These are just some ideas that I’ve seen around, people have mentioned, or I personally have for rules and punishments. They do not apply to everyone nor do you have to use any of the ones listed. You can change them to be as specific or as broad as you would like. (i.e. The duration of punishment, time of day when the rules or punishments take place, the level of severity of punishment per broken rule, ext.) Please remember that the rules and punishments are to be agreed upon by other parties. If you do not feel comfortable with a rule or punishment, please let your partner know. The term I used in this post can be replaced with what ever term you feel most comfortable with. (These are only SFW Rules and Punishments)
Rules: ~Always ask permission before doing anything that could be dangerous ~Always ask permission before drinking any alcohol or soda ~Always ask permission before eating sweets/desserts/junk food ~Always listen to Caregiver ~Ask before having sweets ~Ask before buying toys/nonessentials ~Ask to stay up past your time ~Be careful when using the oven/stove ~Be honest when upset ~Bedtime is 10/11 pm ~Block anyone who is disrespectful/inappropriate/mean/rude to you ~Caregiver knows what is best for you (most of the time ;)) ~Caregiver’s word is final ~Check in throughout the day even if you do not feel like it ~Clean the dishes ~Clean up any mess you make ~Clean your room when it gets messy ~Do laundry/fold and put away clothes ~Do not curse/keep it to a minimal ~Do not disobey Caregiver ~Do not ignore Caregiver even if you are upset ~Do not let anyone take advantage of you ~Do not lie to Caregiver ~Do not purposely start fights with others ~Do not roll your eyes at Caregiver ~Do not sass/back talk Caregiver ~Do not text and drive ~Do your chores daily ~Do your homework/work before doing fun things ~Drink about 64 ounces of water a day (about eight 8 oz glasses of water) ~Eat protein ~Eat fruits and veggies everyday ~Exercise daily ~Give Caregiver your full attention when they are speaking to you ~Get enough sleep ~Hold Caregiver’s hand when you are out and about and wen crossing the street ~If you are spending time with friends, tell Caregiver who they are and where you will be and what you will be doing ~If you hurt yourself in anyway, tell Caregiver right away ~Keep a food diary ~Look both ways before crossing the street ~Make sure bills are paid ~Make your bed daily ~No being grumpy ~No coffee after 7 PM ~No going to bed upset ~No harming self ~No purging after eating ~No sweets after 8 PM ~Little outfits are only for Caregiver ~Send Caregiver a daily photo of myself ~Set the table ~Show Caregiver crafts ~Show Caregiver what you’re wearing everyday/before you leave into the public ~Take care of Pets ~Take care of yourself (personal hygiene) ~Take meds every day ~Tell Caregiver everything ~Tell Caregiver if someone or something makes you scared/uncomfortable/worried/etc. ~Tell Caregiver if someone tries anything with you ~Tell Caregiver if you are having a bad day ~Tell Caregiver if you break a rule ~Tell Caregiver is anything happens ~Tell Caregiver when you are sick ~Tell Caregiver who you belong to, owns you, etc. ~Treat Caregiver with respect ~Treat yourself with respect ~Use your manners/being polite (Please, thank you, etc.) ~When Caregiver says no, they mean no
Punishments: ~A scolding ~Anything else Caregiver sees fit ~Being grounded ~Early bedtime ~Extra chores ~No bubbles or the toys when taking a bath ~No bedtime story ~No call/video ~No computer time ~No game app(s) ~No going out ~No photos of Caregiver ~No social media ~No sticker (for reward chart/general) ~No sweets/desserts ~No toy(s) ~No tv/movies/YouTube/etc. ~No video game(s) ~No wearing Caregiver’s clothes ~Not being able to talk for a certain period of time ~Spankings ~Timeout ~Writing an apology letter to Caregiver for what rule you broke ~Writing lines
Punishments that are NEVER okay: ~Anything nonconsensual ~Anything you or your little do not feel comfortable with ~Belittling your little’s feelings about ANYTHING ~Destroying your little’ confidence ~Forcing your little to do something they are uncomfortable with ~Giving your little the “silent treatment” ~Ignoring your little for ANY period of time ~Not letting your little take care of their necessary/basic needs (eating, going to the bathroom, sleeping, etc.) ~Punishing your little because you want to even if they did nothing wrong ~Telling your little you do not love them anymore/you do not want them anymore ~Using your little as an outlet for your anger (hitting or spanking them because you are angry at something else)
For the people who refuse to believe my airport manip is ACTUALLY a manip (yes, I’ve have people argue with me over it), here’s the base photo I used side by side LOL Harry did wear the “Women are smarter” t-shirt, we just only got two very blurry fan photos, so I took it upon myself to make an HQ. Sorry for the uproar and confusion it has caused in the fandom and media lol!!
mikael and yousef are the chillest couple. like, there’s isak and even, who people look at as having this…cosmic kind of love. like the type that transcends universes and everyone notices just how soft they are around each other but also there is a lot of DRAMA and heartache and it’s very up and down. and then there’s magnus and vilde who are just that weird couple everyone kind of looks at like “?????? o…kay.” but then there’s mikael and yousef. and they’re just. chill. like they’re always smiling, and you’ll see them either walking with their arms around each other or yousef resting his head on mikael’s shoulder or mikael lying with his head in yousef’s lap while yousef plays with mikael’s hair. and they’re nearly always laughing or wearing lazy grins or content little smiles. because that’s what they are. content. content and happy and relaxed and comfortable in each other’s presence. and mikael and yousef find it kind of hilarious that people always go to them for relationship advice. because their advice is never really that helpful, actually. it’s always, “just talk to them.” “just tell them how you feel.” “just take it easy.” “just chill.”. because sure, they have their issues - every couple does - but the two of them have always, always, found their relationship something that is natural and easy for the two of them. they just go with the flow, and everyone is consistently baffled as to how the two of them make being in a relationship look so bloody easy.
Some tired selfies were the only photos of myself I got to take at gamescom but a proper shoot will follow hopefully, soon-ish.
Met a ton of great people and had such a blast talking to everyone it was overwhelming!