OKAY SO LIKE LAST WEEKEND I GOT THIS APP WHERE YOU COULD MEET OTHER LGBTQ PEOPLE FOR MINORS AND I WAS LIKE OH THAT SOUNDS FUN BECAUSE I HAVE NO GAY FRIENDS. EVENTUALLY ONE GIRL MESSAGES ME AND IM LIKE WELL HEY A FRIEND!! SO I CONFIRM THAT SHES NOT A PEDO AND GIVE HER MY SNAPCHAT BECAUSE SHE GUILTED ME INTO IT AND I DIDN'T WANT TO UPSET HER. SO PRETTY MUCH SHE STARTS TEXTING ME ON THERE AND NOW SHES SAYING SHE LOVES ME AND WE'VE KNOW EACHOTHER FOR LIKE TWO DAYS??? SHE ALSO SAYS SHE WANTS TO MEET
PT.2 AND IM HERE NOT WANTING TO HURT HER FEELINGS SO I JUST SAY OKAY AND TRY AND PLAY ALONG BUT ITS MAKING ME UNCOMFORTABLE SO I KINDA STOPPED TALKING TO HER BUT SHE KEEPS SPAMMING ME AND I DONT WANNA BE RUDE AND SHE KEEPS TALKING TO ME EVERY SECOND AND KEEP DEMANDING THAT WE FACE TIME AND IM JUST REALLY UNCOMFORTABLE AND I DONT WANNA HURT HER FEELINGS BUT IM NOT INTO HER AND SHES KINDA CREEPING ME OUT??? IDK MAYBE IM JUST WEIRD
Well for starters, you should really do what YOU’RE comfortable with. Yeah, you both may want lgbtq+ friends but if she’s making you uncomfortable, then you have every right to stop. You could simply tell her that you’re not too sure about meeting, or that you are uncomfortable in doing so. If she keeps pushing, tell her outright that you do not want to. You could explain to her what exactly is making you feel uncomfortable if you want to continue the friendship and hope she understands.
If she keeps persisting, you may have to block her. I know it sounds harsh but really it’s better for you to feel safe. I hope this helps!