the supermale

Submission: As a queer, nonbinary person and an animal educator, I’ve thought a lot about the issues recently being discussed on this blog and I wanted to share some of that here. I’ve tried to be as calm and clear as possible, but this is an emotional issue for me so it might be a bit emphatic.

Serveral people in this discussion have mentioned already the problems with questioning the existence of bi/pan/trans/ace/aro animals, but not questioning the existance of straight, cis animals. You’ve made passing mentions to this, but I think it’s actually really important to step back and reframe the entire discussion in this context, if you want to be fair and accurate both to the animals and to the people emotionally affected by this issue.

In particular, this passage: “However, the animal science world uses gendered pronouns to denote physical sex in an animal, because that is how efficient and accurate communication about the animal is ensured” raises some massive red flags for me. Yes, it’s important to clearly communicate with your vet about the body parts an animal does and doesn’t have, for ease of treatment. However, pronouns are far from the only way to do this, and definitely not the most efficient. The pronoun “she” doesn’t tell you if a dog is unaltered, spayed, in heat, pregnant, or menopausal - information your vet definitely needs to know.
It’s the work of half a moment to state “my dog is a spayed female” at the start of an appointment, regardless of what pronouns you use after that. In fact, many trans* people have already learned to talk with their doctors in specific terms about their hormone levels and organs they do or don’t have, and cis people need to catch up. Part of the reason this is such an emotional issue for trans people is that the argument, “your doctor needs to know the gender you were assigned at birth! Therefore everyone you meet needs to know, and it should be on your ID, in case you get in an accident and we have to tell the doctor!” is often invoked. (I wish that was an exaggeration. It’s not. This is in spite of the fact that, as a trans* person, knowing the gender you were assigned at birth is more likely to lead to false assumptions about your health and biology than true ones.) So yes, your doctor needs to know about your biology and your vet needs to know about your pet’s, but gender pronouns really aren’t the way to do it.

Outside the vet’s office, insisting on cisgender-equivalent pronouns for your pet leads to a world of problems. I volunteer at an animal shelter, and I see people misinterpret animal’s actions through their percieved, anthropomorphic gender roles constantly. They’re more eager to read aggression from a male animal and affection from a female, which has the potential to lead to massive problems, since both of those behaviors can be dangerous to misinterpret. I would personally argue for the stance that people would be more able to accurately interpret the behavior of animals if we refered to all non-human animals with gender-neutral pronouns, to more accurately reflect the fact that animals do not have gender. Even in social animals that do have sex-differentied social roles, those are completely different from human gender roles and should not be confused with them by the use of human gendered pronouns. If the biological sex of an animal matters in a particular context, you can mention it in that context, rather than applying it all the time as though it was part of their identity.

I do understand that some people find it reassuring to observe that the social roles of biologically male or female animals are different from those of humans, and that they too can be as nurturing as a male penguin or as fierce as a female hyena. So I understand that sometimes people will want to refer to those animals as male or female, in the same way that I want to refer to a cuttlefish as genderfluid because it makes me feel happy and validated. I just want cis people to understand that those interpretations are exactly equivalent.

As for how this perspective affects the emotions of humans impacted by this issue: claiming that gendered pronouns are a form of scientific terminology that accurately reflects the biological sex of an animal is, intentionally or not, supporting the idea that there are biologically and scientifically two genders. It gives fuel to people who try to force that mindset onto humans, and believe me, they use it. I’ve met many people who become enraged if I use the wrong pronouns for their dog, but refuse to respect my identity and pronouns. The attatchment of gendered pronouns to biological sex in non-humans is absolutely reflected back into humans by most of the public, whether that is your intention as an educator or not.

Using gender pronouns as scientific terminology also muddies issues significantly as soon as you leave the field of mammals, where it quickly becomes clear that a male/female dichotomy is far from absolute. Do I use female pronouns for the hermaphroditic flatworm who lost the penis-fencing match and is now carrying eggs? Will those pronouns still apply after the eggs have hatched? What if they win the penis-fencing match next time and contribute sperm instead?
How about a worker bee, who is genetically female but has not developed reproductive organs and plays no reproductive role?
Do I use male pronouns for a fish who was born genetically male, but isn’t able to engage in sexual behavior and fulfill the male sexual role until mating is initiated by the supermale? How about for the supermale, who is genetically female and used to be reproductively female but has since morphed to be reproductively male due to being the largest fish in the school? Is it even accurate to say “genetically female” of a species where both major reproductive roles are carried out by the same genetic category of animals, and those born “biologically” male only reproduce at all by swimming into the middle of the mating dance, ejaculating, and hoping for the best?

A similar issue exists with the assumption that animals are straight. I’ve seen some cringe-worthy anthropomorphization of male/female pairs of animals, including calling them “married,” referring to them as being “in love,” and a lot of analogies to human married-couple behavior, but I’ve never seen this criticized or significantly discussed as an issue of anthropomorphization. But every time I see a post about lesbian birds or trans fish, this issue comes up. I don’t think that animal educators are doing this on purpose, but I do think it is an indicator that many animal educators have not sufficiently deeply challenged the cultural narrative that straight and cis are “normal” but queer and trans* are “debatable” and should be challenged and argued about. 

Science is an ever-changing field, and scientific terminology becomes outdated and is changed as we realize that it reflects our social assumptions more accurately than in reflects reality. The terms we use to discuss sex, gender, pair-bonding, and mating behavior are all deeply intertwined with human social assumptions of cisgender, heterosexual, monogamous life-time bonds that are simultaneously romantic/affectionate and sexual in nature. Scientific communication would be improved by dropping those assumptions and the terminology that comes with them.

I don’t think I have much to add to this - it’s really well thought out and well said - so I’m going to boost it as is as part of the continued discussion. 

Scientific communication would absolutely be improved by changing the terminology to something more accurate. I don’t know if it’s something that would currently be feasible - because of a myriad of things that make attempting that type of change across so many cultures and languages and historical/social contexts difficult - but I definitely support the idea. 

When the god and goddess wish to unite, they bring with them, each from his own side, the one toward the other, the world they inhabit. Men and women think they choose each other… as though the earth should boast of revolving on purpose!
It is this passive inevitability, as of a falling stone, which men and women call love.
—  The Supermale - Alfred Jarry
  • alex jones clips: the government is putting pedophile mimes on the moon to turn your children gay
  • me: haha that's funny i wanna hear him say more stuff like that :D *clicks on one alex jones video*
  • any of alex jones's videos: *just an hour and thirty minutes about how muslims and refugees are the scum of the earth and are responsible for every bad thing happening to everybody on the planet interspersed with ads for supermale vitality*
  • me: :(

Dan 17 Agustus hanya menjadi sebuah perayaan basi atas suatu hal yang katamu merdeka itu, mencapai puncak-puncak gunung dengan atribut merah putih, menuliskan kekaguman atas tanah air, tentu lengkap dengan bumbu-bumbu kalimat ultra nasionalis yang tak ada tandingannya.

Lalu ketika kau melihat anak kecil meringkuk lemas di bawah baliho diskon besar-besaran supermall, MCD, KFC dan segala macamnya, anak-anak papua dibantai karena bersuara lantang, dan segala tragedi kemanusiaan atas nama nasionalisme, kalian lebih memilih diam. Tak mau tahu.

Lalu begitu yang kalian ajarkan apa itu nasionalis?

Bedebah kalian.

I’m gonna make a comic about demon Tord taking the gang to hell except it looks like a giant supermall and Tord keeps getting beat up when he makes eye contact with literally any other demon and the gang’s like “This was a bad idea” and Tord’s like “R u kidding these demons haven’t treated me this nicely in centuries wow this is such a good place cmon there’s this shop I know where you can buy taxidermied extinct animals” and basically it’s just this crazy vacation full of blood and the screams of the tortured and Tord is like “there’s fuckin no place like home”
And every demon speaks Norwegian since there actually is a place called Hell in Norway

I found an interesting thing about myself today...

All I need to fall in love with a guy is him to stand above me and tell me he’s the supermale.

Well, I will explain :D. I was in the theatre to see a play called ‘The Supermale Jarry’ inspired by Alfred Jarry. It was awesome! And we sat in the first row. I am always scared to sit there because of the 'audience participation’. Well they didn’t do it here, but they still have some level of interaction with the first row. And so towards the end, after a pretty…ehm…somehow hot scene the actor who played the main role - Alfred Jarry, came to me, stared at me and told me he was the supermale. I couldn’t look at him, just a little bit, I was too scared and I must have blushed a lot :D (I know it’s part of the play, but nevertheless). I just regret I am always so scared, because the guy was rather cute :D. Just to enjoy the moment… :D. Ah, I am pathetic :D.