the making of leave me alone

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All the feels tonight in this dad’s heart. I had a date day with Ashtyn and it really highlighted two things: 1) she really misses quality time alone with me and she misses me while I am gone at work in a deep way. 2) she is not a scatter brained toddler - she is a little woman, capable of holding thought provoking and insightful conversation all day. She is nurturing, kind to the core, and wise beyond her years. For weeks she has been discussing the option of leaving our bed and sleeping in her own bed (in our room). Tonight, she began making her bed and talked about adorning the walls around it with Star Wars art and outer space landscapes. Lindy and I tearfully stared at each other (with Riley asleep between us) while we listened to Ashtyn whisper to herself “I love this bed, but I love my sister” and weigh the pros and cons of sleeping away from us. Ultimately (with no pressure from us), she decided to hop back in our bed and reserve her bed for quiet reading time and the occasional day time nap. I don’t know if I’ll ever be ready for them to leave our bed, but when they decide to - l’ll be a sobbing mess. ❤️

anonymous asked:

I'm trans but I don't want to change my body. The thought of that frightens me the most. I'd honestly prefer to leave my body alone but it makes things so much harder to explain to people who I haven't come out to yet. What do you think?

You do not have to take hormones or have surgery to be trans.You do not have to explain yourself to anybody. You identify how you identify and if people don’t respect that they can honestly kick rocks.As long as you are confident and happy with yourself that’s all that matters. Do what you feel comfortable with and hopefully you have people that support and respect you.

Jay 

anonymous asked:

All of you're missing the point. The only reason you sit her and guess is because none of you respect the very real thing here, which is, Gillian could care less to let people into her private life unless they are her friend, family member, or lover. Last I checked none of the people on tumblr were any of those things to her. You guys look so dumb when you argue about a stranger's life like this, a stranger who doesn't even wish for you to know what she does in her private time. Leave her alone.

Yeah and than you want me to believe she told ppl at a book signing/meeting about her boyfriend?
So could you guys make up your minds already because on one side you claim she is to private and wouldn’t tell and than it’s said/reported that she talked about her boyfriend doing this and that…

And if you don’t like what I talk about on my blog you know where you can find the block button 🙃 bye bye 👋🏼

anonymous asked:

Jace and Clary just need to take a nap for like...a month and let the downworlders handle things. Especially Clary. Her ass always gets itself in trouble(as seen with her making the blood magic deal when Luke was missing and after Magnus warned her not to do so..).

they’re just so annoying lmao, am i supposed to like them at this point? they’re ignorant and selfish and need to leave the downworlders alone tbh. wow s2 has made me drop my kids, i can’t believe it

pAnswer the questions, then tag 20 followers you’d like to get to know better.
I was tagged by: @the-rob-and-rich-fan (the damn tag isn’t working for some idiot reason.)
Name: Whitley
Gender: Total female
Sexuality: Straight
Star Sign: Scorpio
Height: 5′6″
Hogwarts House: Gryffindor
Favorite color: black and blue
Favorite animal: horses and snakes, though they make a horrible combination 
Current Time: 20:30
Cats or Dogs: both. Though I do prefer dogs.
Favorite Fictional Characters: Gabriel, Crowley, Balthazar, Lucifer, Mikael
Number of blankets I sleep under: 2 or 3 depending on how cold it is
Favorite Singer/Band: Black Veil Brides, Station Breaks, All Time Low
Dream Trip: just drop me in the British Isles and leave me alone!
Dream Job: EMT or K9 police officer. I just want to make the world a better place
When has this blog hit its peak: probably hasn’t gotten there yet
Why did you decide to get tumblr: I was bored
When was this blog created: A little over a year ago, I think.
Why did I pick my URL: Because I started off as an imagines blog for Crowley. Now I’m posting fanfics.

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anonymous asked:

THAT IS SUCH A CUTE KITTEN!

Awe! How sweet! Look Cas, you have a fan!!!! You are such a cute widdle furbaby! *makes kissy noises*

Castiel: *pushes mommy out of the way*

Please help…. the hooman keeps taking pictures of me!!!! I tried stealing her phone but she found it…. she has all these rules… no playing in the lizard cage.. leave the birds alone… get off the fish tank…. no chewing on her toes… get off her laptop… no chewing on her necklace…

Cas! get off the laptop please! I’m trying to answer this sweet anon!!! 

Ok where was I? Oh yes, why thank you!!! He’s a little imp, but he’s a cute one!!!! Look at that little face:

I hope you have a lovely night Nonnie!! Kisses from me and Castiel!!!!!!!! xoxo

chronolockcd  asked:

♡ - OTP for your muse? ⚔ - NOTP with your muse? ☰ - Fun random fact about the mun!

@chronolockcd  || salty af munday meme || thank you, <3

“OTP for my muse?” 

OMG, THIS IS SO HARD. Originally, it was Captain Canary, like a million percent, but then @atomiism came into my life and made it white atom ( and @nationalcityy makes me really love super canary ) this question is rude. i cannot choose one. [[ and this is totally me omitting all the people from other fandoms i totally otp sara with– dammit im a ship whore, leave me alone]] [[ jk i love you and thanks for sending this ask ]] 

“NOTP for my muse?”

Ugh, Whitehawk– not about it. Also Time Canary– also not about it ( at this point and prolly forever ). lightweight Cannarrow just cuz damn Oliver, you hurt my daughter too much kay?

“Random fact about the mun!”

RANDOM… ugh. I’m back home visiting my mum atm in Louisiana and we’re going to get margaritas tonight, so I may or may not post drunken gibberish replies later!!? :D

Honestly…It makes me really uncomfortable when people draw Leia’s Episode 4 Dress as being really tight with a big slit up the leg, because that’s not how it was at all??

It doesn’t even cling to her breasts or anything?? There’s like…a Small knee length slit, I guess, if you look hard enough. But this, and most other outfits of Leia’s, strike me as incredibly modest and professional. In fact, Lets take a look at that for a second. 

Look at what she chooses to wear on Cloud City in Episode 5.


Like…It’s a dress with pants? And I think this was probably an outfit she either A.) Packed for the trip on the falcon or B.) Was provided to her by Lando, And I find it hard to believe that Lando would force an outfit on her, considering he was very nice to her in previous scenes. She would have chosen it out of several different options.

I won’t add pictures, but her White Hoth outfit also consists of a jacket and pants. It’s sensible. They’re in the freezing cold. Why would she wear something sexy. She Wouldn’t.

There are honestly only two instances over the course of three movies where she /kind/ of shows skin. Instance 1 is at the end of Episode 1 where she…Kind of, I guess, Has some cleavage showing?

Like Barely. Keep in mind as well that this dress is floor length and has long sleeves. The second instance is at the end of Episode 6 on Endor

This slit is definitely more revealing, but to be honest, I can’t remember a single time in Episode 6 where it was apparent? They Honestly may have just done this for promotional material? Other pictures of the dress come off as much more modest

I’ve worn dresses shorter than this, so, I wouldn’t exactly consider this revealing by any means.

So when does Leia put on something a little sexier? There’s gotta be one instance right?

Yeah, Against her fucking will.

What I’m getting at here is that I hate the weird sexualization of Leia in Nerd Culture. It’s literally so rampant. It’s not surprising to me whatsoever, but it still makes me mad.

Leia Organa, a 19 year old Freedom Fighter personally fucking chose to dress modestly and people still depict her as this oversexualized Male Gaze Fantasy Being and it’s really disappointing tbfh.

Monday 8:27am
I woke up with you on my mind.
You called me babe last night —
my heart is still pounding.

Tuesday 10:53pm
Today I realized we won’t work.
What we are is hurting her.
And I think she matters more to me than you do.

Wednesday 11:52pm
I broke things off with you today.
She barely said a word.
I’ve never regretted anything more than this.

Thursday 4:03pm
I shouldn’t have sent that message.
You shouldn’t have been so okay with receiving it.

Friday 9:57pm
I almost messaged you today.
I didn’t.

Saturday 8:49pm
I’m walking around town in search of alcohol.
They say that liquor numbs the pain of having a broken heart.
I want to put that to the test.

Sunday 2:32am
I heard you texted a girl you’ve never spoken to before.
I wonder if it’s because you’re trying to replace me.
I can’t help but wish you weren’t.
I thought I was irreplaceable.

—  a week with you on my mind, c.j.n.