theres actually a lot you could say about it

anger management: mars
  • mars in the 1st: i know it doesn't feel like it, but you need to let that anger out, consume you and explode. i would advise you to hit something but then i'm sort of afraid that you'd hit me--at least it's a nice conundrum, i don't see a lot of those, these days. i recommend exercise or sports because you know, two birds with one stone. or you could get drunk and kick people's asses in bar brawls/video games, both would be cathartic, i think.
  • mars in the 2nd: bottle up your emotions, man. and that anger too. and when it reaches a breaking point, burst the entire dam because you're too good at it. but no, really, find a repetitive task that grounds your anger to a center, don't hoard it like dragons hoard gold, as you're wont to do. and make sure it focuses on a rhythm and unleash it using that focus. get it through your thick head: passive aggressiveness is not attractive.
  • mars in the 3rd: i would tell you to punch your sibling but that'd be too drastic. i suggest you write all the words you're dying to scream and curse, the words you're gonna use to tear the world into two, in paper, make an origami of it and flush it down the toilet. that'd feel good, trust me. if not, i'd advise you to talk it out with a person you trust to be objective, look at it from a logical perspective as to why you're angry and methodically decode why it's making you want to annihilate something. you'd feel much calmer afterwards. (or end up reading six books in one day and write vicious reviews on how stupid the characters are--that works too)
  • mars in the 4th: i know this sounds ridiculous, but open the fridge and the tub of your favorite flavor of ice cream, dig into it face first without using a spoon while watching really sad anime. you'd feel much better. or you could take it out on your home, violently redecorate or tear off the curtains. or something. i suggest doing heavy household tasks that'd exhaust you, so when you take a shower and get rid of all that sweat, you feel at least some semblance of calm.
  • mars in the 5th: this sounds terrible and cliche, but use it to be productive. use it in your art to make a statement because it has pissed you off. run that extra mile on track. get the best score on a creative writing course--you get the gist. make sure it helps you shine, not the things/people that made you angry, because trust me, an anger like yours is nothing short of an inferno.
  • mars in the 6th: fuck with your classmates/co-workers. otherwise channel it into helping people with things they can't do themselves/solving their problems while grumbling about how fucking stupid they are. you could also finish household chores and with your exhaustion, calm your anger. i know there's so much you want to say and it makes you feel like you could burst, but channel that anger into mundane tasks to get them done faster, finishing that side project earlier. and the satisfaction will quell that terrible rage, trust me.
  • mars in the 7th: fuck up all your personal relationships and one on one communication and brood like there's no tomorrow, man. other things you could do are: changing your entire wardrobe to spite the person you're angry with, listening to heavy rock metal that somehow speaks to your soul at the moment and go wild on a shopping spree. the tornado in your head won't completely disappear, i know, you passive aggressive fuck, but it'll help, i can assure you that.
  • mars in the 8th: plan hypothetical revenge on your object/person of anger. i know it's not satisfactory unless you back up that bark with bite, but i advise you to not do that, because you'll feel terrible afterwards. so the notion that you could get revenge, if you wanted to, is satisfying in and of itself (just don't actually want and do that, i'm saying this for your own good). listen to your favorite metal band and scream like there's no tomorrow. or tell the people you're angry with how you plan to eviscerate/castrate them in vivid detail in your head. you'll feel a lot, i repeat A LOT calmer.
  • mars in the 9th: run away from it. literally. complete avoidance has always been your best strategy, hasn't it? i suggest preaching about why you're angry to anything that will listen: a wall, a donkey, babies too small to crawl away. think about affirmative action, man, and for god's sake, face the source of your anger instead of running off on a road trip with no money just for the hell of it. heck, play that weird airport finding game in an unknown place you're gonna have to navigate on your own. or play video games in general: don't let that energy go to waste.
  • mars in the 10th: channel that ball of righteous fury into your ambition and dexterous work ethic (translation: become even more of a workaholic than you already are) and shove your success, your regained dignity, your perseverance right to their faces. you are made of poison and stardust, and that is the greatest strength that belies your anger. use that strength to work miracles. or smoke weed, but that's not exactly a good thing 0/10 would not recommend. but don't, i repeat, don't take it out on your personal relationships. that's exactly what will lead to your downfall.
  • mars in the 11th: do NOT use it to fuel your god complex. i know you're angry at the world and how frustrated you are--i am too, but AN IDEOLOGY IS NOT A SOLUTION BECAUSE ITS APPLICATIONS IN REALITY ARE VASTLY DIFFERENT THAN THEY ARE IN THEORY. you're seeing an injustice? make sure it is not one anymore. plan it out, how you'll right all these wrongs: with your friends, with people who share the same views as you. dissect and analyze these problems and annihilate them but i repeat: DO NOT LET ANGER TRANSFORM YOUR EGO INTO A GOD COMPLEX YOU WEIRD WONDERFUL SHIT IT WILL DESTROY YOU
  • mars in the 12th: don't get others to unleash your anger or manipulate them into being assertive for you. just don't, that's freaking pathetic. i strongly suggest you sleep: take a long, preferably 8 hour nap and cuddle something/someone. once you wake up, you'll be looking at it from a newer, fresher perspective and will actually find the energy to express your anger appropriately instead of using other people as puppets that dance under your strings. music would help to calm you down, as well. so try that first, all right?

anonymous asked:

Hey Ludwig, if you could have a baby next time would you? I know there's something special about being a father, but I'm sure everyone would agree that carrying a baby is one of the most magical things in the whole world.

Feli: It’s okay, Luddy. It’s normal to be scared of it. It’s a lot of work and commitment and I wouldn’t want anyone to have to go through it without being really invested.

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I will say that I actually have a very good friend who is absolutely terrified with the concept of becoming pregnant. A lot of risk and responsibility goes into carrying a baby and it is not something to think of lightly, fear or not.

anonymous asked:

Can I ask a question about abled people using the handicapped stall in bathrooms? I'm abled, and I was always taught that if the other stalls are free, to use those, but if there's a long line to help it move faster by using the handicapped stall too. If that's a bad idea, could you tell me a little more about why?

Great question! I know for a lot of able-bodied folks the whole “don’t use the handicapped stall” is confusing, especially in the situation where all the other stalls are occupied. 

It all comes down to demand vs actual need. Let’s take your long-line scenario and tweak it a bit. Let’s say you’re in that long line of people waiting for the restroom, but, out of 8 stalls in the entire restroom, you are only able to use the very last stall in the back (it is specially designed to accommodate your medical needs). 

As time passes, each stall becomes available except for the only one in the back that you need. Everyone else was able to meet their needs and leave while you’re stuck waiting by the sink for the one person to exit the stall you need. 

To top it all off, the person in that stall doesn’t actually need to use it in the same way you do.

Can you see how frustrating that is? Despite this restroom having ample space for everyone else, as far as your concerned, this bathroom (and every bathroom you will ever visit) only has one stall and it’s constantly in use by people who don’t need it. You have either awkwardly wait in the restroom or constantly check back. 

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I hope I was able to answer your question. Please feel free to reach out if you need me to clarify something else.

Side Note: My experience with restrooms is based on using men’s restrooms where, when someone goes into a stall, they aren’t likely to come out very quickly. The situation may be different in women’s restrooms.

anonymous asked:

you know what i want? more headcanons, fics, etc. where it's baz who's the one who says/does ridiculous things. there's a lot about times it's simon who's like that, but when you actually read the book, the roles are switched. like, in the epilogue? baz is the one who's all jokey and simon's serious. i'd get quotes but i don't have my book with my rn. anyway, just wanted to say my two cents. (also i love your blog; you rock!!)

i fully agree let’s make this a thing! since u said sth about quotes i had to copy some bc the epilogue is pure gold:

“You,” I say to Baz, letting a box drop on the couch, “even have superstrength. You could probably do this in half as many trips.”
“Yes—” He pulls the lid off his Starbucks cup, so he can lick the whipped cream directly. “—but then your Normal neighbours would start to wonder, and they’re already curious about the handsome young man haunting your door day and night.”
“The neighbours don’t even know we’re moving in. They’re all at work.”
“Well, they will wonder, once they get a look at us. We’re cool and mysterious and better-looking than any couple has a right to be.”

Penny walks out of her bedroom. “Simon, have you seen my crystal ball?”
“Should I have?”
“It’s in a box marked Careful—crystal ball. Oh, hey, Baz. What’re you doing here?”
“I’m going to be here all the time, Bunce. I’m going to haunt your door day and night.”
“Did you come to help us move in?”
He puts the lid on his drink. “Hmm. No.”

“Would that actually work on you?” I asked him.
“What?”
“A stake?”
“I’d think a stake through the heart would kill anyone, Snow.”

and ofc my favorite:

“The whole prophecy is bollocks,” I say. “‘And one will come to end us. And one will bring his fall.’ Did I also bring my own fall?”
“No,” Baz says. “That was me. Obviously.”
“How did you bring my fall? I stopped the Humdrum myself.”
Baz looks back at his phone, bored. “Fell in love, didn’t you?”
Penny groans, and Baz starts laughing, trying not to crack a smile.

  • Allistic people: Don't make Autistic headcanons! Autism is a serious disease, & wanting characters to have it is incredibly offensive to Autistic people!
  • Autistic people: Autism is not a disease. It is a disability/neurotype. There is a huge difference between mental illness & mental disability. Autism is a mental disability. It is also Autistic people's neurological wiring & is therefore, an essential part of who we are. ..And no, Autistic headcanons are not "offensive" to us. In fact, due to a lack of quality representation in the media, a lot of Autistics find comfort in headcanoning characters we like as Autistic, because it reminds us that there's still a chance that we could gain some quality representation. Please, don't make assumptions about Autistic culture like this.
  • Allistic people: You wouldn't be saying any of this if you actually knew about Autism!
  • Autistic people: *facepalm* You didn't listen to a word I just said, did you?

altheias  asked:

✌️ ☯️ ❁ <3

✌ : favourite proverb/saying from your language

lmao theres actually an insult that ive always found ridiculous but it’s “ullu ka pattha” which is kinda outdated but it literally translates to “owl pellets” LMFAOSJDHF it makes no sense

☯ : what do you love about your language?

answered but i could go on :( its such a lovely language we have a lot of pretty sayings too :(

❁ : which language(s) do you think of as the most beautiful?

HINDI !! but also im dYING to learn arabic and i used to know basic swahili so i kinda wna do that again too anyways im in love with every language in the world

Steve Carlsberg is You

This was a thought that came to me suddenly after doing some digging for other theories. It had started with the Strangers, devolved into researching about the crate conspiracy, and finally I landed on the Black Planet. It all suddenly started to make so much sense. The Black Planet was not a metaphor for death, or a call of the void. It wasn’t a foreboding message of change, of realization…or it was simply a warning.

The last time I mentioned the Black Planet was all the way back at the 1000 subscriber mark. We’re nearly at 5000 now, and there hasn’t been much mention of the planet since then. These are the moments in which the Black Planet (and its associated imagery) has been mentioned:

  • After a strange incident in the Post Office, visitors reported seeing churning oceans and jagged peaks.
  • You saw the planet multiple times, specifically as he was being threatened by Them.
  • Cecil spoke of a black planet when he was a teenager.
  • Cecil saw the planet in Condos.
  • The Man Who Was Not Short saw the planet shortly before being killed by his partner.
  • Lucia Tereschenko saw the planet shortly before being killed.

I had always assumed that the planet meant imminent death. Lucia, the Man Who Was Not Short, and presumably You were all killed shortly after seeing the planet. Cecil’s childhood memories were ‘killed’ after seeing the planet. Cecil was going to essentially die in the condo. And it is presumed that a lot of people died after the Post Office incident. But then, what if You hadn’t died? What if the Post Office was something else entirely? And Cecil didn’t die either time. So perhaps the Black Planet doesn’t mean death at all. It could mean something else entirely.

But then where does this come into my assumption that Steve is You?

Well You is supposed to be a fairly normal person that got wrapped up in the strangeness of Night Vale. For a long time, I had assumed that that was going to be Steve’s story. I thought that Cecil didn’t like Steve because he was an outsider that had entered Night Vale and thus Cecil felt like he doesn’t belong. But it turns out he’s simply a fairly normal guy (by our reality’s standards) that can’t seem to fit into Night Vale properly. And part of that has to do with what he can see in the sky.

Steve is constantly talking about how he can see the 'dotted lines’ and 'messages’ in the sky. If the Black Planet is not simply a metaphor for death, and is instead a message, then wouldn’t it make sense that Steve, as You, would understand the message that it was indicating? After all, in the episode A Story About You, it is said that “every message in this world has a meaning. It all makes sense and you are finally being punished” right before the Black Planet is seen.

But wait! You died in that episode, right?

Not necessarily. It is never specified what became of You. You reached up towards the Black Planet and then…nothing. The episode ended there. It can be presumed that You died or something else happened and You still lives. And if You does still live, then who’s to say that You isn’t Steve Carlsberg?

Granted, there are a couple of things that don’t match up with the assessment that Steve is You. For one, it is confirmed that You did not always live in Night Vale. Steve, on the other hand, had. He said so in The September Monologues. It could be debated that Steve simply doesn’t remember living outside of Night Vale because of his constant re-education, but that doesn’t explain how You’s fiancée also lived outside of Night Vale, assuming that it would be Abby.

However, I think that this theory could still hold water. Whether or not it will actually prove to be true, I cannot say for certain, but the Black Planet has held some sort of stature in the story thus far, but it has never been quite clear what its role will be. But then again, I suppose that’s just what makes theories like this so fun.

anonymous asked:

you once mentioned in twitter that every tk stan has receipts to prove that they're not fanservice. can you help by telling me these receipts? i mean i'm new to this whole kpop world so i'm pretty clueless about which is fanservice and which is not:(

okay, the amount of words might be tedious but it’ll get interesting when the gifs begin appearing below. i think before anything else, you gotta know that fanservice is merely a show for the camera and the pleasure of fans. many idol otps are known for that haha but if you ask me, taekook are actually far from that bc 1: taehyung is naturally an affectionate person who clings to everyone like they’re a source of living which is really cute. (he’s ever mentioned that he’s a man who cherishes affection a lot). 2: taehyung dotes on jeongguk so much, so much that i even pointed it out before i became the huge tk stan that i am today omg. 3: jeongguk used to be incredibly shy and it took him a while before he was able to comfortably receive the love from his hyungs through their affection, and as of now, he’s a lot less shy and shows them a great deal of affection too.

so… the reason why i said every tk stan has receipts to prove that they’re not fanservice, is because their skinship is natural, very natural, literally them genuinely caring for each other and gentle and just so them in every way possible??

one example:

what a cute bonus:

honest to god every moment is truly soft to their subtle touches, like how taehyung’s always hugging jeongguk from behind because god the boy loves jeongguk so much the entire fandom’s been on about this from the very beginning.

and there’s one more but i’m just proving my point. there’s too many o<-<

jesus christ when you google search v and jungkook one of the searches that appears is “v and jungkook dating” omfg

listen, they cuddle even when they sleep with no fans around then, like backstage before a performance or when they’re just resting

idk i just felt like including this polaroid pic vv

and what the hell even on bon voyage where they shared a small ass bed together x and here’s a close up that i couldn’t resist

also i must point out that taehyung kissed jeongguk’s arm right after waking uP OML THIS THE SWEETEST THING IN THE WORLD

ALSO THIS TOTALLY CUTE RANDOM EAR KISS

ANYWAY taehyung has this thing for hopping onto jeongguk’s back to be piggybacked and it’s absolutely adorable, it’s kind of become a tradition now. 

jeongguk sometimes hops onto taehyung’s but it doesn’t last as extreme as taehyung does though lmao

there’s that recent bon voyage one

the times jeongguk back hugged taehyung on music shows before the camera started broadcasting live and released his arms around taehyung—

also there’s many things that they do together during concert performances and this is one important compilation of it x

if you take a closer look, you’ll notice that jeongguk does initate affection too. and when he does it could make you faint.

the bright unit who giggles even when they’re just looking at each other also says a lot about their relationship tbh. like wow what kind of joy exists that you actually cannot keep a smile off your face when you’re in front of someone you love really? true love is what.

social-justice-marauder  asked:

How is the relationship between James and Lily going to play out? It's just that there's a lot of fanfiction characterizations where James ask Lily out 24/7 even after she repeatedly says no, and that's really problematic and gross because it's sexual harassment. Could you confirm that this won't be the case in your film? It seems like there are a lot of people excited about this film, and I'd hate to see the idea of sexual harassment as romantic spread even further. Thanks!

Oh, god, no. First off, it would be romanticizing harassment, and second, there is no canon reason to believe that was the case- In fact, based off what little actual canon we do know about James, it seems likely that he would be far too proud to ask her out again after being so publicly shut down.