then 'you have won'

anonymous asked:

Are you a Gold Star lesbian? (Just in case you don't know what it means, a Gold Star lesbian is a lesbian that has never had sex with a guy and would never have any intentions of ever doing so)

Okay so first of all, hi. Gold Star Lesbian is term used to 1) invalidate Lesbians that have had previous sexual experiences w men 2) puts value on some lesbians over others 3) reinforces negative stereotypes regarding bisexuals and their intentions w women 4) can be hella transphobic

Second of all, I’m Bisexual! I’ve had sex w men, and if my girlfriend and I don’t work out I can’t promise you I won’t have sex with men. It’s part of my sexuality, and guess what! This may shock you but I’m still wlw, still queer, still important in the LGBT+ community, and still worth your respect. tyfyt

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You can’t freak out. In the past people have gone: ‘Oh my god, you’ve won an Oscar, your life’s changed!’ And it really hasn’t. The Oscar sits on a little side table in my flat in London and looks a bit unreal. It’s very shiny and surreal. The answer is: you just put one foot in front of the other and you hope that it goes alright.

If you are any kind of artist

From music, to cooking, to making videos, to drawing.

YOU ARE WORTH YOUR TIME AND MONEY.
(Honestly, this applies to everyone, but I’m talking to artists at the moment)

I know it’s hard. I know some won’t agree to your prices. Some of you have “normal” jobs on top of your art time, some of you managed to make it full time. Some of you are hobbyist, some of you do it for a living.

Whatever you do, please, you are worth your time and money. No matter how good or bad you think you are, someone out there will admire you work, and if they want a commission, charge appropriately for your time.

So many of us are made to believe that this is not a real job, that this isn’t a viable career. I can officially tell you, it is. Both as a freelancer, working for a company, and more. It’s tough, it’s not easy, and you have to do a lot of research, doing your own bills, putting the time in, teaching yourself schedules, even learning bits of retail and other skills. 

But, it is a job. People need your work. From inspiration, to personal projects, to large projects for gaming companies, buildings, even food and industrial work. We THRIVE off of the arts. Both for entertainment and for daily life uses. Just because a project is not NEEDED and ENTERTAINMENT doesn’t mean that it isn’t still very INSPIRATIONAL and USEFUL to people. Our mentalities can’t live without a break, and having things such as a doodle to full movies and such help ease our minds and inspire us.

KEEP DOING IT. KEEP GOING.
Even if it means you have to have a “normal” job while doing your art. However it is you want to achieve your goals, I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT. DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO.

Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
Work hard, feed off of the hate and push to be better than ever. Keep moving. Even if it’s slow, keep moving. The more you keep walking, crawling, running, whatever pace… you are still LEARNING. You are still ACHIEVING, you are still DOING.

I love you all.
Keep it real, fam. Keep the peace. Keep the love.

All of you are amazing, from “normal” jobs to “real” jobs, artists to lawyers and more, it doesn’t matter. YOU ARE LIVING. You are doing what YOU need to do. 

One last piece, if you dislike someone else’s prices, work, or what they do. I am sorry that you have so much hate in your heart to take it apart to try to break someone else down. But you know, you matter too, and they are doing what they need to do in their life, just as much as you are. If you do not agree to it, walk away. Spilling hate onto others only makes your own dreams become even less obtainable. Believe in yourselves, believe in others.

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Marluxia and Larxene now join the crew of ‘who I’ve gotten around to finally designing’. Once again I followed with the idea I wanted to keep elements of what their known for but - to mix it up a bit.  So in the AU, Marluxia actually has shorter hair, I still wanted to keep the flare of his hair however. And admittedly, you can maybe spy a flowery look about how the top of his hair flows ( How it looks like a flower. )

Larxene, on her behalf I did have some aid from all you guys, but the second choice won out and - so now her  little antennas curl forwards. Over all, I’m happy with both their designs.

Me: you’re free to have your own opinion I won’t criticize

Them: Jin isn’t the visual of bts

Me:

Wanted to watch a bit of the Oscars but parents made me turn off captioning because “it blocks the screen, use the FM if you want to watch”

FM only AMPLIFIES, and the red carpet premiere has tons of crowd noise, so it would only make the background noises LOUDER which won’t HELP.

Louder does NOT mean clearer. People who think that FM systems, high volume, and sticking microphones on everyone will make things easier for deaf don’t GET IT, I swear. You can amplify mumbling but guess what, IT’LL STILL JUST BE MUMBLING IF THE PERSON ISN’T SPEAKING CLEARLY. I could have you mumbling at TOP VOLUME and I won’t understand you. Or if there’s background noise, like a lot of it, like during a red carpet event, then NO AMOUNT OF AMPLIFICATION is going to help me separate between speaker and environmental noises.

Also captions don’t cover up the entire TV so I wish hearies would stop complaining that it is an eyesore. AND to stop telling me that reading captions is lazy because I can’t be bothered to use my ears. “You just want to read rather than work on listening comprehension” WELL I’M DEAF SO WHAT LEVEL LISTENING COMPREHENSION DO YOU THINK I *HAVE* FFS.

At least I still need to finish the last 8 episodes of Jyuohger along with the movies and those at least have subtitles so I’m going to enjoy my damn toku without struggling to figure out what was said since my folks won’t let me put the CC back on at all on the TV. Better to watch j-dramas since hearies would also be complaining if there are no subtitles on foreign language progams so for me I do enjoy watching things on my computer more than the TV since my family is ALWAYS griping if they catch the CC on (and they’ll turn it off every time they spot it so I keep having to turn them back on when I want to catch anything) 

Why do I keep having to fight for access?! It just irritates me when people turn accessibility into something that I’m just taking for granted like some special snowflake.  

anonymous asked:

i don't get people who say rupphire is problematic, especially in reference to Keystone Motel. i thought the point of it was that even after being together for a long time there will be conflicts, that you won't always understand each other and may have your feelings cloud your judgment, and have to keep working to make a relationship strong. at the end they explain their feelings and apologize to each other and make up? how do ppl see this as unhealthy (i mean we know why but)

I KNOW I NEVER GOT THAT EITHER. Keystone Motel was my least fave rupphire ep (far from terrible just didnt like how ruby’s anger was treated as a joke and sapphire said that forgiving pearl right away is the right thing) the episode portrayed them both in an understandable light and it annoys me how badly people wanna call it toxic or claim sapphire was abusive.

like come on! sapphire admitted to realizing she came off as cold and uncaring when she was just trying to push past this problem since she knew how it would turn  out in the end. ruby calls herself and idiot and tells sapphire she’s right to avoid upsetting her and sapphire responds by telling her not to talk to herself like that. like i dont get it. how can this be read as problematic or abusive.

I work at a credit union as a teller, and for some reason people think they can withdraw from their accounts without any sort of ID, and then get upset when I tell them that’s not allowed. I recently had a member want to withdraw 300+ from his account, but he had no ID. I told him I’d need to see valid government issued ID, and he immediately got very angry. He told me that he’s been a member for years and that he’d be closing his account to move elsewhere within the month. I told him there was still nothing I could do for him without ID, so he left saying “thanks for being completely unhelpful” wtf dude, it’s not my fault you have no ID, and good luck finding anywhere that won’t require you to have it to withdraw

for all of the people who have experienced trauma in their lives, i hope one day you get to have a conversation where you’re able to talk about your experience, completely supported and without judgment, with someone who has a concept of how badly you suffer as a result from said trauma. i hope you get to have a conversation with someone who won’t take offense to anything you say, and will try to understand your feelings, regardless of how weird and complex they are. i hope you get to have a conversation with someone who will listen despite it being uncomfortable or difficult for them to. i hope you get to have a conversation where you get to talk about some of the worst and weirdest shit you’ve experienced and you feel safe enough to keep going. and i hope when it’s all over, you feel catharsis on an overwhelming level. 

you deserve to be heard and to release those emotions. you deserve to feel supported during and after the fact. and i really hope you get that someday, if you haven’t yet. because you really deserve it.

anonymous asked:

vampire rohan is probably the only one of the bunch who would actually go out and hunt /people/, and he'd be like "this is for manga. i'm doing nothing wrong." and you've got everyone else like "DUDE, WHAT THE FUCK, THAT'S EXTREMELY WRONG," and he's just like "if you didn't want me to eat people you shouldn't have turned me into a vampire, jeez. won't stop tho"

he probably fuckin would too like “it’s for art??? calm down? this is just my nature now, and i’m embracing it”

anonymous asked:

How would US and UT Sans and Papyrus act of someone was flirting with their S/O

US Sans: He’d bounce up to his S/O and cock his head at the ‘flirter.’ Oh gezz, now this is a predicament! He’d tell the flirter that he’ll forgive him since he probably didn’t know you both were together! But next time he won’t have that excuse, now will he? (You’d have to let him know if the flirter was bothering you or not. If they weren’t, than he won’t really do much next time and let you handle it. But if they were & do so again…well..he’s your knight in shining armor, yes? *audible wink*)

US Papyrus: Pretty much reacts the same way as he would if someone was bothering or hitting on his brother; passive-aggressive intimidation. But if it’s obvious the flirter is making you uncomfortable or harassing you; protective Papy mode engages. Arm flung over your shoulders, he hunches over the flirter with a ‘lazily’ glowing eye; his voice stern & threatening.

UT Sans: Trusts you to fight your own battles when it’s a pathetic ‘play-boy’ person trying to get under your skin. (He’d shyly ask you later for reassurance that you didn’t actually have an interest in them or something..) He knows ya got street smarts, and is very brutally honest. If the flirter goes too far, than he’ll do what US Paps would. Afterwards, he’d give you some tips on how to make the flirter uncomfortable enough to just leave. You’d both then imitate them & laugh about it. 

UT Papyrus: To be honest, he probably wouldn’t do very much. He’s glad that someone else sees how great you are too! Not to say he’s not worried, but he’d expect you to talk to him if you had an issue in the relationship! If the flirter is bothering you, he’ll just act naive & ignore the person. Drag you away while keeping your attention to show the flirter that this is not how you get someone’s attention!

anonymous asked:

mtl to have a gf with a hourglass body, but with some little extra curvy (like a middle term, really nice ass, mini/medium breast, fine waist but some extra little fatness on inch)

A/N: I’m going to assume this is for BTS but please specifically say which group you want so I can write a proper MTL thank you~~~

Most

Suga

Rap Monster

V

Jhope

Jimin

Jungkook

Jin  

Least

Most

Yoongi has said in the past that the size, weight, or physical appearance doesn’t matter to him. So as long as you’re in good health and have a good personality he’d loved to date you.

Namjoon seems the most open-minded to dating a girl with an hourglass figure. I’m pretty sure he’s an ass type of guy and won’t mind you having medium sized breast. I honestly feel like if anything he probably cares more about who you are as a person than your figure.

Taehyung and Hoseok wouldn’t mind you have an hourglass body. They seem like the type to be happy with any shape. I think they are both more concerned with personality and only sees a good hourglass body as a perk of dating you.  

Jimin and Jungkook will probably prefer someone smaller. For Jimin he already feels small compared to the rest of the members so he’d probably go for someone on the more smaller side. And Jungkook I feel is used to the Korean girl stereotype, even he has been out of the country and seen how different everyone looks I think he would e comfortable dating a Korean.

Seokjin has said before how he would like someone to be smaller than him and again I think he’d be more likely to dating someone with a stereotypical thin Korean figure than an hourglass. Jin seems the most traditional type. 

Least

This is just my personal opinion. Hope you like it anon. please request more ~~

anonymous asked:

Can you write a headcanon about boys being jealous?

Yep! Here they are! I hope you enjoy them!


Valkyon:

  • Valkyon doesn’t really get jealous.
  • He’s quite confident in his relationship and trusts you explicitly.

  • When he does get jealous, it’s usually about something petty, like you cuddling with your familiar.

  • He doesn’t like these bouts of jealousy and tries to brush it offbut ends up being a bit clingy.

  •  He’s not dramatically so though, and will just hug and cuddle you a little more than usual.


Nevra:

  • Nevra gets jealous easily.
  • Like, really easily.
  • He knows you’re a great catch and doesn’t want someone trying to steal you from him.
  • When he’s jealous, he pouts a lot and sulks quietly beside you.
  • He recognises you have the right to do what you want and won’t act on his jealousy.
  • Unless he’s seriously pissed off, then he won’t hesitate to drag you away.
  • He always apologises afterwards though, and tries to make it up to you with kisses and cuddles.


Ezarel:

  • Ezarel doesn’t like feeling jealous at all.
  • Regardless of how often or not it happens, Ez despises the feeling of insecurity it brings and always leaves the room whenever he feels it.
  •  He’s always bad-tempered and sulky when he’s jealous and can remain that way hours after the initial jealousy has faded.
  • Because he doesn’t want to subject to his mood, he’ll avoid you for a while until he’s cheered up a bit.
  • Then he’ll hunt you down and drag you somewhere quiet so he can spend some much-needed time alone with you.

Hey -

I started writing this on December 16th but I wasn’t yet ready to share. I enjoy writing amateur scripts more than lengthy Tumblr posts but hopefully this’ll do. As some of you may have heard, Best Friends Whenever won’t be going any further. Even though we’ve known this for a couple of months now, it doesn’t make it hurt any less.

First off, HUGE thank you to Jed and Scott (our leaders/work dads) for a multitude of things. I’ve grown so much as an actor and even more as a person through them hiring my barely 14 year old self and trusting me to be a part of an ensemble with some of the most comically talented teenagers I know. They made it a routine to have “writer’s lunch” every Friday where we got to eat upstairs in the production office and get giddy about future storylines, something I’ve been told “kids” shows don’t do. And there were of course SO many other people behind and in front of that show who I adore, who without I wouldn’t be the person I am today, and who I’m sure will attend my wedding someday. 

This show was my high school, the best one a girl could dream of. And even though we’ll all move on to different projects, being able to say I grew up with people is something I’ll forever cherish.

I of course can’t give enough thank you’s to you guys for the constant love - truly. We grew a following from nothing which is very rare for a show with quirky teenagers and special effects to do. Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.

Whenever, whatever, wherever, I’m right there with you. xo, Landry