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10 Questions It’s Never OK To Ask A Transgender Person According to Against Me!’s Laura Jane Grace

“Maybe you’ve heard of Against Me!, the incredible Florida punk rock band whose literate and voluble anthems have been celebrated by basically every major music outlet and Bruce Springsteen.

Early this year, the band released Transgender Dysphoria Blues, its critically acclaimed sixth album and first since lead singer/songwriter Laura Jane Grace came out as transgender in 2012.

Grace stopped by BuzzFeed recently for some real talk about the annoying/hurtful questions transgender people deal with every day.

If you want to be smarter about transgender issues, or just a generally better human, here are 10 questions to never ask a transgender person.

See the full list here