the great communicator

Two nights ago, I was admitted to the ER because of how much pain I was in. I texted a friend to ask how to go about getting a blessing in that situation, and she showed up with two YSA guys, and a bag full of things I’d need. She stayed with me the whole night and only left in the morning when my Mum arrived. It was like 9:30 at night when the guys came to give me a blessing, and it just demonstrated to me how great the community is in this ward. We’re a family. They dropped everything to come to me straight away and I felt so loved. I even got a text from bishop checking up on me- he and his wife offered to come and stay with me if I needed it. Today, the missionaries brought me brownies and shared a message with me. They’re going to come with me to an appointment that I’m quite anxious about as the test is pretty invasive. I know  my words are jumbled (I’m on a lot of pain meds and antibiotics lol) but my heart is very full.


Usually when I take a day off it’s for something sensible and practical, and it’s often for someone else.

Today I took a day off just for fun that was all for me. And it was AWESOME!!

(Big thanks to my buddy John who works at Wizards for inviting me to visit, and also a big thanks to Alison Luhrs for taking the time to meet me while I was there!!)

Moon Signs 2

Aries: vibrant, surrounds themselves with many people, want to leave an impression on people, passionate, feel like they need to be praised, live for the moment, get bored easily, stubborn, impatient, craves something new.

Taurus: patient, give a peaceful presence, avoid anger, great manners, set in their ways, enjoy routine, materialistic, sentimental, stick to their goals, like to help others, supportive.

Gemini: great at communication, witty, enjoys being at home, active imagination, ambitious, restless, moody, fast learners, charming, leader, enjoys being in love, worry about being bored.

Cancer: empathetic, surprisingly romantic, make you feel comfortable, creative, vulnerable, can lack motivation, clingy, loving, can act irrationally, good at making others smile.

Leo: confident, needs to preserve their pride, great sense of humor, love to be admired, entertaining, organized, generous, like to control situation, jealous, defensive.

Virgo: observant, a high achiever, chilled, live in the moment, productive, enjoy detail, like to run errands, trustworthy, appreciate simplicity, laid-back, they really listen.

Libra: has a brilliance with words, very social, like to keep things light-hearted, avoid confrontation, enjoy having the last word, need intellectual stimulation, see flaws in things, strong.

Scorpio: has a terrific presence, good at solving problems, enigmatic, intelligent, emotional drama is fulfilling, go after what they want, prone to mood swings, has a lot of love.

Sagittarius: honest, dreamer, good sense of humor, upbeat, open-minded, impatient, impulsive, need time to escape, bright, independent, enjoys tackling new things.

Capricorn: mature, philosopher, deep, enjoy a challenge, strong-willed, avoids emotions by being productive, like to get their own way, concentrate well, does well under pressure, great with friendship.

Aquarius: stands out, good humor, straight-forward, down to earth, strong ego, need freedom, take criticism badly, likes to observe, have a cool aura, good at cheering you up.

Pisces: compassionate, intuitive, fun to be around, push-over, they avoid important matters, become overwhelmed by emotions, sweet, soft-hearted, not in touch with reality, nonjudgmental.

Honestly lesbian and gay exclusionists sound dumb as fuck. You sound like those people who try to compete for who “had it worse”. You know, the people who are always one uping and invalidating every experience you have, only to shout over you exclaiming, “IT WAS WORSE FOR ME. I DESERVE ALL THE HELP AND ATTENTION. YOU DON’T. YOUR EXPERIENCE IS INVALID BECAUSE I DEEM IT TO BE NOT AS BAD AS MINE!”

And it’s funny because the rest of the LGBT+ community DO face shit just as bad as you. Asexual/aromantic people are forced into gross “therapy” to try to “fix” them. Bisexuals/pansexuals are kicked out by their parents. Transgender/non binary people are violently attacked for not conforming to gender roles. And because you feel the need to exclude all of these people and put the spotlight on yourself, they all suffer in silence as you fucking YELL AT THEM, TELLING THEM THEY’RE NOT LGBT+ BECAUSE YOU SUPPOSEDLY FACE MORE OPPRESSION.

You are harmful. You are toxic. You are responsible for kicking these groups down so that you can stand on their backs and yell about “LGBT” (more like LG) rights.

If you’re not for all of LGBT+, including but not limited to; bisexuals, asexuals, lesbians, gays, trans folk, non binary folk, aromantics, pansexuals, etc. Then you’re for NONE of LGBT+ and you don’t deserve to call yourself LGBT+ and be a part of this community because LGBT+ is about love and the right to love and live authentically as your true self and for you to take that away from someone because they’re a different type of LGBT+ is disgusting.

I’m so tired of being oppressed in my own community.


elementary rewatch ❖ heroine (10/11)


Thurston is a great communicator! Watch his head movement: you can see he is motioning at the door telling me what he wants. But he has to hang out with dad because he keeps waking mom up. Bonus points if you can guess the game ;)

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achillean boys are amazing and so strong. all of us.

  • gay boys who are feminine or masculine or somewhere in between
  • ace mlm who don’t fit into society’s idea of men and sex
  • bi and pan boys who are told that it’s a phase or that they need to pick a side
  • trans and nonbinary mlm who don’t feel like they fit into the community
  • hypersexual mlm
  • mlm of color
  • mlm with disabilities and chronic illnesses
  • autistic mlm
  • closeted mlm
  • closeted mlm who never want to come out
  • closeted mlm who are desperate to come out
  • closeted mlm who can’t come out
  • mlm with mental illnesses
  • traumatized mlm
  • lower class mlm
  • mlm who are oppressed on any other axis
  • and mlm who aren’t
  • whether you fit into all of these categories
  • or none of them
  • or if you’re a category all to yourself

i’m proud of you for being who you are in a world that still wants to silence us



Free for all


I like that “good morning, princess” / “morning baby” kinda relationship. The no games, great communication, lots of sex, lots of kissing, lots of cuddling, lots of flirting, lots of being goofy kind of relationship. The kind that makes you want to run 100 miles, read books, clean up your bad habits kind of love.