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what happened in the friday stream

(sorry if this looks really messy, but thank you for the awesome stream and everyone who donate for the charity btw :D)

(i wonder if you people know where this came from ;) 

lol it bugs me when people tell heavier set people that they should lose weight “for their health” because these are the same people that’ll turn and call me lucky that i can eat mcdonalds all day and not gain a pound so let’s stop pretending it’s about health and start admitting it’s just cause you can’t accept the fact different body types exist.

there is nothing wrong with liking pretty boys there is nothing wrong with liking pretty boys there is nothing wrong with liking pretty boys there is nothing wrong with liking pretty boys there is nothing wrong with liking pretty boys
there is nothing wrong with liking pretty boys there is nothing wrong with liking pretty boys
there is nothing wrong with liking pretty boys.

something i don’t see a lot in tumblr’s rhetoric about mental illness and recovery is a distinction between recovery through suppression and conformity and recovery through coping.

suppression and conformity is not recovery.  it implies that you are simply repressing the symptoms of your mental illness or disorder and causing yourself more pain.  suppression implies that you are ignoring your mental illness, not acknowledging your symptoms, and conformity implies that you are putting on a neurodivergent facade.  so many people assume that’s the end goal of therapy and medication (should people choose to do that) or general recovery. that people are trying to “cure” you.  it’s where i think a lot of the “i shouldn’t need to get better” rhetoric comes from.

but that’s not what recovery is.  recovery is coping.  it’s learning about yourself and how you tick.  it’s learning to recognize and acknowledge symptoms so you can better understand them and, ultimately, not let them control you.  it’s understanding that being “wired” differently isn’t a bad thing, but it can make things harder, and learning to recognize those distinctions and address them so you can make your life easier.  it’s recognizing that for some people, therapy and medication are the path to coping, and that the end goal of them is to make that learning and self-discovery process easier so that those people can do it independently in the long run.

recovery is not changing yourself to fit the world.  recovery is learning how to look the world in the eye and say “i now know how to coexist with you now.  i now know how to thrive.”

vernon stans
  • *on the outside*: VERNON YOU'RE SUCH A DORK I hATE YOU
  • *on the inside*: precious lil bean in the entire galactic race i love u must protect

People who treat their friends bad make me so angry. You have this great person in your life & think it’s okay to just treat them horribly & act like it’s no big deal? How do people not see that that’s NOT OKAY AT ALL?

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@itsstuckyupmybutt tagged me for the six 2016 selfies and I knew that unless I did it right away I was never going to do it because I hate taking pics of myself and I barely have any so~~ 

tagging @swishyhairbarnes, @brendaonao3, @stephrc79, @boopifer, @brickhousebuck, @hikku@thebestpersonherelovesbucky, and the buttstuffsquad <3

gay-for-jasper  asked:

Hello there! Here's a prompt/request: what about some Yellow Diamond/Pink Diamond? There's almost no fanart of them together and I love this ship ;-; If you can't/don't want to, that's okay tho! Have a good day/night!

im not big on the diamonds shippings tbh, and i dont really like drawing non-cannon characters. but thats a cute ship

and who am i, an open minded multishipper, to say no? :>