the way she was treated really makes me angry

my mom is a person who is very very accepting of abnormality in a way that’s been a huge comfort my whole life; one thing that used to make my dad really angry was that she treated me like a Person rather than simply a Child and he thinks its Bad Parenting but honestly its the reason i feel so safe around her

WELL HERE’S MY UNBIASED HONEST OPINION WITH ME TRYING TO BE AS FAIR AS POSSIBLE:

tl;dr - yeah its was bad but i was let down that it wasnt like. rage inducing bad. the BD stuff still pissed me off but other than that. i was just indifferent to agitated. i couldnt tear it to shreds like i could with gem harvest

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Silent Treatment

“I honestly don’t understand why you are being so angry.” Claudio simply huffed and turned off the car and got out. The whole car ride was spent in complete silence. Chiara and Claudio had gone to a party earlier in the evening and ever since the end of it Claudio had not even spoken to her once. She had tried to make conversation with him but so far all of her efforts had been for naught. He simply refused to speak to her.

Chiara followed him out of the car and walked into the house. He had already taken his jacket off and the noise that was coming from upstairs allowed her to realize that he had already probably gone into the bedroom. She followed him up and walked into the master bedroom. He, however, was not in there. She check the bathroom to see if Claudio was in there. That search also bore no results. It was when she heard the shower turn on in one of the guest bedrooms, that she realized that he was in there. It was either him or some creepy intruder, and because they had a really good security system, she guessed that it was probably him.

Chiara was a firm believer that it was always a bad idea to go to bed mad at your significant other. Her mother had always managed to appease her dad before they went to bed if they every got in a fight and Chiara knew that she had to do the same with her husband. No matter how stubborn he could be at times, she knew that she could do it. They had gotten into arguments before and she had always done it, so she just hoped that it worked this time as well.

Chiara understood that communications was important in any marriage. It was important to be able to talk about when something was bothering the other person. She knew that something must have happened to piss off Claudio, even if she couldn’t think of anything in particular at the moment, and that the two of them needed to be able to talk about it in order to be able to work it out. Quite frankly, Chiara didn’t know if she could handle the silent treatment from her husband any longer. With those thoughts in mind to fuel her determination, Chiara walked to the guest bedroom, hopping that when she walked out, her husband would be by her side.

When Chiara walked into the guest bedroom, Claudio was still in the shower so she decided that she would simply wait for him to come out of the bathroom. Hopefully some of his anger would be washed away by shower. She took a seat on the queen sized bed that was in the center of the room and waited.

When he didn’t come out after ten minutes of waiting, she got tired of simply sitting in the bed. She took off of her heels and decided that laying down would be much better. Either way, she was not leaving until this problem was solved.

About another ten minutes passed before she finally heard the shower turn off. When Claudio stepped out of the shower, Chiara sat up and was about to begin speaking, when she stopped half way. Claudio had walked out of the shower with nothing but a towel around his waist. Chiara had seen her husband in less than simply a towel but even just this sight managed to take her breath away. Claudio simply stared at his wife. When he saw that she was about to make no move, he simply walked passed her and to the clothes that was set on the bed next to where her feet were.

As soon as he had begun moving, Chiara remembered why it was that she was in that room. She didn’t have time to be gawking at her husband. She needed to understand why he was so angry. Her tongue finally found the capability to begin working. “Will you please just tell me why you’re so angry?” Claudio simply begin putting his clothes on, completely ignoring his wife’s attempt to get him to talk to her.

“Was it something that I did?” The little tilt of his mouth when she suggested that proved that it was indeed something that I did. She tried to thin back to party. Maybe she had done something that had upset him. When she reflected on it, she couldn’t think of anything that could possibly be upsetting him.

“What did I do, I can’t understand why your upset unless you tell me what it was that I did wrong?” By this time, Claudio had finished putting on his clothes and had walked over to his side of the bed. He pushed back the cover and got into the bed laying down with his back facing her. It was at this moment that Claudio finally decided to speak. However, what he said had not been what she was expecting. “Shut the light on your way out." 

Chiara could feel the tears forming in her eyes. He was completely brushing her off.The two of them had gotten into fights before, but never had he brushed her off. She quickly blinked away her tears. "Y-yeah, sure.” Damn it, her voice had cracked. She got up from the bed and walked over to where the door was. She took one last look at where her husband lay, faced away from her, turned off the lights and headed back into the master bedroom for a sleepless night.

*****

Chiara had barely been able to sleep last night. She was not used to sleeping in her bed alone. The last two years of always sleeping with her husband by her side, locked in his arms, had spoiled her. The bed had simply felt too big to be sleeping in by herself. When she woke up, the first thing she did was check on her husband who was still asleep. He didn’t have training or any games today, so she knew that he would be at home.

When she saw that he was still asleep, she went downstairs in order to make breakfast for the two of them. She really hoped that maybe, they could work things out this morning. She didn’t enjoy this situation between the two of them that seemed to hang over the entire house like a shadow. It needed to end and because her husband was too stubborn to do it, it was up to her.

When Claudio walked down the stairs, she had been setting up the dining table, which was attached to the kitchen. She turned around to face him when he walked into the kitchen. “I made breakfast, go ahead and have a seat.” He ignored what she said and walked to the fridge and simply pulled out the milk. He walked to the cupboard and pulled out a bowl and his favorite cereal. 

This made her mad. First, he completely ignored her and second, he disregarded her effort to at least try to make thing better between them. Fine, if he wasn’t going to try to work things out between them, why should she? She picked up the dishes of the food that she had made and walked over to the trashcan. She dumped all of her hard work and walked the dishes over to the sink. When she got to the sink, she could feel the tears rolling down her cheeks. She didn’t even bother trying to wipe them away. He obviously didn’t care that he was hurting her.

When she finished washing the dishes, she turned around to face him. He had simply been staring at her the whole time. He seemed shocked to see the tears that had been running down her face. “When you get done with your food, wash the bowl. I can’t clean it up for you.” With those words, she walked out of the kitchen and back into the bedroom. She got back into bed and pulled the covers over her head, hoping too shut out the rest of the world with it.

Chiara didn’t realize when she had fallen asleep, but she was shaken awake by someone. When she fully opened her eyes, she saw that it was Claudio. She wanted to believe that he was there to provide some kind of explanation for his behavior if not an apology, but she didn’t want to get her hopes up. At first it was silent, she was waiting for him to speak and he looked like he was gathering his thoughts. When she couldn’t stand the silence anymore she finally decided to break it. “What are you doing here?" 

Claudio took a deep breath and finally opened his mouth to speak to her for the first time since last night. "I’m sorry.” She simply stared at him. After everything that happened since last night all he can say is that he’s sorry. “That’s it. You’re sorry. You’re not even going to try to explain what happened, why you were so angry. You are just going to say you’re sorry.” Chiara was about to get out of the bed when he grabbed her arm to stop her. 

“I’m sorry, I let the anger get the best of me. I shouldn’t have treated you like that. You did nothing to deserve it. There were these guys at the party that were saying these lewd things about you and the way that you were dressed. I took my anger out at you. I know that I shouldn’t have done that. I’m sorry.” Chiara sighed when she heard his explanation. So he had been angry about that. “You know something, you’re lucky that I love you so much. If anyone else were to treat me like that, I would have kicked them." 

You could see a smile forming on his face at soon as those words left your lips. He knew that he was forgiven. "Well then, I suppose it’s really good that you love me. I promise, I’ll make it all up to you. I’ll make you breakfast, seeing as how my foolishness caused you to throw out the breakfast you made.” He had just been about to walk away to go make the breakfast when you stopped him this time. “You can make me breakfast later, but for now, just kiss me, you big oaf.” He didn’t need to be told twice. He leaned down and placed his lips on yours, the argument between you two, long forgotten.

- I hope you like it :D

Misogyny in Doctor WHo

So, I’m sure all you bright young things have already worked this out, but a friend of mine just pointed out to me that if we’re really angry with Doctor Who for its misogyny, uncritical presentation of the Doctor as a colossal patriarch, creepy abusive relationship stuff with how he treats Clara etc., we can complain!

Here’s the link!  How amazing would it be if they got enough complaints that they actually had to change things?!

http://www.bbc.co.uk/complaints/complain-online/

I was like, why didn’t that occur to me?  She said, well, that’s patriarchy for you.  It makes you feel powerless.  It was becausegoodheroesdeservekidneys, by the way.

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Fifth Harmony
What actually happened in Brasília.

I’m so glad that Dalia decided to do this defending herself and telling the truth.
I was staying at the same hotel, and i saw when she came downstairs and told the other fans to be VERY careful around the girls and the “security team” because they were being really rude and aggressive, she was so scared, all she wanted to do was to deliver a letter.
The way she was treated at the concert… makes me so angry and upset, i really hope the girls had nothing to do with that.
I can’t believe they are defending their security team when we have videos and pictures to proof.
And the fact that they mentioned “the shooting”
is so messed up, we are passionate, yes… but we are not crazy. We are not the country selling guns so freely, that’s U.S.A. Recent events? This is happening for so long… Christina Grimmie, John Lennon, Selena… and others, so I don’t know what changed now, it wasn’t like this in 2014.

So now is “5 of us versus the hundreds of you” hu?
We are not against you… but i think now we are just disappointed.

Sorry guys, my english is terrible, but i hope you can understand.

"I miss..." Calum Hood Imagine

Summary: You can Calum broke up, and he’s heartbroken. One day Ashton can’t handle his crying anymore and goes into Calum’s room, only for Calum to tell Ash everything he misses about you. 

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He sighed as he wiped another tear off his cheek. He had been crying almost none stop for days now. He couldn’t get you out of his head. All the things you did that seemed like nothing, seemed like everything now. The boys were worried about him, but they didn’t know what to do to help him. One day, Ashton had had enough of his crying. He could literally hear Calum’s heart breaking all over again every time he started crying. Slowly, he walked into Calum’s room and stood in the doorway. Calum was sitting with a picture of the two of you, tears streaming down his cheeks like a river. 

“You have to move on, Cal. You can’t keep breaking like this. I know it hurts mate, but come on. At least come out of your room a little.” Ashton said, trying to cheer his best friend up. Calum sniffled and shook his head. His mind was a mess, and you were the reason. 

“I-I-I ca..Can’t, Ash.” He sniffled. “She’s.." Sniffle "She’s all." Sniffle "All I think about." Sniffle. A new round of tears fell from those beautiful brown eyes of his. Ashton stepped into the room and closed the door behind him slowly. He walked towards Calum with soft steps and sat down next to him. He took a look at the picture Calum was sitting with and sighed. Calum was really torturing himself. 

"You have too mate. I can literally hear your heart breaking every time you think of her. She’s gone, Cal. I’m sorry, but she is.” Ashton said, rubbing his friend’s back. Calum broke down once again. His eyes clenching shut as he held onto the picture even harder. 

“I miss her Ash. Everything she did.. All those small things that seemed like nothing back then… All the small things she did, it’s driving me insane.. I miss how she would smile at me when I told a bad joke… How she would.. How she would run her hands down my back when I was sad…I miss coming home from the studio, just to see her sprawled out on the couch, her book lying on the ground and her body covered in blankets.. I miss coming home, being pissed, feeling like shit, and feeling like nothing makes sense, just to see her standing in the kitchen making tea in one of my t-shirts and a pair of shorts… Fuck, I even miss watching her brush her damn hair! The way she treated it ever so gently.. How she would run the brush through it a million times, just to make it soft and silky, just for me to come up behind her and mess it all up. She always got so angry when I did it. But never for a long. She never was good at staying mad at me.. I loved that about her. Ashton, I miss her.. I really do. I never knew that missing someone could hurt this much.. It’s like… Like every time I think of her, my chest cramps and my heart starts beating faster.. She was my angel… How could I let her go? Huh? Ashton how could I let her go like that? Why didn’t I fight for her? Told her that I loved her? That I will always love her… Why didn’t I fight harder? Why didn’t I tell her that she was the one for me, no matter what she thought. I miss I would have grabbed her. Kissed her like never before, just to get her to shut up.. But no.. I just watched as she wiped away a tear and walked out of the door, slamming it shut in my face… It’s my fault.. Ashton it’s all my fault… God I miss her so much.” Calum cried into the chest of one of his best friends. The thought of you broke him. All the small things you did, the things he was never going to see again… Ashton couldn’t do anything but hold onto his friend, watching him drowning in the memories of the time he got to spend with such an amazing girl like you. 

“I miss you Y/N…" He whispered, as his heart broke all over again.

At this point I just really hope the rumors are true and Holland left the show cause she deserves way better than this shit. She gets treated like a second class citizen and this makes me even more angry than the lack of stydia. So, yeah if Lydia dies next week I will be very sad but fucking happy and relieved at the same time cause then I won’t have a reason left to watch this stupid ass show anymore. And I will be free of heartbreak,sadness and anger. Because that’s all I’ve been feeling lately while watching the Teen Stalia show.