I think you have to take criticisms and look at the source and why they feel that way. As a book fan, some book fans still work themselves into a rage about the show regularly. I used to be one of those until S3; my BP couldn't take it. They won't like much tbh Anyways, I'm amused by how reddit, especially freefolk, has been pro Jon/Dany. When notoriously pro dude reddit subs understands Jon kneeling more than Tumblr, I side eye where a lot of these tumblr reactions are actually coming from.
EXACTLY THANK YOU ANON. That last part got me shook.
And idk I think I stopped being a book purist during Harry Potter haha. Learned you have to treat adaptations differently.