they are fictional but their love is real

a-very-average-anomaly  asked:

I just saw your 'Jack Posts' and can I just say thanks! I say way too much shade on Jack and it's so nice to see someone explain why he's so interesting!

Thanks! Tbh I’m not a fan of how the fandom handles both him and Bitty in general. There’s so. much. fluff out there that takes away their characters flaws and shortcomings in favor of something so positive that after a while I (personally) don’t see the point? 

He’s a really good character. He’s gruff yet calm. He’s stubborn af but v intelligent. He’s a formerly fat boy who’s now a thick hockey player (which I love because he’s a guy who doesn’t want to take up space but he’s always thrown into center stage and he DOES take up space). I absolutely love scenes where he’s eating while chirping someone or laying down shit calmly for comedic effect. It’s just so real? 

I talk about it some in one of my fics, but he’s constantly negotiating fact from fiction. And I wish more people would explore his relationship to various media (not just THE MEDIA ™). Stuff like what inspires him in his photography, what kinds of films does he enjoy (don’t just say documentaries, there are a million and one topics and subgenres within that), more about how he loves alt rock and country and not just “dad rock”.  More about how his parents were while raising him and how he is with his mom. 

And yea, I wish more people would actually talk about the overdose. I know for some people it really squicks them that people water down Bitty coming out because it takes away his relatability. I feel the same way about Jack’s back story. I want stories about him slipping, stories where he struggles again at some point and has to recenter himself. I would LOVE stories about his freshman year of college when it was just him and Shitty as the “losers”.

((I write this as I listen to “Constant Headache” by Joyce Manor on repeat because it’s such a Jack song)) 

So yea, I’m glad you liked the top layer of the post! 

Here is Roseline Finch’s (the real Roseline not the AU teen!) mood board -

Roseline is a romantic fiction writer with a love of the color pink.  She’s good-hearted, sometimes to a fault, and experienced a childhood of loneliness and emotional withholding - which is why she can be a little insecure and needy. Oh, and she has a thing for leather jackets and motorcycles but only worn by and driven by a certain someone!

(she’s probably the sims most like my secret self, except for the color pink thing)

anonymous asked:

It really bothers me when ppl say ota/yuri is phedophilic bc my mom was 16 and my dad was 20 and their relationship is supportive and loving from the very start.... But apparently he's abusive and pedo bc?? Idk?? I understand if ppl have personal issues with it, I'm 18 and I wouldn't date anyone younger than me... But most anime copules have age gaps like theirs (sailor moon, shugo chara..).. And in the end they're just fictional charaters, like... How about caring about real problems...

^^^^^^^^

I feel like ppl are calling my dad pedo too… their case was worse bc he was 19 and she was almost 15

But their relationship has always been great and healthy

They really should re-organize their priorities

i was tagged by @turntogreen thank you :^)

Rules: tag 9 people you wanna know better

Relationship status: 17 spirit attachments 

Favorite Color: green all shades baby

Lipstick or chapstick: rosebud salve and carmex every second of the day

Last song I listened to: hard times by paramore it goes so hard i can’t stop listening to it 

Last Movie I watched: i made lea watch The Way He Looks with me

Top 3 Fictional Characters: Luigi i love that green guy, charlie kelly, captain america when he’s good 

Top 3 ships: i don’t like watch tv besides ghost adventures so uhh luke and lorelei from gilmore girls, i think doc holliday had a crush on wyatt earp in real life, bucky and steve shut up 

Books I’m reading: i’ve been reading A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara for almost a year now because it’s so long and so heartbreaking but i’m almost done with it now and i recommend it to everyone but i strongly caution everyone against it because it is really triggering for sexual mental physical abuse drugs and self harm so. i’ve also been reading The Last Gunfight by Jeff Gunn about the real story of the gunfight at the O.K. Corral with the Earps and this other book called Tough Towns by Robert Barr Smith about like old west outlaws

okay that was long i’m tagging @dgauss @aintreallygood @farmerharry @interrogationspecialist @achlles @saggysadgirlshorts @salt-monster i’m gonna be honest i don’t have that many mutuals this is all i could think 2 tag luv u all no pressure m8s 

anonymous asked:

Would you envy Yui's place in the games?

Lmao I had to look at this question like ten times to assure myself it was real because tbh this question is stupid.

Sorry, anon, but it is.

Fictional things are separate from real life and should remain separate. There’s situations in fiction that are either ridiculous or extremely unhealthy and dangerous.

I apologize to fans that love the thought of this being real but only a dumbass would envy what Yui is put through.

Imagine being in an inescapable situation with a guy that could kill, rape or torture you if you say or do the wrong thing.

Is that anything to be jealous over?

We all might have our fictional interests and we enjoy these temporary fantasies safely through fiction without the real life harm involved. If someone wants to cross that line between, then I’d be extremely concerned.

I usually see younger fans that have only watched the anime saying crap like this (don’t know how the anime makes them​ feel this way since they were assholes in there too. Real life relationship goals? Let’s be realistic ffs) and I’m just like “😦 do these 11-13 year olds know this shit would be honestly terrible for them if it were real?”

I love the boys and their character complexities, however I wouldn’t want to be their girlfriend or finding a guy that would treat me the way they sometimes treat Yui, especially since I’m a dominant and real life submissive behavior from me is literally non-existent. See how fiction differs from reality?

Gawd what a dumb question.

Not trying to hate on you but with how much my intolerance for real life bullshit is all over my blog, getting this asked just looks pointless.

Enjoy your fantasies, but stay safe and keep some self-respect.

Tag game

I was tagged by wonderful
@fremione (actually I was tagged in her other blog, @bunneary, but for some reason tumblr won’t let me link to that one)

A - age: 23. I feel old since I was 19 so now it’s torture…
B - biggest fear: something bad happening to my family
C - current time: 2:06am
D - drink you last had: water
E - every day starts with: the clock ringing and me wanting to die just to sleep a little more
F - favorite song: this time I’ll say Hallelujah by Leonard Cohen
G - ghosts, are they real? Wouldn’t it be wonderful of they were?
H - hometown: ask me in private after a conversation and I’ll tell you
I - in love with: fictional characters and dead men. I’m head over heels for Galois right now. I think I’d hate him or love him madly if I knew him…
J - jealous of: people who don’t have problems at home ever? I don’t know, I’m not the jealous type
K - killed someone: no, but if I did I’d say no as well
L - last time you cried: I cried today because my eyes hurt. But I don’t think that counts. I don’t remember last time I cried for real
M - middle name: don’t have one, you can invent it
N - number of siblings: two
O - one wish: being accepted in L'École Normale would be wicked
P - person you last called/texted: my aunt
Q - question you’re always asked: “how is it going with your professor?”
R - reason to smile: this week I’m going to know a little more about group theory and the relationship between Galois and Dedekind!
S - song last sang: De toi a moi II by Olivia Ruiz
T - time you woke up: at 11:00am I think
U - underwear color: soft mauve
V - vacation destination: Ireland! 
W - worst habit: a lot… Probably that I always do everything a little time before the deadline, and that my times are always altered
X - x-rays you’ve had: neck, lungs, nose and teet
Y - your favorite foods: lasagna, ratatouille, cherries, and spicy food in general
Z - zodiac sign: capricorn

I’m going to tag…
@holey-george
@dracxlucius
@percweasly
@jheeley
@primruesabcd
@pcrcyweasleys
@acciolunalovegood
@georgieweasleys

Of course you don’t have to do it if you don’t feel like it.
Have a nice day!

yakannohime  asked:

Top 5 fictional girls!

Ooh, ok! Again, no real order, buttt

Jolyne Kujo is the baddest ass bitch! Me and Haruhi from Ouran can snark at rich peeps any day. Sakura is still my fav Magical Girl! And I love Kira and Dax from DS9! And Yasuho Hirose is the cutest girlfriendo~

  • The male benders in ATLA: Really good. They worked hard to get where they are skill wise and while it hasn't always been easy, they are capable and can hold their own in a fight. One of them was even the Avatar, which is pretty impressive since he mastered the elements at age twelve, rather than start learning at 16 like most Avatars.
  • The female benders in ATLA: Inarguably the most powerful and unmatched humans in the entire world. Prodigies, masters, and creators of subbending styles. One was compared in skill to the Fire Lord at age EIGHT and able to perform one of the rarest and most difficult forms by 14. She couldn't be defeated by another's (even the Avatar's) bending alone. Only faced defeat when fighting two other master benders while on the verge of a complete mental breakdown (officially being defeated by different female bender). Another held an entire city up by a single turret while standing on unstable ground, and then went on to invent her own bending style at the age of twelve. One mastered her element in mere WEEKS, mastered bloodbending and defeated the woman who INVENTED IT the FIRST TIME SHE EVER ATTEMPTED IT, held her own against a master waterbender without ANY TRAINING, and fully healed someone from a fatal wound, making her a master at two vastly different forms of waterbending at the age of 14. A female Avatar quite literally reshaped the planet and created her own ISLAND. AND MOVED IT ACROSS THE SEA. These women shown in the show are not only the most powerful and talented females in their universe, but also in almost any known piece of television or fiction, all while being completely fleshed out and complex characters, not being defined as nothing but 'strong'. Each has their own personality, strengths, and weaknesses.

love and romance are concepts that in a capitalistic society are used to sedate and control the masses since romance is a profitable commodity that corporations can market in books, movies and products and those who purchase in pursuit of happiness and to improve oneself physically so they can become attractive in order to obtain a romantic partner will be forever disappointed because they are chasing something that does not exist and is intangible and exists only in fiction… anyways vodka is real and tangible so buy that instead drink up bicth

Every Fandom Ever
  • first off, screaming. why do we scream so much? no one will truly know
  • sHIPPING EVERYTHING. THERE ARE NO LIMITS. also, ship wars
  • headcanon where everything’s the same except everyone’s gay
  • crying and sobbing to an intense level (we have no chill, i swear)
  • oh the references… so many references. and MEMES. WHY ARE THERE SO MANY MEMES
  • “I NEED THE NEXT SEASON/BOOK/ALBUM/GAME/ETC.”
  • fanfiction… we’ve all been there
  • having a tumblr obviously
  • your husband/wife not being real (why are fictional people so hot??) also i’ve adopted multiple sons?? *sees a smol bean* “I’m adopting it”
  • super protective about your fandom
  • i want merch. but it’s so damn expensive??
  • “lolol im trash”
  • knowing all of the words
  • wanting to go to conventions and concerts but CAN’T
  • scaring our non-fandom friends…
  • being broke.
  • desperately wanting to be with them (as in fictional characters, celebs,and etc.)
  • having pride. just being really proud of this weird ass community
  • giving yourself weird titles (Examples: a Trekkie, phan)
  • having this huge loving family on the internet. honestly, i think it’s the sweetest thing, that we’re able to bond over this thing that we find meaningful. 

Originally posted by stitchholdsmyheart

Note: i’m not trying to be rude, just poking at my own fandoms. i also understand different fandoms have their own quirks. Hope you found this amusing~ admin daria