the ramblings of a bi

Straight people are so ready to erase bisexuals when it comes to keeping their precious straight characters straight, but the moment it comes to shipping a lesbian character with a man she has no interest in they’re suddenly bisexual ally #1

harley being with a man, a black man, is not oppressing anybody, it does not erase her being bi/pan, it does not erase her relationship with ivy (who was not even in suicide squad; the 2016 movie) you having a problem with people shipping her with a black man, when there’s clear build up to a romantic thing between them in the movie, is you trying to erase him, not us erasing her attraction to multiple genders. 

no offense but how come bi girls get shit all the time… like when they date boys they’re seen as ‘straight girls lying about their sexuality to get the attention of boys’ and when they date girls they’re ‘lesbians with one foot in the closet’ like why can’t people accept that bisexual girls are… you know… bisexual…

Wow I love that Lance is bi/pansexual…..I love that he is confident flirting with all different genders….I love that it didn’t take any single man to “turn him bi”…..he was just always that way……I love that Lance’s identity is totally separate from his relationship with other people…..it’s totally his and he figured it all by himself…..I love that totally confident and happy with his sexuality…..I love that his loving family supports him…….I love it so much……

i see a lot of posts about bi people saying that it’ fine if you like guys more than girls and vise versa but i never see anything like that about pan people

s/o to all my pan people that like guys more

s/o to all my pan people that like guys less

s/o to all my pan people that like girls more

s/o to all my pan people that like girls less

s/o to all my pan people that like trans or nonbinary people more

s/o to all my pan people that like trans or nonbinary people less

s/o to all my pan people that think that they’re not valid because they like some genders more than others

s/o to all my pan people

y’all are all valid and wonderful

I now it’s probably to late for this to make much of an impact, but I’d like to explain what I meant.

I was referring to trans or nonbinary people like myself who are more comfortable dating someone else who is trans or nonbinary in the s/o to all my pan people that like trans or nonbinary people more. I also did a s/o to all my pan people that like trans or nonbinary people less purely because there are some people that are slightly less comfortable with being with someone that is trans or nonbinary. The only reason I included trans people in s/o to all my pan people that like trans or nonbinary people more/s/o to all my pan people that like trans or nonbinary people less is because trans is also an umbrella term for anyone that does not identify with their assigned gender and i knew that if i didn’t include that i would get hate saying that i was being transphobic. I know that what you’re assigned gender at birth was has NOTHING to do with your gender, a trans woman is just as much a woman as a cis woman and a trans man is just as much a man as a cis man.

I want a girlfriend that I can send cute messages to whenever I want and dumb selfies and she won’t get scared away and when we’re together we can just absent mindedly touch or brush against each other or I can rest my hand on her butt or all of those things and kiss her cheek when she’s cuddled in my arms and UGH man I want a girlfriend