarrassing or because they’re just happy????

like can people in smut fics be more than attracted to each other and not just sex machines with their only priority being fucking???

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“I thought we could probably use some joyful jiggling in our lives right now so it’s #DONTHATETHESHAKE TIME! 💃💜 REMEMBER: your body is so worthy of love in all the shapes that movement creates. Your wiggle is wonderful! Your squish is spectacular! OWN YOUR JIGGLE MY BOPO BABES! Anyone can join the #donthatetheshake party and celebrate their jelly - it isn’t about being a great dancer or looking super cool, it’s just about moving with joy and finding love for our bods outside of a still picture frame! So if you feel up to it, GET SHAKING! And check out @donthatetheshake for more! 💜💙💚🌈🌞”

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by reddit user cyfarwyddyd

I grew up in a small town, the kind where there were no strangers and no secrets.

I don’t think I realized then that I had never felt true fear; nothing exciting happened when your town’s population was barely breaking four-digits. The whole place was centered along a mile long strip of road, which housed all of our convenience stores and a few restaurants.

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January told me that just because a new year starts doesn’t mean a new me has to start.


February showed me that I am worthy of being loved.


March exposed me and all my worries and insecurities, and made me stronger by beating me down.


April taught me that sometimes other people see parts of yourself better than you do, but they may not always see the dark parts.


May spread me so thinly that I felt as if I were a drop of rain trying to cover an entire sidewalk.


June set me up; sometimes people are terrible, terrible creatures, and they’re willing to twist things however they need to in order to get what they want.


July presented me with an opportunity to prove that moving on doesn’t mean letting go.


August allowed me to rebuild parts of myself I thought I had lost.


September erased me; once again I would be a blank slate, and that haunted me for days.


October held me up for the world to see; I was now a part of something bigger than myself, something bigger that could make a difference.


November terrified me, showed me that out of sight did not mean out of mind, told me I was still in love even though I tried so hard to let go.


December let me know that just because the year is coming to an end doesn’t mean I have to as well.

7 Key Insights on Self Love

1. I need to affirm and to validate myself as it’s hard to accept validation from others if, deep down inside, I don’t believe it’s true.

2. My time is valuable as anybody else’s so I need to prioritise what I need to do.

3. I can’t give to others, and help to build them up, if I’m not taking care of my own self first.

4. I need to remember that I’m worthy of love, of success, opportunities, and knowing happiness.

5. My opinions are as valuable as anybody else’s. It’s up to me to decide and to choose my own beliefs.

6. I don’t have to explain why I do what I do (unless you’re the police or have some authority!)

7. My past does not define me - I’m free to change and grow, to try on different “me”s, and to set inspiring goals.

I’ve become afraid of writing. I don’t want to read my thoughts because I know it will terrify me to the point that I’ll be able to see how vulnerable my parts are and how ironically cynical and gullible my heart is. I cannot afford to discover that all this time, I’ve always been a lonely person; that no one has ever bothered to make me feel beautiful, worthy to keep and good enough, all at the same time. I am afraid to compare what I am to the person I’ve always wanted to be. But that’s what I’ve been doing. I always hope I’m enough, not to everyone, but even to one person only because that’s just what I’m waiting. I’ve always waited for someone to tell me I deserve all the stars in the sky even if I don’t shine as bright as the falling star.
—  blended-veneer 
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I am obsessed with this #Repost from @bodyposipanda. I wish I could dance like that! This lady ❤❤❤❤❤❤
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I thought we could probably use some joyful jiggling in our lives right now so it’s #DONTHATETHESHAKE TIME! 💃💜 REMEMBER: your body is so worthy of love in all the shapes that movement creates. Your wiggle is wonderful! Your squish is spectacular! OWN YOUR JIGGLE MY BOPO BABES! Anyone can join the #donthatetheshake party and celebrate their jelly - it isn’t about being a great dancer or looking super cool, it’s just about moving with joy and finding love for our bods outside of a still picture frame! So if you feel up to it, GET SHAKING! And check out @donthatetheshake for more! 💜💙💚🌈🌞

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