the shippers would get it

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♫ step out of the shadows and (back) into my life ♫

Still friends?

… yeah.

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So me and @astarisms were talking about screencap redraws and because of this wonderful chat we are now on a mission

If antis ever start to get to you, remember this.

If shippers disappeared, antis would have no cause, no community. They have nothing left to fight for, nothing else to feel morally superior about, nowhere to go from there. Sure, they still have their fandoms, but some of the spark in the fandoms would be lost without some of the most passionate members.

If antis disappeared, us shippers still have a community full of brilliant writers, talented artists, and people who are really passionate about their fandoms. We would still be around to support each other, because we are a community, unconditionally. We don’t exclude someone for having the wrong pairing between fictional characters.

Without us, they’re nothing. Without them, we’re happy. We’re stronger than them.

okay but i want a fic where the enterprise is like on the outskirts of federation space and they pick up survivors of a half-wrecked cardassian freighter and one of the refugees is sybok who totally knew the attack was coming and low key orchestrated it but thats another story because when he gets beamed aboard he and spock have a reunion and it’s very logical and all but kirk is like holy shit spock you have a brother??? why did i not know?? and spock is like you never asked and sybok takes one look at the two of them interacting and realizes how bad his baby brother has it for his captain and says wow spock way to introduce me to your t’hy’la and spock BUGS OUT and gets all flustered and kirk has never seen him act like that before and is like wait what does that mean and spock won’t tell him and practically runs away and sybok is too busy laughing and getting debriefed, and then for the rest of the mission spock won’t look at kirk and he starts to wonder what that word actually means so he keeps trying to work it out of sybok or uhura but they won’t tell him and spock avoids him like the plague, and kirk starts to get dejected because maybe he’s done something wrong, somehow offended spock or something, and sybok realizes that the human is stupid in love too, and bribes scotty to lock them in the turbolift or a supply closet or something because they’re both just idiots and they need to make out and of course scotty does it because its been painfully obvious to everyone on the ship for months that the captain and first officer are SO IN LOVE, LIKE GO FUCK ALREADY JESUS 

and then they do. in the turbolift. 

Shipping (shown with ships)

Everyone has that one ship that is old, but it still has a special place in your heart because it was your first otp. 

Then there are your small ships, that aren’t your main otp, but none the less you still have time to admire it.

Now everybody has the main ship, their otp for life, that if a person trashed talked it the shipper would get really angry/offended because it’s their otp, and you can’t just insult one’s otp. That’s breaking the code, my friend.

And finally, there’s that one ship where you and your friends just love, and everyone just jumps aboard it. Except for that one person.

The Serpents are totally gonna be the biggest Bughead shippers

Honestly, how can anyone think that the Serpents would get in between/force apart Bughead?

Like, helloo??? The son of FP Jones and the daughter of Alice Cooper, two extremely hot senior serpents, getting it on. Serpent babies making more serpent babies, what more could you ask for? How can they not ship that?!

Not to mention, it’ll be a symbolic FUCK YOU to Riverdale’s “upper” society if their resident Golden Girl turns out to be a secret serpent daughter whose currently bumping uglies with the Riverdale HERO you just ostracized???!!!

  • Sehun: Oh, no. You're getting an idea, aren't you?
  • Yixing: Yeah.
  • Sehun: Is this idea gonna get me in trouble?
  • Yixing: Maybe.
  • Sehun: Is this idea gonna cause me phisically pain?
  • Yixing: Yeah, definitely.

Every time I go out in public I wonder how many people read gay smut in their spare time

The voltron fandom has been divided for so long

But I believe

Whether you are anti-shaladin or a Shaladin shipper

Whether you love Sheith or wish that Klance would get together

Whether you believe the ages are canon or think there is no solid confirmation

We can all come together over our mutual agreement that has been resurfaced…


HOW MUCH WE ALL LOVE MATT HOLT

anonymous asked:

HinataFan: "Hinata wanted to die for Naruto!! She is so selfless!!!!" Hinata: "I'm just being selfish" God why are they like this. They praise Hinata so much that they even stop listening to her. Honestly urg

Clearly, he was soooooo happy that she came to “help” him. He made it very clear that he wanted everyone to stay away from there and she risked messing everything up so she could confess her feelings and then…what?? Die and have Naruto live with that??? He wanted the area clear SO NO ONE WOULD GET HURT. NH shippers try to make this fight super romantic but it wasn’t. Hinata confessed to Naruto but he didn’t even give her an answer and he didn’t act as though Hinata was any more important than any of the other people in the village. 

Honestly, Hinata never did anything significant to help Naruto. 

anonymous asked:

Who the fuck are these shady shippers? Why would they have been out to get you if you are both shippers? Envy? I don't understand. Do you think they are sending you hateful anons?

Envy? Power? Control? Who knows? People seem to think I’m the ruler of the entire fandom so if they take me out then they can a) take my place and be “Queen shipper” and b) turn people against me by lying about me. The thing is, I never asked to be in this position. I never tried to become “popular” or tried to be in control of anyone. I’m just a blogger like everyone else here. I don’t see myself as more worthy than anyone. I don’t see myself as the “Queen shipper.” I can’t change that others see me as this all knowing, powerful force who is secretly plotting behind the scenes. Anyone who truly knows me knows that that’s not true and that I’m extremely humble about having a large following. It disturbs me that people think they can use that against me and they allow their own irrational hatred for me to fester until they end up assuming that I have malicious intentions. I’m so tired of people taking their own feelings out on me and making me responsible for every damn thing in this ridiculous fandom and telling me what kind of person I am. 

Like I said, I’m not going into detail about what happened but I’m also not going to be silent about it. I believe I was treated unfairly and it was all because of a personal vendetta that actually had nothing to do with me and everything to do with the people who decided they were going to make up this fictional character of who they think I am in their heads and then punish me for it. 

Sarek’s Ladies

Sarek and Amanda are the bees’ knees. I’ll confess – they might be my favorite pairing ever. Part of what I find so appealing about them is how different they are and how difficult their marriage must have been, but they managed to find a way to love each other and endure. The other part of what’s so great is that there’s so little in canon, and it gives way to a lot of imagination. They’ve been central to a number of novels and fan fictions over the years, but almost everything we do know about their relationship comes from the TOS episode “Journey to Babel” and the films Star Trek III: The Search for Spock and Star Trek V: The Final Frontier. People dispute the canonicity of the animated series, but there were snippets of their lives revealed in the episode “Yesteryear,” and we were given glimpses in the 2009 rebooted Star Trek. But that’s it.

They really are cute, aren’t they?

We know a lot more about Sarek than we do about Amanda, and there are a couple of things in canon that many fans of this pairing really seem to despise. First, Sarek obviously had a female companion before he met Amanda because Spock wasn’t his first son: Sybok was. Secondly, after Amanda’s death, he eventually remarried a human woman named Perrin, whose most egregious crime was that she married our beloved Vulcan widower.

Why are people so married to the idea that Sarek and Amanda are soul mates like ole’ Dan and Ann from Where the Red Fern Grows? Or hopelessly devoted to each other like Romeo and Juliet, such that Sarek should want to kill himself following Amanda’s death? Most people who have experienced a romantic relationship have done so with more than one person, so why do we hold Sarek to this impossible standard?

I’ll start with Sybok’s mother. She’s never formally named in canon; she’s only identified as a Vulcan princess who died. The end. There’s no explanation of whether or not she was actually married to Sarek, how old she and Sarek were when they hatched Sybok, how old Sybok was when she died, or virtually anything. There’s a lot of weird fanon speculation about her, and almost all of it vilifies her in some way, because you know, she dared to have a relationship with Sarek well before he even met Amanda (and possibly before Amanda was ever even born).

Artist’s rendering of Sybok’s mom.

The TOS novel Sarek identifies her as T’Rea, a woman who married Sarek, had sex with him exactly one time, gave birth to Sybok, kept him hidden from Sarek, had their marriage annulled, and went on to teach Sybok that emotions were actually good things. Other variations on this theme include 1.) she left Sarek for another man, 2.) Sybok isn’t actually his biological son, 3.) they were never really married, or 4.) pretty much anything you can contrive that would put romantic distance between them. If there’s a theory that includes Sybok’s conception via turkey baster, I wouldn’t be shocked. 

There really is the possibility they were never married. In the TNG episode “Sarek,” Sarek strongly implies Amanda was his first wife, and if that really is the case, then perhaps he never was married to Sybok’s mother. I’m not sure if some people are aware, but it is possible to swap gametes outside of marriage. Or perhaps other fanon theories hold true and their marriage was annulled or Sybok is actually Sarek’s adopted son, reminiscent of Julius Caesar and Augustus Caesar. 

But whatever the case, Sybok’s existence strongly points to the fact that Sarek probably spent some time between the sheets with a woman other than Amanda, and given what we know about Vulcans, why is this thought so repugnant? The TOS episode “Amok Time” establishes that many Vulcan children are bonded at age seven, so it’s very likely Sarek was also. Furthermore, according to canon, Sarek was in his 60s when he met Amanda, so unless he didn’t experience his first pon farr until middle adulthood – which I imagine would be roughly analogous to getting one’s first period at age 32 – he probably had to find some way to cope with this drawback of Vulcan biology.

Now, barring any kind of Big Love scenario, Sarek was once again a bachelor by the time he met Amanda. I could write about this pairing for days, but because their relationship has been so heavily analyzed, I’ll keep it short.

Sarek clearly cared for Amanda and Amanda definitely loved him back, but I imagine they had more than a few bumps throughout their marriage. I should probably save my feelings about the bizarre way Sarek is romanticized for another post, so I’ll just point out something about their relationship that I feel is painfully obvious – Vulcans live much longer than humans, so Sarek, being the logical dude he is, must have understood Amanda was going to kick the bucket long before he did. Yet he married her anyway. And then she died. It sucks, but hey, biology can be cruel.

And then Perrin comes into play. We first meet Perrin in the TNG episode “Sarek” and she reappears in the TNG episodes “Unification I/II.” The amount of hate she gets among Sarek/Amanda shippers is truly epic. One would think she seduced Sarek in the grand style of a succubus, had Amanda murdered, and then forced Sarek to dance on her grave.

So she’s probably not guilty of home wrecking, but she’s definitely guilty of having a questionable choice in headbands. 

And that is so weird. I don’t know why Sarek took another human wife, but he did. My instincts tell me she probably reminded him of Amanda in some way, and I’m sure after an appropriate period of mourning, he decided to get on with his life. Some people move on after the death of a spouse, some people don’t. We’re allowed to handle loss in any way we find appropriate, but remember, Sarek had pon farr to deal with. Perhaps his reason for taking another wife had a basis in practicality too.  

The hate for Perrin is even more bizarre when one realizes that – again, excepting some kind of witchcraft seduction – Sarek agreed to marry her. To hate Perrin for marrying Sarek, one must also hate Sarek for marrying Perrin. I don’t think finding love after Amanda’s death meant he loved Amanda any less, but that he had room in his heart to love even more, and given the nature of the Vulcan heart, I think that’s really intriguing.

And here’s the kicker: Perrin clearly loved Sarek. He died in the TNG episode “Unification I,” and Perrin was with him until the bitter end. At that point, he was suffering from Bendii Syndrome and hadn’t managed to reconcile with his son prior to his death. It’s really very sad, but it would have been sadder still for him to have died alone.

Love can be sad and painful. How does that amulet not cause back problems?

Maybe Sarek wasn’t looking to replace Amanda as the one true love of his life; maybe he was looking for a companion. Whatever Perrin was to him, she was there for him through the Bendii Syndrome, so there’s that. 

Bottom line is, we love in all different kinds of ways. Love can last as long as lust and fade into nothing or it can metamorphose into passion or companionship. Lovers can become friends and friends can become lovers – there is no universal or right way to love. 

Maybe I say this because I don’t subscribe to the concept of soul mates. The idea of soul mates implies that we’re static beings, who exist largely to make up one half of a greater whole. But people change – at 31, I love much differently than I loved at 14 – and our purpose extends far beyond the people we love romantically. To suggest otherwise implies that a person who dies before experiencing romantic love never realized their full potential and completely cheated someone else out of the chance at true, unadulterated bliss.

No. I don’t think so. The human heart has the capacity to be a hell of a lot more resilient than that, so why shouldn’t the same be true of the Vulcan heart?

anonymous asked:

you keep saying u "started" preath and like ??????? i dont understand why because u didn't??? in fact there were many people who "shipped" them first and then one day u just come out like "guys i think i did something...... PREATH" it's so weird and embarrassing

“Many people who shipped them” honey where?! There were like five of us. Lmao.

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Bonnie/Damon + this is how you OTP (requested by sylarclouds)

“I guess that’s just how you two show your l o v e .”

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Seo Dae Young and Yoon Myeong Joo

Goodbye to my official otp of otps. This was one hell of an emotional rollercoaster, and I never thought I’d be this invested in a side couple, yet here I am. These two were everything I ever wanted in an onscreen couple; and Jin Goo & Kim Ji Won delivered every moment perfectly.