Please. I'm begging you. Having short hair doesn't make me a guy. I have boobs. I have an ultra feminine face. My voice is the highest thing ever. Hell some days I even get called a guy when I'm wearing the ultra feminine flouncy uniform shirts. The amount of times old ladies have told my manager about the 'lovely young man who helped them' or mothers who tell their children to 'Give the toy to the man' is killing me inside I'm a lesbian not a man
I get that a lot. I guess my voice is not as deep as I think and being a bigger dude give my body curves in a feminine way. But I get called miss, ma'am, and she all the time. Mostly over the phone. But when they do it I will act normal and call that little old lady sir. Most realize and fix themselves some are just dense and tell me “I’m a miss!” So I tell them “well I’m male but it hasn’t stopped you from calling me a girl.” None really give me an apology.
A side note on that when I was dating my wife we went to the restaurant named for a kind of pepper the waitress kept saying “you ladies” when she would talk to us. I tried the passive aggressive approach and when she came to take our order I told my date “So? What’s it like to date a lesbian” she turned a bright red but the server missed it and called me a lady though the whole meal. I paid and left and my now wife stayed behind and told her I wasn’t a woman and I was deeply offended. She begged hot to ask me back in so she could apologize but I just took my wife home and we never went back.