I’m talking to my friend Katherine right now. We are both INFP’s.
We’re talking about what makes us feel loved, the type of people who are able to break down our introverted, socially awkward walls, etc. It’s good stuff.
So, here’s the conclusion we came to.
Really good questions, that is probably the best way to get an INFP out of their shell. It makes you feel good because someone wants to understand you, and ultimately I think we just want to feel understood by the people in our lives. To understand us and to accept us for who we are is to love us and make us feel loved.