these are all the people that have ruined my life

anonymous asked:

i dont get how people are so disgusting towards aces? so many of them are social-justice aware (tho how they are irl is ???) who hate a group of people because they don't understand? there are many parts of life i dont understand completely but that's usually my own fault. somehow asexuals are ruining all of these lives how?? and receive vitriol as much as racists or bigots (or not). i don't trust people who spend time on this website creating enemies when there are plenty real ones out there.

The funny thing is many of them think “aces” is actually synonymous with racists. Somehow. You have a ton of white exclusionists who think they have nothing to do with white privilege or racism compared to “aces” and that they get to call all of us out for racism. Including ace PoC lol

Same with aros though they don’t mention aros explicitly as much.

It’s bizarre

I, a lesbian trans woman, would like to feel like I have a place I can go to. But because of Terfs, I cannot go to lesbian/gay spaces, because I am called a “straight male” and I cannot go to omen safe spaces because I’m a “male.” Why should what I was born as dictate who I am now?
I think I only identified as a boy/male for about 6 years of my life. My family was not supportive so I could not start transitioning until recently. But, I never really had any “male privilege.” I could not even go to the bathroom in public without getting severe dysphoria. And you know what? Terfs have ruined me, and my life, by “"advocating for what is right”“ and I honestly wish I could be seen as a woman. It is all I want. But Terfs are placing the nasty idea in people’s heads that i am not a woman, and it is sending me back into the dark hole of self hatred, dysphoria, and depression. I was plenty happy when I started transitioning. When I finally started getting a body that was closer to who I was. But now I am back to square one.
Terfs are disgusting. They have made me hate myself, again.

Let me put it this way:

I don’t, nor have I ever, or will I ever, follow the three fold law or anything similar, but even if I did, and even if cursing Nazis came back at me to ruin my life? I don’t care. 

I would gladly take what ever consequences the universe has for me if it means stopping a Nazi. 

And to any and all of you who suggest that I shouldn’t curse a Nazi based on the fact that it might come back around to me, you obviously have a clear lack of understanding of who I am as a person.

People have sacrificed their lives to stop these scum from spreading, so you can damn well bet I’m willing to sacrifice my “good standing” with cosmic justice to curse one of these mother fuckers. 

This is of course assuming the universe somehow considers it a bad thing to curse a Nazi in the first place. 

You fluffy bunny bullshitters always forget the “do what you will” part of the rede when it’s convenient for you. 

Can you do an imagine where the reader is invited at the Mikaelsons ball and she talks about her feelings for Klaus with Rebekah and he overhears and then he asks her about it and she says something like “It’s not true it’s just your imagination.” but they end up together?:)

    I don’t know why I’m here, I don’t fit in with any of the people here. I saw my sister Elena and she waved to me but I didn’t want to talk to her. She’s the reason that Aunt Jenna is dead. I began to walk over to Caroline but was stopped by Rebekah Mikaelson. Of course she would be here, it was her ball after all. I didn’t necessarily have anything against Rebekah, other than her brother ruining my life.

    “Hello Y/N, you look amazing” She pulled me into a hug, which was a little strange considering we really only talked when her asshole of a brother made one of my best friends a hybrid.

    ‘Hi Rebekah, as do you” I decided to be civil because she hadn’t done anything wrong to me. She seemed like she would be a good friend.

    We talked for about an hour more and became pretty good friends in such a short period of time. We started to ask pretty deep questions, it would probably turn out to come back at me latter but it felt good to get information out of my system.

    “So… You and matt?” I said with a teasing wink and smirk, she visibly blushed and looked away toward Matt for a second. I knew there was something between them, anyone could see that.

    “Yeah, I like him. He makes me feel human” Rebekah had a very obvious blush on her face. She smiled just at the thought of him, it was cute and I shipped it. “Anyways, enough about me. You and my brother seem to have a certain connection” She wiggled her eyebrows. “I mean, he talks about you all the time”  

    At this point and time I knew I was as red as a tomato. “There’s nothing to say. He ruined my life.” I said with a shrug and tried to stay as nonchalant as I could.

    “But you still find yourself attacted to him?” Bekah asked with one eyebrow raised. I nodded at this and looked up to see Klaus staring at me from across the room.

    “I need a drink.” I stated as I walked towards the bar, it was true if I was getting through tonight I would need to be at least a little tipsy. I finally made it to the bar and swallowed a glass of champagne down in what seemed to be record time.

    “Careful love, someone might take advantage of you if you are in a drunk state.” Klaus showed up behind me and sat in the seat next to me. I rolled my eyes.

    “I can handle myself thanks.” I could feel the Salvatore’s stares on me, them protecting Elena also means they protect me. But I can protect myself.

    “I don’t know. You are attracted to the man that ‘ruined your life’” he had his signature smirk on his face. He was using his stupid vampire hearing and listening into my conversation.

    “I don’t know what you’re talking about. You must be imagining things big bad wolf.” I tried to pull it off by standing up and walking away but he followed me.

    “Well love, if you are not attracted to me than one dance wouldn’t hurt would it?” Klaus knew he was getting to me and it bothered me so much.

    “Fine.” I said with a sigh, “one dance wouldn’t hurt anything.” Yes it would.

    “Perfect” as if on cue a slow song began to play and Klaus put his hand on the small of my back and the other in my hand. Which forced me to place mine on his shoulder. His touched made me jump, making him chuckle. He knew what he was doing to me. Soon one dance turned into dancing the whole night with neither of us noticing.  

Why MBTI Will Ruin Your Life

You all know by now that I am slightly, mind you, only slightly, obsessed with MBTI. I love reading about personalities, and I hope that what I learn helps me to understand and interact with people better than I would naturally do.

But MBTI can ruin your life, too. How so?

Well, what if all your friends think you are weird because you try talking about it with them? Okay. I’m an INTP, and my friends have never thought me normal. Now they just think I’m even odder because I keep calling them these letter combinations.

And what about the fact that you can’t help but automatically jump to the stereotypes, especially when you think of THAT ONE TYPE that drives you nuts? It’s probably a different type for everyone (ESTJs, guys. They exist, and they’re all out to get me.), but now that you know one person of that type who is annoying, every other person you meet with that type is going to be associated with all sorts of bad things that they probably never even thought of.

There’s also the fact that you’ll feel the need to keep up with MBTI news. And MBTI blogs. And MBTI jokes. And MBTI stuff in general. And you’ll have no life. Oh, wait. I’m INTP. I didn’t have a life to begin with.

Of course, there are lots of great things about MBTI. If you’re willing to put up with the side effects, then it’s an incredibly interesting system of thought that can really help you to understand how different people think.

Trust me.

It’s really cool.

Let me just get this off my chest:

Lana and Alicia are involved in such stupid, pointless couple-y storylines, with promos that… god, send help, because they’re hideous. Creative just… gah. Yet, y’all only seem to be bothered by Renee, because you hate her for some reason (not judging, everyone is entitled to have opinions) and you think she’s ruining Dean (???).

You realise that she’s having the exact same role as Lana and Alicia right? Especially Lana, because she also has a real-life relationship with Rusev. So in that line of thought of some of you, she’s also ruining her partner, she’s in a storyline with him, he’s on Total Divas because of her, she’s exposing him… right?!

I get that Dean deserves more than this shitty storyline… I agree. But, don’t Enzo? Or Rusev? Or Alicia? Or Lana? Or Renee? deserve more too?

I hate how creative keeps materializing women and make these stupid storylines, as if they all are there because X or Y is their significant other. And it’s not. They don’t depend on their men. Renee is an interviewer and she didn’t need this shit. Dean is a wrestler and he didn’t need this shit. Neither did The Miz and Maryse. Nor Lana and Rusev. Nor Enzo and Big Cass. They are all hard workers.

This is not about Deanee or Renee or whatever. This is about WWE.

C: I have never had edges all my life 😂😅. I saw the earliest photo of me as a young child about 6 months old and I had thick gorgeous dark 4C hair but my edges were receded like a bih. Which leads me to believe I just don’t have the gene that codes for edges because nobody was pulling or ruining my edges at 6 months. wish people would stop attributing lack of 3C type and above looking edges to “bad hair” or lack of proper self-care. Some of us just ain’t got the gene coding.

i am so fucking angry. how dare you. i am LIVID. who the fuck are you? to ruin what they have ? it’s fucking real. how can they do this to him? hurt him like this? AND NOW CHLOE?? MY ANGEL!?? HER BEING POISONED, ABSOLUTELY BREAKS ME. chloe deserves everything that she wants because she is worthy of it, she deserves happiness. this breaks my heart, because they were in a good place and people and situations keep messing things up for them, but they deserve all the goodness in the world. TRIXIE. what about her DAUGHTER? her mother is dying. she might actually lose her mother, this child is going to constantly always be afraid for her mother . her mother is constantly almost dying. this entire thing is just too much. i’m just gonna go cry myself to sleep now. cool.

IDK why people can’t understand this.

As an Emma stan, I can’t be pro-Regina.  Regina ruined her life and has tried to kill her multiple times.  I can’t love Emma and be okay with Regina.

As a Killian stan, I can’t be pro-Rumple.  Rumple ruined his life and has tried to kill him multiple times.  I can’t love Killian and be okay with Rumple.

Sorry, but I just hate the things and people that hurt my favs, who have done next to nothing to deserve it.  If you want to love all the characters and believe that they all should hold hands and sing kumbaya, fine, but don’t expect me to.

So I’ve been no this site for 6 years and after being in the One Direction fandom for 4 years, I just had to leave. I’m sorry but that fandom is not at all what I went into 4 years ago and I was just always stressed and it wasn’t fun anymore. I was always upset and it just wasn’t where I wanted to be anymore. So then @styleztomlinson recommended Eyewitness and ruined my life and let me just say that I’ve been on this damn site for 6 years and I never felt more love than I do in this fandom. I’m in my FIRST group chat, I always have multiple people messaging me trying to cheer me up when I’m upset about my gifs, I have people messaging people who steal my gifs and defending me without me even having to ask and none of this ever happened in the 1D fandom so that’s what made me want to make a follow forever now and shout out to all of the people who are nice to me without having to be and no matter what happens at the end of next month, I do not regret discovering the show, falling in love with this show, the amount of crying I’ve done over this show and meeting all of you! ❤

@anxiousandgay @bisexuallou @bravovictor @brokenlovelornonyourrocks @cantpronouncefromtivoli @delicioussthing @duchessknowseverything @elanra @ellenarcher @eyewitnessnation @eyewitnessource @eyewitnessssssssss @fallingintoaworldoflight @gifseyewitness @hibaaaabe @hockeyandahalf @idontapproveofthismission @karategirl448 @kaylassurfbort @kirksjames @lukalip @lukas-waldensbeck @lukasewaldenbeck @mayahartist @moonlightwaldenbeck @mwheelers @mypatronusisklaine @mysweetgingerbread @paulcoker @philkasxlove @philkasserole @philukas @plaidphilkas @sabsxy @sleazedagger @styleztomlinson @tyleryoungsjawline @valeriianz @watchashea @xourbeautifulimperfectionsx @you-like-me @youfuckingloosah @yuurishibooty

THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR BEING YOU

if yall gays ruin riverdale for me im gonna scream. the show is on the cw, it already has a confirmed, canon openly gay character(kevin), it’s more diverse than all the pale ass “diverse” shows that everyone loves because they have more than one(read:2) black character and maybe an asian guy or latina girl like do u know how race bent this thing is from comics plus including what diversity was already there. ALL THREE of the pussycats are black. Valerie was the first black lead character in archie comics history and ALSO archie andrew’s first main black love interest and now BOTH OF THE OTHER PUSSYCATS ARE BLACK TOO. they race bent dilton and reggie and cast an actual plus size girl to play big ethel. veronica is latina and archie is being played by a poc. honestly when betty and veronica hook up for in season two you are all gonna look so stupid. (also i am a gay myself so)

Me right now. Like I know I have all of the eps anyway and this fandom is full of beautiful people who provide us with the clips with subs so we don’t need to worry…I just still feel super sad that i can’t still have access to the clips straight off the web like it is meant to be. It just makes you feel closer to the show and the fandom you know? I hope this gets fixed soon. 

akopalasijoan  asked:

I just read Money Shot and I've always wanted to tell you this since Masquerade. Your notes at the end has always been "thank you for reading" and I always felt like "that's it? That's all you have to say??? Thanks for reading????? After you ruined my life, then thanks for reading???????" Hahahaha no, thank you for writing it. :) hope there's more from you soon!!! 🖤🖤🖤 (INSERT GREAT KERMIT MEME HERE)

XDDDD this made me laugh OMG.
What else am I meant to say? Ahah “sorry for reading.”
Lmao I might use that from now on :P
But seriously thank you for reading, it means so much that people would read long enough to get to the bottom so I always leave it there. 💕

‘Do you understand anything I’m saying?’ shouted Moist.  'You can’t just go around killing people!’

‘Why Not?  You Do.’  The golem lowered his arm.

'What?’ said Moist.  'I do not!  Who told you that?’

'I Worked It Out.  You Have Killed Two Point Three Three Eight People,’ said the golem calmly.

'I have never laid a finger on anyone in my life, Mr. Pump.  I may be–all the things you know I am, but I am NOT a killer!  I have never so much as drawn a sword!’

'No, You Have Not.  But You Have Stolen, Embezzled, Defrauded, And Swindled Without Discrimination, Mr. Lipvig.  You Have Ruined Businesses And Destroyed Jobs.  When Banks Fail, It Is Seldom Bankers Who Starve.  Your Actions Have Taken Money From Those Who Had Little Enough To Begin With.  In A Myriad Small Ways You Have Hastened The Deaths Of Many.  You Did Not Know Them.  You Did Not See Them Bleed.  But You Snatched Bread From Their Mouths And Tore Clothes From Their Backs.  For Sport, Mr. Lipvig.  For Sport.  For The Joy Of The Game.’
— 

Terry Pratchett, “Going Postal”
(I want like every corrupt rich person in the world who thinks they’re just better at The Game of Life than the poor/non-white people/women/disabled people/LGBT+ people/etc. to read this and have a good think.  Rich heads of corporations who think they’re so great because they Create Jobs but who don’t want to pay their workers a living wage, for example.

Like Moist von Lipwig is a con man character and he learns his swindling actions have terrible consequences for others, but he’s not meant to be read ONLY as a smiling, charismatic literal criminal.  Remember what Vetinari said in that other quote I posted: sometimes everything is perfectly legal and above board, but it’s still harmful and dishonest and kills people.)

Oh my god I need to stop ruining everything with my ridiculous brain. I’ve spent ages looking at other people’s accomplishments and feel vastly inferior and now don’t feel like I deserve to even be friends with all the beautiful talented and witty people in my life. Initially it was fun to see what people are up to and I was happy for them all but I feel so pathetic and useless in comparison to some of the people in my life who have got so much going on. I feel like returning back into being a social recluse and giving up on everything I’m not perfect at. How on earth do I deal with the fact that I am always worried that I’m inadequate? What can I do about that? I genuinely feel I’m not good enough for most people.

I’ve been kind of MIA and hesitant to post any more weight loss photos because one of my more recent before/after photos was taken and spread all over the internet for false advertising for weight loss supplements. I have literally gotten a message every day about this for the past year. It’s frustrating, but what can you do? Think positive and realize for every person who takes advantage of your photos there are 10 people who you can inspire to do things the way you actually did - through hard work, dedication, exercise and healthy eating.

I haven’t tracked macros or counted calories in months because I was literally obsessive about it and it was ruining my life. But, I have continued to listen to my body and make healthy choices. I got married last month and felt amazing! I never thought I could pull off a snug wedding dress, but I felt so beautiful. 120 lbs in May 2016 versus 185 lbs in December 2011. How worth it was it? More than anything.

Fanfiction and Tumblr have basically ruined/enhanced my life. Now instead of watching a movie or TV show and seeing the couple on screen I’m like “Dude those two chicks are so fucking gay. They are gay as fuck. They are gay for each other. There’s no room for Jesus in that gayness. Cheezus fuck just kiss already. Why aren’t y'all married with like eight kids? Ugh… forget this. I’m going back to my gay fanfiction.”
So thanks fanfiction and tumblr. My life is a gay ass lovely mess because of you gay ass lovely people but I love it.

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for all our faults, my people have many virtues. we are laden with history and culture… we treasure our past and preserve it. you can walk down a side street and find nothing built during the modern ages. and, despite appearances, we care. deeply. about everything. we have no reserve, not in war and not in love.