the good things in life are not things

So we were talking about how one of the partners was going to retire, and how the partner I was on audit with today was going to take over as partner on one of our other audits, and I said, “Wow, but you’ve been lead on that audit for years, who else in the office really knows it enough to take over?”

And she replied, “Well, I was thinking you, probably.”

And it threw me for a moment, because I still think of myself as being “new,” but I’ve been working on that audit since I started (so four years now), and I’ve worked on all the parts in some aspect over the years, so I am the person in the office who knows it and auditing enough that I could take over.

And that’s kind of a weird feeling. Because on the one hand, I know I could manage it, even though it’s a bigger one, but on the other hand, everything I do still makes me feel like I’m just faking actually knowing what I’m doing and the more responsibility I get, the more likely it is they’ll realize I’m a big fake.

But on the other other hand, that is probably a big part of why I *do* do a good job, because I am so worried about getting it wrong that I… don’t get it wrong?

the thing about millennials who don’t want kids is I feel like a lot of them are deeply On Board for their friends’ kids

like I’m among the minority of my friends in definitely for sure wanting kids someday

but each of my parenthood-eschewing friends has claimed a different role in my future offspring’s life and they seem very excited to play it

so we as a generation may have fewer children

but I feel like they’ll be the most supported and loved children imaginable

hey, shoutout to non-passing trans boys/mlm who:

-constantly have to deal with being misgendered

-have long hair!! (either bc theyre in the closet or by choice)

-have big hips/a large chest and feel like they can never pass

-are unable to transition currently (either because of financial or family situations)

-feel like they’ll never be seen as a man

-have high pitched “feminine” voices!

-get told theyre just straight girls

-feel like theyll never be accepted

-are scared theyll never find a boy who loves them

I promise that things will get better for you!! you’re just as much of a boy as any cis dude, and in time you will be able to transition and you will find a boy who loves you!!!

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“why do you love lance so much?” why do you NOT?! look at him! this boy can light up any room he enters

bonus:

mate, do u ever think about how Iconic River Song was??

  • trashed her husbands ride so bad that the universe exploded
  • lurked around at her parent’s wedding for The Lolz
  • faked being surprised at shit for 100 years??
  • basically threatened 2 let the universe die if the doctor didn’t marry her??
  • one time she and the doctor had a fight that was so bad he went and lived with some otters for a month
  • shoots everything (including hats) and it turns the doctor on
  • poisoned a dude so she could sell him the antidote 
  • probably had sex with cleopatra???
  • went back in time and became her mum’s best friend so she could kill her future husband in the future
  • asked some sontarans if they were on a hens night 
  • jumped offed things such as a building and also the empty vacum of space so the doctor would catch her
  • hung out with her parents and husband and did really crazy shit before they knew who she was
  • made constant jokes about how much sex her and her husband have while she doin said crazy shit 
  • also when they finally knew who she was, she didn’t let up on the inuendos at all
  • hair that expanded like the universe 
  • even tho she constantly breaks out of prison, she always goes back 2 be polite 2 the guards 
  • became an archaeologist to stalk her man and get paid 4 it
  • had sex with the doctor for 24 years straight lmao A Legend 

i keep trying to memorize every detail of the moments i live in. in the soreness of my legs from standing so long at a concert, the chill of the night, the patterns of a tablecloth, the oily texture in my mouth after eating fried bananas. i keep trying to memorize the feelings, the quiet contentedness, the laughter, the excitement. i keep trying to memorize the people, their smiles, the way they speak, what makes them laugh. i’m constantly on the cusp of the next part of my life and that’s just so.. strange. but it makes it so much easier to find happiness no matter what’s happening to me, in a way? because i’m already kind of looking at life with those rose-colored glasses of nostalgia, simply because i know these are times i’ll never be able to live again, and these are people i might not always have, and that makes it so much easier to appreciate everything i might miss later. 

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Rejoice in all of this Black Girl Magic ✨

anonymous asked:

who are your favorite minor pro heros in bnha?

I feel like this was incredibly predictable haha if you mean even more minor then Kamui Woods and Edgeshot are definitely faves of mine, I wish I could see more of them !!!

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Finn Wolfhard dropping a box of Froot Loops in the Behind the Scenes video for Sonora 

Reasons Why I'm Moving to Japan:

-THEY DON’T SLEEP ON MONSTA X

-THEY RECOGNIZE MONSTA X’S TALENT

-JAPAN IS MONBEBE AF

-THEY TREAT MY BABIES LIKE THEY DESERVE TO BE TREATED

-DID I MENTION THEY LOVE MONSTA X?