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Another bad night

Sadly, it seems like bad days are coming a bit more frequently than the good. But I am just having a really shit, sad day today.

Of course, it’s all dating related. But I just want to know when I’m going to find someone who loves me and wants to do cutesy things with me. I’m trying so hard to be happy for all my friends are getting married and having babies, or who have ridiculously supportive boyfriends to go and make signs for their races.

I’m just really sick of putting myself out there for absolutely no results. And I hate that the loneliness is making me a little bitter, and a little comparative in a way I used to never be. And, no matter what I get involved in or how full I make my life, none of it feels worth it.

anonymous asked:

Pampering?

Pampering with casual booty calls or one night stands, giving or receiving:
NO WAY | MEH | NOT BAD | MMM | YEAH BABY | FUCK YES RIGHT NOW

It just makes him feel uncomfortable or vaguely condescended to when he receives it, and he’s no good at giving it out.

With close friends/lovers, giving:
NO WAY | MEH | NOT BAD | MMM | YEAH BABY | FUCK YES RIGHT NOW

With close friends/lovers, receiving:
NO WAY | MEH | NOT BAD | MMM | YEAH BABY | FUCK YES RIGHT NOW

It depends on what kind of pampering, and it’ll be very hit-or-miss. Quietly giving (or getting) a bottle of vintage high grade will go over better than, say, being told to lay back and relax and get a full-body repainting and detailing session. But a shower where they polish each other’s backs is nice. He’s better at graciously receiving pampering than he is at competently giving it out, but he’ll do his awkward best to reciprocate.

Not so much a turn on as just a nice thing he’s occasionally okay with incorporating into interfacing. Or not into interfacing, if they’re close enough.

phuv replied to your post “[Txt] I have the good news and the bad news. [Txt] Bad news: I am…”

He should be happy. She told him he didn’t have to clean up her mess. Yet he still was wanting her to come over. She supposes its the least she can do since she ran off on him. [Txt:] Fine. I will be over shortly.

   [Text: Pinkie] Sweet! 

He is both happy and sad right now… happy and very relieved to not be the one that made her pregnant. It’s not his baby, it’s awesome news!! But… she is still with child, and… that’s gotta suck. Knowing her, she’s probably not too happy about this…

Move on, leave, run away, escape this place… but don’t forget about me, about us, about this town. Always remember where you come from so you can appreciate how far you’ve come.
—  c.j.n.
You claim to love her, inside and out, but the only time you call her beautiful is when it’s 3 in the morning and I’ve already turned you down.
—  girls tell each other everything, c.j.n.