Hey Rev! I just learned one of my fav people is also chubs like me and now a large portion of my body anxiety is gone bc they're beautiful! And that makes me think I can be pretty too! Especially being female and my mother pressuring me to be skinny bc I'm a size 20 in women's (UK sizes) and XXL in men's (which is bad) I need your opinion... is being fat bad?
Society says that its bad to be fat. But as someone who regularly makes it a point to not give a shit about what society says I would encourage you to do the same.
It doesn’t matter what I say or what anyone says. Taking care of yourself isn’t just about being in a very specific body type its about being ok with who you are. Do what makes you happy as long as you aren’t hurting anyone.
If your doctor says you need to lose weight to be healthier obviously follow your doctors advice and if you want to have more energy then sure work out. But do it for your health if you decide to not for the sake of making some random fuckstains happy. If I’ve learned anything from life its that society will always give you shit so you might as well just do whatever you want.