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id like to tell every single closeted lgbtqa+ person some good advice that i wish i had known back in the seventh grade

you literally dont have to come out. its not a rite of passage, theres nothing forcing you to. if you wont be safe coming out, you dont want the drama from doing it, or any reason you cant/dont want to do it, DON’T! dont let anyone tell you that you have to come out. i’ve seen too many people, including myself, fuck up their own safety and their own lives because they thought they were obligated to come out.