the most damaged people

jikook @ isac last year: hey everyone *blushes* we’re gay

vmin @ isac 2017: bITCHES WE GAY AS FUCK I WILL SPANK JIMIN RIGHT HERE 

The Loneliest people are the Kindest. The Saddest people smile the Brightest. The most Damaged people are the Wisest. All because they do not wish to see anyone else suffer the way they do.
—  Anonymous

i can’t even explain how happy it makes me that alec and magnus can talk about everything without it being weird, how they worry about each other, support each other, seek comfort in each other and how they’re slowly becoming each other’s safe place. i live for this healthy relationship that is developing in the most natural and beautiful way possible between these two damaged but amazing people who deserve all the love in this world.

Abusers can’t change for one big obvious reason: they would have to experience guilt in order to change. they would have to actually go through the pain of acknowledging that they’ve caused mountains of suffering and pain to others, that they’ve been selfish, lying, manipulative, cruel, despicable, sadistic, monstrous and horrible human being, that they’ve destroyed the ones who loved them the most, they’ve exploited and damaged the most vulnerable and defenseless people in their life, they’ve taken choice and well being from fellow human beings who did nothing to deserve it, and then on top of it they convinced those humans they did deserve it, and invalidated them on top of that so they would carry the pain of guilt as well.

Abusers will do literally anything to avoid carrying this heavy burden of guilt and shame, they don’t see anything they could gain from admitting fault and taking responsibility for their actions, they prefer having the victims carry that burden for them, because abusers are weak, they couldn’t even carry a burden they themselves created.

If abuser can’t even admit to him/herself they’ve done something wrong, if they refuse to experience guilt and insist they’ve been right and only pretend-apologize when it’s necessary to regain control of the victims, they have no way of changing. If they don’t truly feel remorse they will repeat the actions. Why wouldn’t they? They benefit from it! Changing, for them would mean giving up everything they’ve gained in their entire life, admitting it wasn’t theirs to gain in the first place, feeling the worst shame, guilt and remorse they could imagine, giving up any future benefits and having to change their life completely in hope of making up at least slightly for what they did,  even as they have no way of making up for it all. They would have to submit themselves to a life of pain, regret, self hatred, guilt and shame, all of which they caused by themselves. What abuser would ever submit to this? And for what reasons. To gain humanity? They already believe themselves to be above humans. To keep in good relations with their loved ones? They already proved they could completely destroy their loved ones without giving a shit and gain a lot in return, there never was any real relations with their “loved ones” they never even truly got to know those people, only the ways to control and harm them. 

An abuser will never ever allow him/herself to experience guilt and responsibility for their actions, they may act it out for a bit in order to get what they want but you can count on them to go back to their old ways because they don’t change. An abuser would only change thru the extreme pain of remorse and they will refuse to go thru with it, because all their lives they’ve been running away from pain, and they see no gain in experiencing any of it. And they are weak, they can’t even handle pain, unlike their victims, the burden would most likely crush them to death. They’re a person living off of sucking the life out of others, incapable of humanity, incapable of change, incapable of love, incapable of anything but demanding more and more and never having enough, and this is not something that can change or be reversed anymore. There’s nothing valuable in them anymore, they’re just an empty shell filled with knives, who paint themselves with kindness to lure as many people as possible to cut themselves.

The loneliest people
                                                                                 are the kindest.

The saddest people
                                                                                 smile the brightest.

The most damaged people

                                                                                 are the wisest.

–All because they do not wish to see anyone else suffer the way they do.

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‘The loneliest people are the kindest. The saddest people smile the brightest. The most damaged people are the wisest. All because they don’t wish to see anyone suffer the way they do’.

It kills me how greg is nice but stupit as fuck like if IIIIII was fathering an ALIEN HYBRID with aN ALIEN who was going to DIE BEFORE MOTHERING HER CHILD w only ALIENS WHO HAVR LIVED ON THIS EARTH FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS WHILE STILL NOT KNOWING HOW HUMANS WORKED, i, personally, would say “i am going to be fathering your fucking child leave me some sort of idea of how gems work and maybe tell me about a history our CHILD IS GOING TO BE CURIOUS ABOUT BECAUSE HE IS AN,ALIEN HYBRID AND GEMS CANNOT FULLY GRASP THE CONCEPT OF LEARNING AND,CHANGE”

like the more i learn about rose/greg or rose/anyone im just like. Wheres the communication. PEARL shouldnt be this confused and feel this bad if i was rose,id damage control between the two people i love the most because????? It good??

i guess a good show frustrates u but like. Breh

The truth is the world is wrong,
And society is turned upside down. And what you’ve been taught as a child is not always true.
Because human hearts hold more scars and damage than the skin ever could,
And brains and souls bury secrets unimaginable to any one else.
Because hospitals hold more Prayers than a church,
And more “I love you"s than any other place.
Because the darkest places can hold the most light,
And the ugliest and cruelest places can be the most beautiful.
Because the most damaged people can shine brighter than the happiest.
Because the world is not how you think it is, it’s not all smiles and its not the stereotypes we put on it,
It’s dark,
it’s powerful,
and it’s real.
—  A.P