I've gotten comfortable with Mr.
Soooo I’ve had the same SD for 8 months and counting.
I get $2k to spend time with him, kiss on him…no sex 😭 Yea I said it. No sex.
Keep in mind this is rare. Girls ask me all the time where to find platonic daddies….
You don’t. You make them.
He wanted all the goods. They all do 🌚 but I’ve been holding out and so far survey says….
Now here’s the ugly truth…
I’ve had to kiss a lot of frogs. 🤢 [i mean they’re all frogs right?] But I mean is that I’ve had to deliver the cookie with many SDs. I’ve only had 2 that didn’t get much from me.
#1 [we will call him Eli….no not Pope….see what I did there? 😏]
Met him at the strip club back in the day…
Lmao who am I?
Met him 5 years ago in the club. He came to see one of my friends…well I don’t really have friends but you know…more on that later.
She didn’t come in that day. Neither did the other girl he came to see. The sugar gods were smiling down on my that day y'all…
So I convinced him that he needed to dance with me. He was a Scorpio so that’s an accomplishment in and of itself…Scorpios stick to what they know [YES SIGNS MATTER….more on that in my members only tell all 💓]
So I get him to dance with me. He tells me he eats the other girls out. [🤢🤢🤢] But in the back of my mind I’m pep talking myself bc I know he racks out.
Defining moment for me…I let him do it. Pretend the fuck out of that for 20 mins and walk out with 1500
Keep in mind that I knew the place I worked at very well and since we had specials I would count each dance instead of doing the special.
So I get his digits.
We go out and he gives me like $500 or something….🤔📝
So fast forward to me hanging with my “friend” she gets to talking about how her SDs stopped fucking with her…. 🤷🏽♀️
She calls him and he makes up excuses about why he can’t see her….
Well…I told him to cut her off.
He spent 1500 every week for like 2-3 months 🤔📝
Then I convince him that I need to replace his admin for his business. At that point I’m making 1700 every 2 weeks doing paperwork in his office. He would pay for every expense I had…car, nails, phone, my house….everything.
I didn’t have to do not a thing with this man after I left the club 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
That lasted 2 years. 🤔📝 yep 2 years of living comfortably raking in that dinero, the yen, them pounds….
Now that I think about it, I’m about to teach y'all about finances. I blew every red scent 😭😒
Now 4 years later [last winter] I find #2….I moved from LA to NY.
Keep in mind I had gone through a few SDs that wanted me to deliver.
#2 [we will call him Mr.] It’s been 8 months and all I’ve done is kiss him. I get $2k a month…he’s also taken me shopping and spent a substantial amount each time…[receipts are my recent money posts]
I went MIA bc I thought I was transitioning into a spoiled gf but let me tell y'all…
I WANT ALL THE COIN 🗣
So recently he bought me a new AC unit and an expensive ass camera for my creative ventures. I’ve still done nothing.
He’s currently on amazon ordering me new beats bc mine “broke” 🙄 [my sister wants a pair]
1. I’m ruthless and nobodies sugar daddy is safe. Adopt this thought process. Be ruthless.
2. No one is your friend. No one. Benjamin will never do you dirty.
3. You can’t “find a platonic daddy”. They are home grown and not everyone can do it.
4. I’m not the rule. I’m the exception. [Let this soak in] Don’t think you’re going to pop into the bowl and get the same results. Most don’t. I’ve been at this for a min. My natural personality allows me to be crafty, witty, calculated etc. I didn’t read some book. I tested my own theories and they worked. Sometimes they didn’t.
5. I’m old school. I may have found Mr. on tinder but for the most part I have rich men falling over me every where I go. I can teach you the game, but it’s up to you to apply it. In some cases, personality is what trips you up. Things I have naturally are things you’ll have to learn. It takes time to find a good SD and sink your claws in. [notice the time difference between the 2?]
That’s all for now cuz I’m at the gym but stay tuned!