the things i do for this man lol

to Have and to Hold.

For @rudeboywonho - the friend that bombards me with way too much Park Jimin (and not enough Mark Tuan tbh) and started the whole #momin mess that haunts me to this day. She’s a Devil Woman but man do I love her. Happy birthday sisterwife, from Sehun and I.

Pairing: Oh Sehun x Reader
Genre: Fluff & Angst (I guess? Lol.)

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anonymous asked:

Just found your blog through your last answer...I agree on the hypocrisy but idk isn't getting mad at a gf for possibly being with someone else during a separation a very "man" thing to do? I think we can all agree Han's a red-blooded male and it makes sense he'd be jealous (he was jealous of Luke in the OT). as for mara, I just always assumed that she was so closely guarded due to being a spy for the Empire that she wasn't interested in romantic/sexual relationships with anyone before Luke.

Hey, thanks for the ask (my first one!) Since I only have like 5 posts I am amazed anyone cares what I have to say lol but here goes.

I am still trying to navigate Tumblr so I hope this posts correctly..*crosses fingers*

Okay, so the first part of your statement “a man thing to do”, I don’t really think that makes it acceptable or okay? That reminds of the “boys will be boys” mantra where in the 1950s it was considered “a man thing” for male bosses to sexually harass their secretaries. It doesn’t mean it’s an okay thing to do.

Second, yeah Han is a red blooded male, but the Han I ship with Leia would NOT be a giant hypocrite and sexist douche who would get mad at his girlfriend because during their TEN YEAR BREAK she might have dated someone else. They were BROKEN UP she had absolutely no obligation to be “faithful” to him. During their break up, he had several girlfriends (Xaverri, Salla, Jessa) and a bunch of other women he slept with, so yes it makes him a major sexist hypocrite to be mad at Bria because she might have dated someone else during this time. And that jealousy and possessiveness which Hollywood often portrays as proof someone really loves you, is actually VERY unattractive a MAJOR red flag to get the hell out. Sure, Han might be upset privately and fume, but the Han I think is a deserving partner of Leia would never lash out like that to his girlfriend’s face. Also, let’s not forget that he uses incredibly problematic slut shaming language like streetwalker to Bria?

Also problematic is Bria’s cowering and snivelling at Han’s accusation that “oh no, nothing happened’ and apologizing - she has nothing to apologize for! They were over and done with at the time - again, this goes to the problematic double standard that for her to prove she only loved Han she had to remain celibate their entire separation, while even though Han was written to have loved her just as much, he wasn’t expected to be celibate.

Okay, onto Mara - look, if they had given her a backstory that she never had sex or a relationship before Luke because that’s how she was, that’s fine. Whatever, lots of people don’t have sex or relationships until they’re in their 40s.

But that wasn’t her backstory. They gave her a romantic relationship with Lando. And at the time since she wasn’t paired with Luke, their two personalities kind of made sense that they’d end up attracted to each other! But then TPTB decided that Luke and Mara would get together, and then it was decided her relationship with Lando had to be retconned so that they were NEVER together romantically and it was all an undercover ruse to fool people, because somehow by being with Lando, this would cheapen or taint her relationship with Luke. And THAT’S what was ridiculous and again a double standard, because Luke by that point had had relationships with Callista, Akanah, Shira Brie, and various others that were NOT retconned. So again, the idea was that it was A-Okay for Luke to not be a virgin and have had romantic relationships before Mara, but for Mara’s relationship with Luke to be “special” she couldn’t have been with anyone before. 

Also, random note but I never saw Mara as a virgin even if she hadn’t been with Lando. “Guarded” doesn’t mean she has no interest in sex. Han is “guarded” too before ANH and no one thinks he was a virgin in ANH.

Anyway, look I get that a lot of this was written in the 1990s which although not long ago were not GREAT for gender dynamics (it was only in 1992 that we stopped being able to cross-examine rape victims on sexual history FFS). However, that doesn’t mean I don’t think we should be allowed to examine and criticize them, or applaud that some of the new EU like PLOA going against what the EU has traditionally done is a nice change.

one of the greatest things that happened in the 3rd book of PJO was that you get this scene right, the scene where the villain (Luke) is weakened and one of the heroes (Thalia) has him cornered, and this is when the villain is like “ha… you will never do it…. you dont have the.. guts!!” and you think, oh man she’s gonna give up, and he’s going to kill her. But then,, THEN.. Thalia is basically like “lol… bye Luke” and fucking kicks him in the chest and he falls off a cliff………… honestly…. iconic

Bird Emoji Review

My dude @zaplayden​ and I couldn’t find a review of the Bird emoji so let’s do this

Pure evil.  Excessive gradients only intensify his evil intentions. There is no sweetness in this child of darkness. 0/5

This is a pure, sweet boy. Absolutely perfect bird child. 5/5

Ancient bird friend of legend. A little stiff and out of touch, but a very reliable friend.  4/5 I would trust this fellow. 

A lumpy bean friend. Kinda smells funny. Vacant stare. He’s a good boy, but needs some vacation time.  3/5

Pure intentions, but this boy looks confused. Where is he? Let him go home. Also kind of looks like he’s made of marshmallows??? 4/5 

Imposter. 0/5  This is a blue fire with yellow lipstick. Stop this. He’s smug about about it too, wtf.

I have high hopes for his future. He is a good boy with good intentions. I would trust this young man. 5/5

A clumsy boy. Something is a little weird about this bird, but he still tries his best. A good friend. 4/5

An eager boy. He wants to fly but needs more practice. I support his dreams and I hope he achieves great things. 4/5

Paranoid fellow. Blames everyone else for his bullshit. Will never find love. 0/5

Eager to impress.  Might be a double agent. A handsome boy, but I do not trust him. 3/5 

The world does not deserve this kind of purity. 5/5  

this morning i was thinking about the way, men, tend to play videogames, open world ones like tes are a good example. rather than existing in the world, they see the world as theirs. its for them, it at their whim

when men talk about killing npcs indiscriminately, because they annoyed them or literally just because. taking stuff from the world with reckless abandon. i literally felt bad for mining stalhrim because of its historic and cultural importance and stopped, lol.  joking about soultrapping vivec/almalexia in morrowind just because of the enchanting value of their souls. taking all the shit you want from a pretty place or someones house or something and leaving it empty. but most especially the killing npcs thing because of the Man Dude shit skyrim in particular attracted (not that it wasnt there before) because every time i hear a man talking about skyrim he mentions some character(s) he killed and im like…why? they didnt do anything? or like killing them just because they saw you steal or something…fucked up

Mana, Neah, Tyki & Allen theory

“By your side, he has forgotten love.”

A quote from combining the backs of vol 24 & 25. 

This is full of spoilers, including excerpts that we’ve seen floating around from the new fanbook, Gray Record, which you can order off of amazon.jp here

I wrote this out first on twitter here, but figured it might be cool to share here too. What similarities and parallels do Mana, Neah, Tyki and Allen share?

Specifically, in that Tyki is much more similar to Mana, and Allen to Neah, and parallels between them.

I’ve been thinking about the post Aymi (@dgmhallow) made, here, about both the Earl and Crown Clown suits acting as separate entities from their…. accomadators.


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Scaredy cat or in which I run straight into certain death because oops only lvl 4 w/ Celica eeyyy


Edit: I survived 

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                                    Glory to Mankind.

My hand slipped—-but it was torn with what it wanted so it did two designs for him. NieR Automata has taken over my life and I weep for this game. I just had too design a thing for Prompto, but I definitely had a hard time trying to come up with something for his YorHa outfit more than the Resistance one! I like both though, y’all gotta stop me from creating AU’s for this man. It’s not healthy LOL 

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Strange is our situation here on Earth. Each of us comes for a short visit, not knowing why, yet sometimes seeming to divine a purpose. From the standpoint of daily life, however, there is one thing we do know: that man is here for the sake of other men - above all for those upon whose smiles and well-being our own happiness depends.

The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and science.

Happy 138th birthday to Albert Einstein, one of the brilliant fathers of modern physics and the founder of physical cosmology and relativity. 

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Zayn’s acceptance speech video for winning The Most Stylish Man award at the 2017 GQ Men Of The Year Awards - 09/08 x

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kollektivet!

after months of trying to make sense out of this damn apartment i finally sat down and did the math (or like. i didn’t do math at all, which is why the proportions are all wrong. sorry about that lol). i think this is pretty accurate? possibly? man i’ve looked at every single angle i can find of all these rooms now and this is like. the only way for the whole thing to make sense? i think?

the only thing i can’t map out is where the door ins ep7 is (where isak opens the door for even and they make out). i have two guesses, which is why there are these vague (front door?) things in blue. lmao. i’m pretty sure where the blue door where the boys leave is tho (the one that just says front door). 

but! let me know if you can find any mistakes or have any new thoughts!!