then you need to reevaluate yourself

If conservative Christians acted like irrational SJWs

“christmas is cultural appropriation of christians”

"saying christmas doesnt have to be religious is christian erasure”

“okay but???? saying ‘oh my god’ is rly offensive to christians????????? stop contributing to microagression”

“THERE NEEDS TO BE MORE RELIGIOUS DIVERSITY IN MEDIA”

“um sweetie, saying gays can’t be christians is super homophobic and you need to reevaluate yourself”

“catholics can’t eat meat on friday, nobody else should because it might offend them. it’s literally disrespecting their culture to do otherwise.”

“if you don’t 100% support my christian lifestyle you literally hate me because its part of who i am. you cant ‘disagree’ with christianity like that. either you fully support it or you’re christianophobic”

“christians were actively persecuted by islams for centuries?????its totally reasonable to fear all muslims. they enslaved my people. check your Atheist privilege and consider the validity of your thoughts on matters that you have no right to contribute to. christians can’t be racist to islams because islams were/are the religion that oppressed us. we can be PREJUDICE but not racist. #GetWoke”

"He/ She deserves to be noticed."

This he/ she deserves love from the other person that they crush or stalk on is bs. No one is obligated to notice you all because you like them. If they don’t share the same feelings then so what. It’s not the end of the world. Move on and find someone else who will notice you or has noticed you. If you act like that then you need to reevaluate yourself.

Go take your entitled ass self somewhere else and fuck off.

I might lose followers for this, but:
if you identify as a feminist and stick up for gender equality, and yet you hurl insults and vitriol at women who aren’t feminists/who don’t agree with you,
you’ve really gotta consider who you’re actually fighting for.
I’ve seen so many supposed feminists call anti-feminist women bitches and sluts and attack their looks. I’ve seen them threaten anti-feminist women and wish injustice upon them.
you’re perfectly within your rights to refute their arguments and engage in humane debate. but the second you insult someone’s appearance and threaten them or suicide bait them, you lose any credibility and respect you’ve gained from me. you’ve established yourself as a hypocrite and you need to reevaluate your motivations.
are you striving for actual equality or are you pushing conditional rights only for people who agree with you? because the latter isn’t justice. it’s fucking authoritarianism.

If you have trust issues with girls because of makeup, fake nails, false eyelashes, weaves/extensions, implants, push-up bras or filters, you really need to reevaluate your life and get over yourself.
Neko Atsume Divination: Psyche Spread

This is a brilliant idea that I’ve seen floating around. As far as I know, it’s been most elaborated on here by @twofriendlywitches. I’m not using their method or correspondences but credit to them and the others who came up with the idea. I thought I’d give it a try this evening. So here’s my spread for readings that deal with your psyche and relationships:

Headspace: Your headspace, general state of mind, etc.

Fishbowl: Dreams, Visions, Unconscious desires and motivations.

Cushion: Persona, how you express yourself.

Leaves: Things you need to reevaluate, things to let go of, decisions, change.

Fireplace: Emotions, Instincts, Intrapersonal relationships

Cafe: Social life, Interpersonal relationships

Marble Pad: Deities, spirits, entities

Dark Cube: Repressed personality, shadow self, internal obstacles

Example reading under the cut:

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Welcome to munku makes a callout post for a vile human being.
Not only is this user truscum, but they’re also extremely ableist, hypocritical, transphobic, violent and enbyphobic.
I’d highly suggest all of my followers block them, because as you can see they are beyond reason and like to use their status as a marginalised person to try and get their way, and as an excuse to be extremely harmful and oppressive.
Even if you don’t agree with my viewpoints, I just want to point out how their behaviour is beyond unacceptable and if you think harassment of somebody who’s just trying to shed positivity into a community that already faces turmoil is okay, you need to reevaluate yourself.
So here you go! This user, as evident in my pictures, is extremely ableist, and transphobic.

tbh if your femininity is so fragile that ONE male gem on your show is so disgusting to you that you will send death threats and suicide encouragment and general hate messages to artists who make male gemsonas or who ask for male gems to appear in the show, then you need to reevaluate yourself and figure out who the real issue is.

If you have anything to fucking say to me say it OFF ANONYMOUS and stop following me lol if you're one of those people who sit behind a screen hating yourself to the point of talking shit to other people, you need to reevaluate your life
Maybe it’s time to show less care to others. You give too much time, effort and affection to people around you that makes you forget that you need them too. And when the time they will leave you, there’s nothing left. Because you give everything. In the first place, you are a human. A fragile being. Life shouldn’t be always a give-and-give situation, sometimes you need to receive something in return to feel loved and important. To feel complete. Reevaluate yourself. Maybe they are taking you for granted because you are too generous and easy to fool around. Do not give everything to people, it’s great to share, yes, but keep a small room for yourself. There’s a thin line between being a stupid and selfish. Stand in the middle. Take care of yourself, too.
Mercury Retrograde Jan. 5th

Mercury is all about pushing us out of our comfort zones…

Have a strict routine? Mercury will shake it up

Have a fight with a loved one? Mercury is showing you something you need to see within yourself. 

Overworked and stressed, then suddenly sick/injuried? Mercury is telling you to slow down, see the bigger picture.

Electronics breaking? Time to unplug and go within

Random events showing up? Pushing you outside of that comfort zone

Mercury retrograde is a cleansing period, you may feel the urge to clean out a closet, go through old things, get rid of bad habits, release a relationship. 

Mercury is here to say:Slow down, Step back, Focus, Look around you, heal reevaluate, reinvent ourselves and Awaken the renewal of spirit. 

stop pretending you are just defending or protecting Louis/Harry/Danielle/Briana/Freddie and realize that you turned this into a personal vendetta against a group of innocent people that you don’t know and that you never met and that will never impact your life in any significant way and that there’s no reason to bully or attack these people because of a difference of opinions on a boyband that doesn’t need your protection and doesn’t know you exist

Blue Moon July 31st

The Moon of July is called the Hay Moon. This moon gives is a chance for you to reevaluate your life and take note of what you need to pay attention to. This is a perfect time to make plans for the future.

This moon falls on a Friday. A day ruled by Venus, the planet of love, this is a perfect day for romance. By performing a love centered moon spell on this day you increase your chances of it succeeding. It’s also a great day to make over yourself or your home.

The Blue Moon is a time of heightened connection with the divine. The veil is a little thinner therefore it is easier to speak with the universe.

Use this ritual set up to work with the Blue Moon on July 31st.

Preparations:

Take up the besom and walk widdershins around the circle sweeping from the center outward to cleanse the circle of negative energy. Recite this chant as you sweep from the center of the circle outwards:

 “Sweep out evil, sweep out ill, Where I do the Lady’s will. Besom, besom, Lady’s Broom, Sweep out darkness, sweep out doom.

Witch’s broom swift in flight, Cast out darkness, bring in light. Earth be hallow, air be pure, fire burn bright, as water cures.

A sacred bridge this site shall be, As I will, so mote it be.”

Altar and Tool Blessing:

Pick up the athame and draw an invoking pentagram in the air above the altar. Replace the athame and say this invocation:

“Blessed Be, Instruments of Light, 

Tools now of magick with power and might.”

Element and Space Blessing:

Hold your hand over the water and salt and pass your hand over the element 3 times to banish, and then hold your hand steady to bless. Visualize a sparkling light surrounding and infusing the element while reciting:

“Element of (Earth, Water),

 I cleanse and consecrate thee in the names of the Lord and Lady.

I bring their blessings upon you now. So mote it be.”

Pour the consecrated salt into the consecrated water. Light the red working candle, cleanse and consecrate the candle (fire) as done above while reciting:

“Element of (Fire),

I cleanse and consecrate thee in the names of the Lord and Lady.

I bring their blessings upon you now. So mote it be.”

Use the consecrated fire it to light the incense. Then cleanse and consecrate the smoke from the incense (air) as done above while reciting:

“Element of (Air), 

I cleanse and consecrate thee in the names of the Lord and Lady. 

I bring their blessings upon you now. So mote it be.”

Take the water/salt and go once deosil (clockwise) around the circle. While walking the circle disperse the elements using a sprig of herbs. Recite:

“Powers of Water and Earth this circle grace. Purify, cleanse, and bless this space.”

Take up the incense and go once deosil (clockwise) around the circle. While walking the circle disperse the elements using a fan or feathers. Recite:

“Powers of Fire and Air this circle grace. Purify, cleanse, and bless this space.”

Casting the Circle:

Face east. Hold your athame out at waist level. Walk deosil (clockwise) thrice around the circle perimeter charging it with this chant as you visualize the energy coming from your athame to create the circle. Recite one verse for each of the three circles:

“Maiden, cast your circle white, Weave a web of healing light.

Round and Round the Circle’s Cast, Joining Present, Future and Past”

“Mother, cast your circle red, Weave the strands of family threads.

This Sacred Space shall now be Bound, As I cast this Circle Round.”

“Old Crone, cast your circle black, Weave the wisdom that we lack.

Thrice is the Circle cast this Night/Day and now begins my Magick Rite/Way.”

Once the circle has been cast, salute in the following way:

Take up athame and point it to the sky, while saying, 

“As above…”

Then lower athame to point it at the ground, while saying, 

“So below.“

Calling the Quarters:

Starting in the East and moving deosil around to the North, light the corresponding elemental candle, and then invoke the quarter:

"Hail Mighty Ones of the Eastern Tower. Guard this circle with your power.

Powers of Air weave the round, Between the worlds the power bound.

Till I send it at the last, Guardians keep it strong and fast.”

“Hail Mighty Ones of the Southern Tower. Guard this circle with your power.

Powers of Fire weave the round, Between the worlds the power bound.

Till I send it at the last, Guardians keep it strong and fast.”

“Hail Mighty Ones of the Western Tower. Guard this circle with your power.

Powers of Water weave the round, Between the worlds the power bound.

Till I send it at the last, Guardians keep it strong and fast.”

“Hail Mighty Ones of the Northern Tower. Guard this circle with your power.

Powers of Earth weave the round, Between the worlds the power bound.

Till I send it at the last, Guardians keep it strong and fast.”

Invoking the God and the Goddess:

Light the gold God candle:

“I call to the God. Spark of the Spirit Eternal,

Lord of the Wild Hunt, Judge of Gods and Men.

Shining God of the Sun’s rays, Who walks with me through all my days,

Into my circle, I invoke you, To bless and guide all that I do.

Hail and welcome.”

Light the silver Goddess candle:

“I call to the Goddess. Beauty of the Green Earth,

White Moon among the Stars, Mysteries of the Waters.

Shimmering Goddess of the Moon’s light, Who guides me through the dark of night,

Into my circle, I invoke you. To bless and guide all that I do.

Hail and welcome.”

Libation and Opening Toast:

Pour some wine into the libation dish and say, 

“To the Lord and Lady!”

Fill the altar goblet with wine. Hold up the altar goblet and say, 

“I drink to the God and Goddess.“

Take a sip from the goblet, and say, 

"Blessed Be.”

Ritual and Spell Work

Insert optional ritual for sabbat or intended spell work here.

Cakes and Ales

Take up the plate with the cakes and say 

“May I never hunger." 

Take a bite, and then say, 

"Blessed Be.”

Take up the wine and say 

“May I never thirst.” 

Take a sip of the wine and and then say, 

“Blessed Be.”

Give thanks for one thing that you are thankful for, and request assistance for one thing that you are in need of.

Releasing the Quarters:

Starting in the North, and moving widdershins around the circle to the East, go to each quarter and say the following release then extinguish the elemental candle:

“To all those in the Northern sphere, I release you now, depart from here.

I give thanks to all of thee. Depart in peace, and blessed be.

"To all those in the Western sphere, I release you now, depart from here.

I give thanks to all of thee. Depart in peace, and blessed be.”

“To all those in the Southern sphere, I release you now, depart from here.

I give thanks to all of thee. Depart in peace, and blessed be.”

“To all those in the Eastern sphere, I release you now, depart from here.

I give thanks to all of thee. Depart in peace, and blessed be.”

Thanking the God and Goddess

I give thanks to the God for guarding my circle and joining my rite. Hail and farewell.”

Extinguish the gold candle.

“I give thanks to the Goddess for guarding my circle and joining my rite. Hail and farewell.“

Extinguish the silver candle.

Closing and Circle Salute

Take the Athame or Wand and retract the energy of the circle back into yourself moving widdershins beginning in the north around to the east using the following chant:

"Circle Round, now be Unbound as I make my way around.

I now Dissolve this Sacred Space and send all Powers back to place.

Circle Round, now be Unbound as I make my way around.

Stay if you can, Go if you must, with Perfect Love and Perfect Trust.

Circle Round, now be Unbound as I make my way around.

My Work is finished for the Night/Day and now I End my Magick Rite/Way.”

Once the circle is closed, say the following salute:

“The circle is open, but unbroken.”

1. Put more effort into handwriting
2. If you want something done, do it
3. Go to as many concerts as you can and dance like it’s your last night alive
4. Take in your surroundings, the simplest of things can be the most beautiful
5. Any “bad habits” you have, are not that bad. If they make you happy, do them
6. If you are stressed, take 3 deep breathes and reevaluate the situation
7. Be as confident in yourself as others think you are
8. If you don’t want to do something, but it needs to be done, just do it. Don’t make things harder for yourself
9. Some arguments aren’t meant to be won
10. There is no such thing as “too loud” when it comes to music volume
11. You are the only one who knows who you are. Don’t let anyone tell you who you’re meant to be
12. Finish whatever book you’re in the middle of right now
13. If you’re flying high, don’t let anyone bring you down
14. You don’t understand unless you’ve been through it
15. If you want to be good at something, practice. You’re not going to get anywhere by hoping you develop magical powers overnight
16. If you want to wear something, wear it
17. There are songs to match every situation going on in your life right now. GO FIND THEM
18. LIVE
—  2015 New Years Resolutions

legendarydragondefender  asked:

Honesty hr? My bff ran into her ex bf during her lunch break today. He's a manipulative fuck who raped her and she's still recovering. She was scared to leave work after. I'm in another fuckin country and hate that I can't be there to hug and protect her. She doesn't deserve this shit and it's just one more reason I want to go home. I feel like I've failed her...

Oh my god, sweetie that’s terrible. *hugs*

I wish I knew what to say. But none of that is ok. It makes me sad and angry that there are people who are like that in this world.

Words of advice: never force yourself onto your partner. Never. If they don’t want to do anything, then you must respect that. Relationships are built on love and respect, but if you can’t respect the fact that your partner isn’t in the mood, then you need to reevaluate why you’re in that relationship.