Why do so many exclusionists try to speak for all exclusionists though when you point out nasty shit that’s frequently come from their crowd?
Like you’ll talk about a lot of ppl in this mess hating aces and aros, possibly even with concrete examples on that very post, and you could provide a ton of evidence if asked, and several ppl will go, “this isn’t true WE don’t hate aces/aros” and “WE’RE only saying x”
Like… if you honestly think people who share your stance on whether or not aces/aros are inherently LGBT+ can do no wrong, or that if you’ve not personally noticed a problem among said crowd it can not possibly be an issue at all and the many ppl talking about it must definitely be making it all up or be too clueless to understand what’s Actually Being Said, then…
Like, something really not good is going on here??
It’s really toxic and nasty to dismiss aces/aros talking about having been harmed by ppl you want to think highly of in the blink of an eye?? And to immediately start talking down to us??