there i tagged it again

  • Seokjin: *is holding a baby*
  • Baby: J-Ji-Ji..
  • Seokjin: Oh my god he's gonna say my name! Say Jin!
  • Baby: Jimin is beautiful.
  • Seokjin:
  • Jimin:
  • BTS:
  • BTS: *slowly looks at Jungkook*
  • Jungkook, wiping away his tears: They learn so fast
My mind fills with a raised hand, a thunderous
voice spewing words of hatred, words I have
said to myself before, words I have heard
said of myself before, words I think of
myself over and over and over
And I try to imagine a world where an error
is not followed by the fear of the hand,
the slap, the punch, the push
what is it like?
—  Excerpt from Someone’s Never Again, an upcoming chapbook (Linn D.)

IS IT NOT TIME, SIR

5

The “rules” can be different for every poly/non-monogamous people and their relationships, but some things are universal:

  • cheating is horrible and has nothing to do w/ polyamory
  • honesty and communication are KEY 
  • we often have too much affection to give rather than not enough tbh
  • who tf has time for orgies everyday?? it’d be so tiring??? also some poly ppl are ace so??? yeah
8

C-C-C-C’MON, C-C-C-C’MON, LET’S GO!

So I’ll make a post about Mob.

So, I (maybe unsurprisingly) have a file dedicated to various instances when Mob’s thoughts or actions are rather dark. Which was started as evidence gathering mission to try and counterbalance the excessively saccharine treatment Mob tends to get and to recognise the interesting and multifaceted character he actually is…

Characters in the series often have difficulty recognising Mob’s opinions and emotions, and while we as an audience are well aware of his emotions, I’ve noticed people tend to overlook Mob’s actual thoughts on things if they don’t align with what people think he *should* think.  

Mob is someone who does the right thing, for as many people as possible, not because he can’t comprehend bad, or doesn’t realise it’s an option, but because he is someone who actively wants to be better. And that doesn’t mean he forces himself to like or forgive everyone who wrongs him (that’s unreasonable to expect of anyone - let alone a 14-year-old kid), sometimes it just means avoiding doing them actual harm out of that dislike.

and yes, sometimes someone has to step in before Mob is pushed over his limit - thank you Reigen and Dimple at various points in the series - sometimes Mob doing nothing in a situation is the best he can manage. Because it’s better than the alternative ie: 100% murderous intent vs Mob 0% and Reigen 1000%

Mob thinks his actions through a lot in the series (although he actually vocalises those thoughts much less). And he takes the time to think through actions and consequence thoroughly 

Which in the above instance freaks Reigen out, and also highlights a difference between them: Reigen says the right thing instantly because it’s the Right Thing to say, while Mob takes a… concerning amount of time to really take a look at what he would do first. And I love them both for different reasons as a result of this interaction.

Mob is conscientious and a good person. not because he lacks the ability to comprehend doing wrong, but because he thinks and works really hard to overcome those thoughts and be better. 

He thinks about doing the bad stuff, and then actively works really hard to avoid doing them.

And I love him for it.