there are some things you just don't get over

My husband’s computer and phone are both having issues. So I am ordering him a new cord (it isn’t charging his computer) and getting his phone replaced through the insurance we have on it (this man goes through phones more often than anyone should). 
Meanwhile, I just handed over my tablet to him (he doesn’t have one of his own and he is very connected to his social media and the internet) and told him he can do whatever and down load whatever. 

Husband: Really?
Me: Sure.
Husband: I…might download facebook.
Me: *Cringes*
Me: I’m…..o..kay with that.
Husband: I love you. *walks out of the room*

I don’t know if you all know this, I know those that I chat with regularly do, but I only get on facebook if it is unavoidable. Like I opened it yesterday to look at the times and prices of our local pool/splash park. Found out and immediately closed it because fuck checking anything. I will post pictures of the kids on instagram (which is private but not all my family are on there) and I cross post those pictures on facebook. Only so people can see the kids if they want. 

Those pictures that I post randomly are literally the only thing I post on facebook. I am not a fan. 

So if my Husband ever complains about my aromanticism again, buddy, I just did one of the most romantic things possible for me to do. I proved my love by allowing you to download facebook to one of my devices. How is that for romance? 

anonymous asked:

hey, I was wondering if you could give me some advice? I'm a bi girl. My gf has always been mildly biphobic but it was just like jokes and side comments so I preferred to ignore it. The thing is we had a fight on lesbian visibility day because she doesn't understand that I don't identify as a lesbian. She got all: "you hate lesbians" (???), "if you don't want to use that label is just so you can eventually go back to men"... It was fcked up. I love her but I don't think I can get over this...

if she doesn’t accept you for who you are, this relationship is already built on notions that aren’t true and if you can’t be yourself around your significant other this person only likes a part of you. i can’t imagine my girlfriend calling me fake. hell, she’s more likely to tell me to stop erasing myself than I even am. your significant other should champion you for who you are. not who they want you to be. 💖💜💙

Imagine if the basement tapes were a bunch of videos of Eric and Dylan baking and doing crafts part 2
  • Dylan: *is filming eric* today me and reb are going to show you how to make a godlike scrapbook for all your godlike memories.
  • Eric: *holding up scrapbooks* first you need to get yourself a scrapbook. as you can see, me and V already got some badass scrapbooks. I picked em up at some old lady store for $10 a piece. Mine has guns all over it and-
  • Dylan: *interrupting* but I wanted the one with the guns on it
  • Eric: you're getting the one with the cats on it or you can buy your own damn scrapbook
  • Dylan: but it's pink, that's not very godlike
  • Eric: we need our money for NBK, we can't go and buy you another scrapbook, let's just paint it black.
  • Eric: *walks across the room to closet*
  • Dylan: *follows while filming*
  • Eric: *opens closet*
  • Giant box: *is in closet*
  • Eric: *takes box out* good thing my parents don't search my room, they'd think I'm some kind of faggot with all this crafting supplies.
  • Dylan: *lol* reb take the camera so I can paint my godlike journal
  • Eric: *takes camera and films Dylan*
  • Dylan: *opens box* damn reb, this box is filled to the brim. It hasn't been this full since we made our godlike friendship bracelets
  • Eric: I told you I was getting shit for our crafting videos. Just paint the damn thing so we can move on
  • Dylan: *paints scrapbook black* we have to wait for it to dry now
  • Eric:
  • Dylan:
  • Eric:
  • Dylan: reb, does you mom have a hair dryer?
  • Eric: yeah but she's sleeping, we're going to have to sneak past the bed and get it out of the master bathroom
  • Dylan: ok let's go
  • Eric + Dylan: *walks upstairs*
  • Dylan: *steps on dog toy*
  • Dog toy: *makes noise*
  • Eric: FUCK, you better hope that didn't wake my parents up. how am i going to explain to them that their 18 year old son is making a scrapbook
  • Dylan: it's fine lets go
  • Eric + Dylan: *tip toes to the master bedroom door*
  • Eric: you wait out here, I'll go in and get it
  • Eric: *quietly opens door and slips inside*
  • Dylan: *films the closed door*
  • Dylan:
  • Door:
  • Dylan:
  • Sparky: *jumps on Dylan*
  • Dylan: NOOOO, get off, I hate dogs, you're going to get hair all over my trenchcoat!
  • Sparky: *is confused*
  • Sparky: *chases tail*
  • Dylan: oh my god reb hurry up
  • Door: *slowly opens*
  • Eric: *comes out with blow dryer* what the fuck was that V? We're lucky my parents didn't wake up.
  • Dylan: your dog attacked me
  • Eric: no he didn't, sparky's a good boy
  • Eric: *pets sparky* yes you are!!
  • Dylan: let's go back downstairs
  • Eric + Dylan: *sneaks downstairs*
  • Eric: *plugs in blow dryer and hands it to Dylan* there, dry it off quick
  • Dylan: *turns on blow dryer*
  • Blow dryer: *makes noise*
  • Eric: fuck, this thing is loud
  • Dylan: the paint is still wet, just wait a minute
  • Dylan: *continues blow drying scrapbook*
  • Upstairs: *makes noise*
  • Eric: fuck! Someone's awake! Turn that shit off!!
  • Dylan: wait it's almost dry
  • Staircase: *is making noises*
  • Eric: *grabs the godlike scrapbooks and throws them out the window*
  • Dylan: my scrapbook!! Reb we just spent 20 minutes getting a blow dryer to dry it off and now you just throw it-
  • Door: *opens*
  • Dylan: *is holding blow dryer*
  • Eric: *is standing by the window*
  • Craft box: *lies open on the floor*
  • Eric's mom: boys! It is almost four o clock in the morning!! What on earth are you two doing?? Is that my hair dryer??!
  • Eric: *climbs out the window*
  • Dylan: *drops hair dryer* wait for me!!
  • Dylan: *climbs out the window*
  • Eric's mom: *climbs out the window* COME BACK HERE ERIC DAVID HARRIS!! DYLAN I AM CALLNG YOUR MOM!!!
  • Eric: *starting up car*
  • Dylan: *is in passenger seat*
  • Dylan: oh my god, oh my god
  • Eric: *drives away*
  • Dylan: where are we going??!
  • Eric: *is in tears* how am I going to explain all this shit to my parents??! They're going to be so disappointed in me!! Kevin is joining the marines meanwhile I'm making fucking scrapbooks in a basement!
Guardians of the Galaxy Roleplay Sentence Starters
  • "You'll die! Why are you doing this? Why?"
  • "Well that's just as fascinating as the first 89 times you told me that."
  • "Well I tell you what, that's gonna wear real thin, real fast, bud."
  • " I just wanted to tell you how grateful I am that you've accepted me despite my blunders. It is good to once again be among friends."
  • "This dumb tree is also my friend."
  • "I have lived most of my life surrounded my enemies. I will be grateful to die among my friends."
  • "Aww, what the hell, I don't got that long a lifespan anyway... "
  • "Well now I'm standing. Happy? We're all standing now. Bunch of jackasses, standing in a circle."
  • "We've already established that you destroying the ship I'm on is not saving me!"
  • "That is the most real, authentic, hysterical laugh of my entire life."
  • "Finger on throat means death!"
  • "They got my dick message."
  • "His people are completely literal. Metaphors go over his head."
  • "That dude there. I need his prosthetic leg. "
  • "God knows I don't need the rest of him. Look at him. He's useless."
  • "Well, supposedly, these bald bodies find you attractive, so maybe you could work out some sort of trade."
  • "That's for if things get really hardcore. Or if you wanna blow up moons."
  • "You just wanna suck the joy out of everything."
  • "Who put the sticks up their butts?"
  • "I am going to die surrounded by the biggest idiots in the galaxy."
  • "Fine, but I can't promise when all of this is over I'm not going to kill every last one of you jerks."
  • "See, this is exactly why none of you have any friends!"
  • "Oh she has no idea. If I had a blacklight, this would look like a Jackson Pollock painting."
  • "You got issues."
  • "He thinks I'm some stupid thing! He does!"
  • " I didn't ask to be torn apart and put back together over and over and turned into some little monster!"
  • "When I look around, you know what I see? Losers."
  • "You're an imbecile."
  • "I can't believe I got taken down by a raccoon."
  • "Raccoon? What's a raccoon?"
  • "Ain't no thing like me, except me!"
  • "We're just like Kevin Bacon."
  • "I live for the simple things... like how much this is going to hurt!"
  • "Dance-off, bro. Me and you."
  • "I like your knife, I'm keeping it."
  • "Oh, I was just kidding about the leg. I just need these two things."
  • "He said that he may be an... a-hole. But he's not, and I quote, 100% a dick".
  • "Well, I don't know if I believe anyone is 100% a dick."
  • "Let's see if you can laugh after five or six good shots in your freakin' face!"
  • "Creepy little beast!"
  • "I don't learn. One of my issues."
  • "Look at this thing. It thinks it's so cool. It's not cool to ask for help! Walk by yourself, you little gargoyle!"
  • "Hooked on a Feeling, Blue Swede! That song belongs to me!"
  • "Hold on a second, you're being serious right now?"
  • "I can't believe I'm taking orders from a hamster."
  • "You're a good looking girl. You should try to be more nice to people."

anonymous asked:

On the topic of appropriating hoodoo and voodoo, could you possibly list some other closed religions? Especially ones under the umbrella of witchcraft or paganism? I'm a beginner, still mostly just doing research and trying to get a feel and understanding for things, and I don't wanna step on any toes.

Here is a basic over view of open and closed religions. 

anonymous asked:

There r some kd hardcore shippers who think that kd isnt an actual thing and its only their fantasy. They also write "we support kxk" in their bio. I'm a kaisoo shipper and I think that JI and Ks are a couple but I don't understand those shippers. I mean... u ship bcs you think they are in love, right?

those are ‘casual’ shippers. kxk really fucked some of them over and they refuse to get over it. but also some people just like the IDEA of ji and ks being together; they think by saying 'i’m not pushing my fantasies’ on them, that it makes them a good person or reasonable shipper. because in this fandom, if you say you think ks and ji are dating, you’re automatic scum. this has nothing to do with 'fantasies’. you’ll never say ks and mixnah or irexne or whatever else girl he barely interacted with could be a 'fantasy’ of the shipper.

it’s just really hard for people to wrap their heads around the fact that 2 guy idols in one of the most popular kpop bands could be tgt. and ofc it don’t help that we have people who think all and ever ship ever is real. that’s not what i’m saying.

kds circumstances, imo, are very rare. there’s no other real ship in exko. chanbeak, xiu_chen, or whoever else is allowed to openly feel each other up on stage and do variety shows tgt. or like acknowledge the fact that they know each. or like sit by each other without the sitting arranging changing mid showcase. or like stand beside each other without members forcing themselves inbetween…

like i’m sorry. but i have been a kpop fan for almost a decade now and the rumors/things i’ve seen circulating about kd; i have neveeer seen before. hell, the media claimed ji injured himself on a skiing incident and the only person connected to skiing was ks who purchased equipment before the fact. it’s all these little things add up and ppl refuse to see because they can’t get pass “2 boy idols”.

supporting kxk or pretending to support kxk doesn’t make you special. the blind item literally described kd and then mentioned it was buried in the same month of kxk, it just funny to me. skeptical is cool; but that fucking blind? but anyway supporting every kpop confirmed rs makes you look good.

anyway, people can like kd in their fanfiction and not acknowledge they could be tgt in rl all they want to.

anonymous asked:

Hi do you have any tips for getting into yoga? I tried some beginner series but honestly I don't even think I'm flexible enough for that. I don't know if I should consider taking classes, I really wanted to do it from home

the notion that flexibility is an essential thing to have to begin a yoga practice is really connected to the (western) concept of yoga that emphasizes it as an exercise of the body & shadows over yoga as of the mind / spirit too. flexibility and other physical benefits will come, but when just beginning, it’s good to include a practice of patience, mindfulness, relaxation, etc. it’s challenging, especially when we feel our physical limitations, but this is where our practice deepens because we now begin to see our spirit and mind being illuminated back to us. 

if you feel you want to begin your practice with the help of being in a class setting, go for it! but it’s not a necessity. home practices can be just as enriching & enlightening. i think it’s good for beginners to begin with yin yoga; it’s paced very slowly and asanas are held deeply & for longer periods of time. from here, you can grow to extend your practice to hatha and work on flows / vinyāsa or any of the other 6 branches of yoga. this & this are good 30 day introductions to yoga specifically for beginners, but even i frequently go back to these videos and include them in my practice. 

some tips i have: 

  • breathing deeply through each asana helps and is a core technique in yoga to connect the body to the mind to the spirit. the breath is everything. breathe inwardly, being mindful of your tummy connecting to your spine
  • when feeling tense or not balanced, use movement. if you feel you’re not flexible enough, or you feel your body tiring or tensing, give yourself permission to flow through it 
  • bring the earth to you! yogis often say things like “touch the earth / ground into the earth” etc. but if you’re just beginning, it can be difficult to connect to the ground, especially if you’re in a standing pose. bringing the earth to you by using pillows, blocks, etc. to support you is a useful option 
  • bring awareness to your front body, back body, lower body, & upper body and their different energies. focus on energy & power of the lower body and bring it up through the feet and thighs, up to the upper body / back to help with balance or bring airy energy from the mind and lungs to the lower body to help with flow. there’s an upward current of softer, flowing energy through the front body, and a grounding energy through the back body! 

this is rly comprehensive but i hope it helps, & i hope that you pursue your practice with positive and calm energy! :-) 

How The Moon Signs Should Chill Tf Down
  • Aries: Chill with the raged passion - sometimes people have different perspectives, and whilst you're not wrong, becoming heated and aggressive isn't going to make you any more right
  • Taurus: Chill with the stubbornness - it's nice to let go of silly things because they just waste energy, no one is gonna judge you for being wrong, so don't waste energy trying to make something right if I can't be! 1 and 1 can't be 5!
  • Gemini: Chill with the chilling - I know you're just trying to get through things the best you can, but sometimes things get worse when you don't care enough, so go the extra mile to show your friend you're sorry instead of 'letting it all brush over'.
  • Cancer: Chill with the reasoning/bargaining - some things just happen, some people just leave, and sometimes people are to blame. But that doesn't mean you can make who is to blame (even if it's you) feel bad, and it also doesn't mean it can change. Let go and move onto happiness.
  • Leo: Chill with the pride - pride is great and we should all have pride because we're all awesome, but occasionally pride (in the sense of knowing you are right on perhaps a subject or matter) can get in the way of friendships or other things.
  • Virgo: Chill with the blaming - whether it's on you or someone else, some things don't need blame. Things just happen and we must find a way to cope, not put someone at fault. It'd be better for you and whoever involved to move on rather than look back and point fingers.
  • Libra: Chill with the worrying - I know it upsets you when people think wrong of you or think you did them wrong, but I promise this situation means nothing and is probably a big fuss over nothing. You don't have to feel guilty.
  • Scorpio: Chill with the meddling - you can get easily caught up in others lives and emotions, and whilst you make a great rock, it's not on you to support them constantly, especially if you may be doing more damaged. Withdraw and look after yourself.
  • Sagittarius: Chill with the achieving - this has to be the most productive and intelligent (not just academically) moon I know. You do so well and what you aim for and I want you to know you're allowed a break! Go relax, tiger!
  • Capricorn: Chill with the calculating - risks are there to be taken and I know sometimes that scares you, but I also know living your life in the caution zone won't make you happy. Try a risk you want to take and cling to it like you mean it!
  • Aquarius: Chill with the helping - I'm sure I'm not the only one to notice that actually Aquarius is one of the most friend-oriented and helpful moons, and whilst they can take time to themselves, they outta do it more! Take a chill day!
  • Pisces: Chill with the excusing - you have a habit to excuse others actions whether against you or not. You are allowed to feel wronged and not like someone if it's justified, so let your inner lion roar!
Don't Test Me

Murphy X Reader

Request? Yes:

Can you do some kind of mild Murphy x reader dom thing where hes kind of like “this is mine” and “this is mine” and really showcase just his overall Murphy attitude in it??? If you get me

It’s sweltering and your body aches with exhaustion. You spent the entire day scouting the area surrounding camp with Finn, hiking up hills, dragging yourself through water, and tripping over protruding roots. It’s a relief to be seated, fresh food in your stomach. When you finish eating, it’s all you can do not to pass out right there.

“Hungry much?” Murphy sits down beside you, glancing at the clean bones beside you. You groan and kick them off to the side, laying back on the ground. Your thighs scream at you with every movement.

“Not right now,” you mumble, lifting your arms to cover your face. You’re quite sure you can fall asleep just like this.

“What?” The word is sharp. It has a tone to it, almost challenging. Maybe you’re just hearing things.

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anonymous asked:

I wish dan had tweeted tomorrow then posted slightly later tomorrow instead of doing what he did. I just don't like the whole hype thing as people end up theorising what he going to do and a lot of the time it's not what people say so we just get "let down" because it's not what some expected. Then I feel bad for dan because of the backlash but some of it is due to his early tweeting so I'm ahhh and it goes on and on

you know, it’s incredibly rare for me to take dnp’s side over fans but it strikes me as being distinctly not dans responsibility to ensure that the “theorizing” his audience does is rational and based in the available facts, or to ensure that the audience remembers that short of any actual info a theory is just that–a theory. meaning it could be wrong. i feel like the only time in recent memory that a cycle of events like the one you described occurred was around the video he teased back in feb/march as being “a big deal” and “a long time coming” when ppl clung to those words rather than all of dans other ones–that it was also “cheeky” and cringey and a good one for people who like to laugh at his misfortunes and, crucially, one he decided not to go through with at that time. based on that partial info some people got hyped about it being a coming out vid or something else personally significant, instead of the rebrand video that he dropped plenty of hints about it being. to be fair it would be better if dan wasn’t so damn confusing in his communication style. it would have been better if he hadn’t had to bag that video after teasing it and that he didn’t decide to do isg 9 instead. but, again, he told us he bagged it and i don’t think anyone who actually listens to all of dans live shows was surprised or confused or “let down” by that! all of this to say that i don’t think dans early tweet about this bahamas vid should create any hype or give ppl a sense of entitlement to the content he makes to the extent that they would be legitimately let down or lash out at dan if the video isn’t what they want…. especially bc in this case we rly don’t have much info to go off of!!! there’s no significantly solid grounding for the “theories” about it, so if ppl are upset about being wrong i think that’s on them, not on dan or his tweet. i hope that makes sense?

things that frustrate me about 13 reasons why:

  • the fact that NO ONE UNDERSTANDS. 

you have no idea how many people i’ve talked to that go “but like, i don’t get why she did it. everything that happened to her was NORMAL. it’s things that everyone goes through” like YES. I KNOW. THAT’S THE FREAKING POINT. 

Hannah Baker was depressed. when you’re depressed, you get no enjoyment out of things that you like, and everything affects you negatively in one way or another. add to that the fact that everyone was literally HORRIBLE to her and didn’t even take a chance to get to know her. they just assumed she was one way because of what people said. they took advantage of her, and they screwed her over, and sure, maybe she screwed herself over too, but she didn’t want to live anymore. she already had this negative filter on life, and THAT is what depression does to you. these might be things that everyone goes through, but everyone goes through them differently. 

just because you went through ONE of the things that Hannah Baker went through and got over it like it was nothing doesn’t mean that everyone does. the things that you don’t find offensive, some other people might. and the things that don’t affect you, might affect someone else

  • what she says: i'm fine.
  • what she means: it's so scary how you never realize the things you just implicitly accept as normal. back when i was in middle school i was playing dragonfable and in one of the desert quests where you sneak somebody out of some ruins, the guy makes the joke 'why can't you just put me in your bag? if it can carry all of those weapons there has to be room for me in there.' your character just says 'don't be ridiculous,' and it was just a stupid fourth wall joke but it fucked with my head. i never once realized just how Weird it was to carry so many things. and it just never occurs to us, we just accept it as fact, as normal, and that's scary! how much of our daily lives are arbitrary or fucked up? it's been years and i still can't get over it...

There is something so unnerving about getting the daily kudos compilation email at this time of day.

anonymous asked:

no, no, I'm pretty sure the ages are confirmed. hunk just had his 17th birthday. and I allura was a teenager, all I mean was be careful. and while I agree it doesn't look like it would be abusive... would you date 25yo when you were 16? anyways, your response was nicer than it could've been, thanks for not like.. blowing up at me. I leave you alone now, tata


aaah ok. [happy bday hunk?! when did this happen and how did i miss it D:] 

lol yea like i said, i don’t think anything i ship personally is worth worrying over, but i also don’t really care what other ppl are shipping. i might not agree or like the ships, but i also just don’t really care lol. 

about the 25yo thing: like… to be fair i didn’t really know any 25 year olds when i was 16??? cos i didn’t have any reason to hang around them :’D so again i say i can’t really judge on that, since their situation is so different. i personally can’t get behind all the ships cos i don’t see the chemistry in all of them, but you gotta admit that their situation is completely different than ours, so putting our own standards and society norms seems kind of silly…

and yea, i’ll continue to think it’s a waste of energy to worry about it when it’s just ppl making fan content that has no bearing on the source material. even if you find a fic where shiro is like a sexual adonis making aggressive advances on the younger paladins/allura, i mean yea it’s like…ew… but also, obviously that’s completely ooc and not to be taken seriously anyway lol. [and really that should be your reaction if the characters are the same age too cos that kinda behaviour is never ok, regardless of age…]

anyway, sorry again about the long response xD [and for the record, the first one wasn’t so much directed at you as it was at the crazy behavior in the fandom so sorry if you felt i was aiming that at you haha]

anonymous asked:

Hi! Love your blog, super new to this shit. Is there a tag I can look up on your blog that explains this fake insiders trashing Zayn thing? I'm a Zayn fan (wish the other boys well but don't necessarily care about them or 1D) and new to Tumblr, and just finding out exactly how problematic some people claiming to be woke on this website are. Alternative facts exist here, like everywhere else and it's really saddening. Like isn't fandom of any sort supposed to bring you joy?

Hey nonnie. Thanks for the blog love. I didn’t dedicate a specific tag to that. It’s all in my fandom fuckery tag I think, which unfortunately, is over 2500 posts strong (damn fandom get it together).

In a nutshell, as far as I’m aware, it started on twitter and spread to tumblr. There was a fake insider that really was an insider, but was spreading alternative facts on purpose. Confused yet? Yeah, it was a mess. Basically a tiny “mistake” made by this person led to it being found out that they worked for Modest. They tweeted a relative from their fake account and of course, fans went digging and found their true identity. Their resume was still online.

Anyway, this person was using Harry and Louis as bait to draw Larries in. They’d tweet little things that turned out to be true, which gave them cred. But it was always little things. Like when Louis momentarily fucked off to Fiji while on tour…

…they posted pix of where Louis was before the pix of Louis in Fiji hit the fandom. So after reeling people in, the rumor mongering started. It wasn’t all about Zayn. They acknowledged Louis and Harry were in a relationship–they also added a heaping helping of drama. Lots of angst and lover’s spats. I assume they were trying to get people to become disillusioned with Larry. They also implied that Liam and Zayn were in an on/off non-monogamous relationship. Yep, some of those Larries who denied/ignored Ziam were told by their insider that they were hooking up. To be fair, a couple of Larries caught in this web did say on blog they thought their was “something” going on with Liam and Zayn. And that was probably because of the insider. But just a couple…

So once Fall 2014 rolled around, after over a year of grooming, the big Zayn rumors hit. In hindsight, this was staging for the coming Zayn leaving mega stunt. And because it was Larries that had been targeted from jump, it was Larries that ran with it. Remember, they had been piecemealed little inconsequential bits of truth to establish credibility. But still, given how terribly dysfunctional this fake insider portrayed Harry and Louis, they should have been suspicious. When I was told about all this, I was immediately suspicious. And I was shown screencaps of conversations that were hella confusing. But in the end, it wasn’t difficult to call bullshit. They should’ve called bullshit. Because the ultimate target of this con wasn’t even Zayn. It was Larries and their credibility. They’d guessed right about a lot of things, so that credibility needed to be impeached. And 1DHQ was successful in keeping Larries marginalized and looking “crazy”.

Because the Larries involved have still not come clean about this (some aren’t around anymore), the damage done by these fake rumors still impacts the fandom. Many people hate on Zayn based on all the on blog shade these Larries were throwing based on planted, fake rumors. Off blog, they were also aggressively pushing their inside information. So a lot of other fans do not have all the facts and don’t know they’re collateral damage in a long con. smh But fights broke out, mutuals broke up, partial receipts were released into the wild. Messy messy stuff.

P.S. Don’t ask me for details. I’m not getting back into ancient history. This is the one and only FYI.

anonymous asked:

Why does someone who simply wanted to do her job over a man a bad thing? Isn't that what people have been asking for in movie relationships? And I mean, even though she loved her job so much she still helped him in the end so I don't get all the hate for Tina. #MoreLove4Tina


I know what you mean - if she just followed after Newt like a guppy they’d complain that she’s “boring” or “a weak female character” like make your mind up.

Tina, I feel, has some of the best subtle development in FBAWTFT and I can’t wait to see how she continues to develop in the future movies!

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agoraphobic || luke hemmings


Your fingers tugged gently at the hem of your shirt.

Luke absolutely took notice.

His hand left the steering wheel and found its way to one of yours. He gently grabbed it, and held it, caressing his thumb across the back of it.

“It’s just for a little bit.” He reminds you.

“Luke… I really don’t want to.” You twist your free hand up into the sleeve of the jacket you’re wearing.

“Baby I promise.” He looks over at you.

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anonymous asked:

That list is trash. You are awesome and deserve all the good vibes. I really hate how some people spend time obsessing over these things and turn their heads when there are real problems just in front of their eyes. You are the best and don't let them get to you, we will protect you and you'll always have us. Stay positive and fuck those who try to say bad things about you. No one believes them, and if someone does, fuck them too. Love you sooo much ♡

that list is absolutely ridiculous, yes but ngl i’m happy it’s bringing people together a little bit tho :’D

AND THANK YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH!! I can’t stress enough how much I absolutely love you guys sj;ladkdfj 

(I’m gonna ramble for a bit here afsijf;fas I’M SORRY! You don’t need to read!!)

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anonymous asked:

So I'm writing my first one shot and I don't know how long to make it/what I'm really doing. Can you give me some advice??

length is sort of a funny thing with writing, and from personal experience, has always been an issue. Just remember this:

  • Length doesn’t equate to how well written something is. Just because something is long doesn’t mean that it is going to be better than something that is short. Quality over quantity is something to keep in mind. It’s okay to have a short oneshot. Don’t try to stretch it out by adding details that you don’t need. This can cause you to get off track and drag on things that don’t really need it, you know?
  • Writing something for the first time is always scary, and you’re going to worry about whether or not it’s going to be good. That’s okay. It’s okay. It’ll be okay. Practice makes for a better writer. I can assure you that the more you write, the more you’ll see yourself progress. Don’t beat yourself for not being strikingly amazing the first time.
  • Adding your own flare to writing is a perfectly okay thing to do. It’s always more satisfying to read something that has character and personality rather than something flat. Make your own writing style.
  • Using a thesaurus is actually really helpful. It’s helped me find words that are beautiful. Use carefully though because if you replace every word it could get a bit confusing. Here’s a list of synonyms for commonly used words: Here.
  • Stray away from using constants like “he said” “she said” “they said”. There are a lot of ways to express that someone is speaking. You can find some of these words here and here.
  • Don’t stress yourself out. You’re not writing for others, you’re doing it for yourself so it’s okay.
    • Don’t let people boss you around. “Where is my fic?” etc.
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